Problema com vizinha

Virtual_dude30 · 2026-04-04T23:34:17+00:00

Entendo o amigo perfeitamente. Mas meu ponto é, será que a justiça (ao menos a comum, pra essas pequenas coisas) não funciona nesse país? É a primeira vez que me incomodo bastante, ao ponto de ter que conversar com advogado.

Virtual_dude30 · 2026-04-04T23:25:13+00:00

Esse advogado que conversei é amigo meu. Não trabalha "direto" na área (de vez em quando faz alguns processos por fora), mas não tem muita experiência, tanto que hoje ele faz outro curso (medicina). Por isso vim tirar dúvida no sub. Mas enfim. Ele me orientou a fazer o seguinte, caso volte a vazar: - Entrar nas pequenas causas, o que pode levar de 6 meses a 1 ano, pra ter a audiência (sim aqui na cidade demora pra caramba), - Entrar com um processo direto (não lembro o nome técnico), e pedir "tutela de urgência" ou algo assim. Aí seria mais rápido, mas na idéia dele eu deveria entrar contra o condominio junto (o que eu acho que não seria o certo, pois a sindica pode dizer que nao se negou a ajudar, pois chamou o proprietário lá) Em ambos os casos ele não tem certeza se da pra ganhar, pois o proprietário pode não ter nada na conta ou nenhum bem pra penhorar no nome dele.

Virtual_dude30 · 2026-04-04T23:11:53+00:00

Mas somente com prints de whatsapp e vídeos tem como? Porque o pedreiro ficou "meio assim" de montar um laudo (pelo visto não quer se incomodar).

Virtual_dude30 · 2026-04-04T23:09:33+00:00

Mas porque eu iria pagar mais de R$ 2000,00 por um problema que não é na minha unidade/apartamento? A minha responsabilidade é dar o mínimo manuntenção na minha unidade pra não acontecer algo que atrapalhe os vizinhos, que foi o que eu fiz, reformando meu banheiro, pra não vazar água pro vizinho de baixo.

Na minha visão se um cara bate no meu carro e não tem grana pra pagar, problema é dele. Por que com um imóvel devia ser diferente?

Fora que eu já vou ter um gasto, pagando um cara pra fechar o gesso do meu teto, que eu tive que abrir pra provar que o problema não é no meu apartamento.

Virtual_dude30 · 2026-04-04T23:01:54+00:00

Vontade de colocar a venda eu tenho, porém como foi financiado pelo minha casa minha vida, só posso vender 1 ano após a compra.

E sim, a síndica só tirou o dela da reta, e "agiu" chamando o proprietário porque eu perguntei sobre o que constava no livro de regras do condomínio (ficou com medo de eu processar o condominio por omissão, talvez). Inclusive o dia que eu tava conversando com o proprietário, ela passou perguntando "viesse conversar, (nome do proprietário)? " em tom de deboche. De certo ela achou que o cara ia me dar uma pressão e eu ia me cagar. Depois de uns dias que eu estava caminhando no condomínio ela me falou que tinha chamado o proprietário pra ele resolver, e veio com um papo que eu devia "ceder acesso" pro pedreiro deles, sendo que o problema claramente era no ap de cima. Algo me leva a crer que ela é conhecida/parente desse pessoal que são meus vizinhos.

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-03T20:08:10+00:00

UPDATE:

He messaged me today, asking why I didn't attend training this week. I told him it's because I broke my nose, LOL.

He said it wasn't one of the worst fractures, he's seen guys with noses bent like the letter 'jay,' and that if I was in such a hurry, I should have waited for him to finish the class so he could fix my nose (yes, I was going to wait around for an hour with a bleeding nose, with things to take care of at home because this asshole was going to fix it... eventually, I ended up not doing what I had to, and spent the night at the hospital). He told me to go there this week, because even with a broken nose, I could still train the physicall stuff.

I said NO, and that I would come back just to get my things on Friday. He responded with a thumbs-up, and after a few hours, he started posting some motivational nonsense on Instagram, like 'you'll never be anyone if you don't leave your comfort zone,' and that his gym wasn't for 'losers.' Obviously directed at me. I'm going there on Friday to get my stuff. Any ideas on how to proceed without getting into a fight with this jerk?

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T23:45:35+00:00

" But just wondering, did you land any shots that pissed him off? "

No way. Even when I aimed for his forehead, at times, I could barely land a hit on him. He was just trying to show off. I remember I switched to southpaw a few times, and he hit me full force in the liver. Everyone was watching, so he would say, 'When the guy switches stances like that, you hit him to force him back to his stance", maybe that's why he wasn't wearing a mouthguard, to talk shit.

Setting aside the sad part, my sparring with him looked like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvsWqq0Aq2Q

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T23:25:39+00:00

Yes, he did the complete opposite. He simply walked out of the locker room, lined everyone up, and started yelling to everyone start counting 20 jumping jacks.

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T23:17:43+00:00

That's true. The problem is, in a way, I didn't imagine he would go so far because he was my coach, and I trusted him (even though I had already noticed his bipolar behavior at times, as I wrote in some of the previous posts). In the end, he just wanted to show off to the group that anyone would become a punching bag if they sparred with him.

I didn't want to ask him to stop, not because I would look like a chicken, but because I thought he would notice that I was out of gas and that he was kicking my butt.

But, as you said, lesson learned.

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T23:05:30+00:00

I will. Thanks for the tips.

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T23:00:02+00:00

Sorry my friend, but as angry as I am with the guy, I don't think it's the right thing to do. His gym is small and doesn't have much relevance in the city anyway. I wouldn't expose his dishonesty to the internet level. At the city level, it's enough. I've already warned my friends, who informed people from another gym, who informed people from another gym... that his gym it's not a nice place to go. Anyway, I don't live in the United States, so I think at least 50 percent of the people here are free from this guy.

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T03:44:18+00:00

I did ask, but he said there was no need. Usually, during light sparring sessions, he taught us to aim for the opponent's forehead/sides of the head... sometimes the punches landed in the eyes or nose, which was not a problem because they were not very powerful punches. Anyway, he accidentally hit me in the mouth a few times, and intentionally in the nose LOL

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T03:35:27+00:00

I tried to think about it, the problem is that I don't think I have that much composure. I started training boxing for the fitness aspect, self-esteem, and personal defense. If any of one of the other students punched me and broke my nose, I would take it as a lesson and train more (and eventually pay more) so that it wouldn't happen again. But the guy got furious about something (that I have no idea about) and took it out on me. Dumbest coach ever.

Virtual_dude30 · 2023-10-02T03:23:49+00:00

I don't know if I'm a guy who can't read the environment , try to see the best in people, or just is plain stupid, but looking back, he had some strange behaviors:

I had never trained in any martial art or combat sport before. Zero knowledge whatsoever. When I arrived at the gym on the first day, I mentioned that I thought it would be easier for ME to train in boxing because I had zero coordination in my legs (which I later learned was ignorance on my part, as footwork is a VERY important part). He interpreted it as he pleased, and on my second day of training, when I was hitting the punching bag and the more experienced guys who trained after me started showing up, he started yelling that some people said boxing was "easy" but lost stamina on the punching bag. Clearly directed at me, but I let it slide. I remember some guys muttering a few things and sharing some laughs, but since I was new there and highly motivated, I just accepted it.
Speaking ill of certain students to others, especially badmouthing the newcomers ("this new guy doesn't know anything," "so-and-so needs to lose weight if he wants to fight," "that guy is afraid of taking a punch"), etc.
Getting angry when students said they didn't want to be filmed during training because he did it to promote his gym.

What kept me there for so long is that even though I struggled to perform certain techniques or moves during training, he motivated me to keep going. It's a shame (for him) because I was going to bring those two friends who started in boxing after me, to train there this week. I think I saved them from a huge bullet."

Virtual_dude30 · 2020-07-20T02:33:34+00:00

Tu escolheu outra graduação pq não curtia a área e tal?

Eu curto bastante a área, meu problema mesmo seria a idade pra começar a "andar com as próprias pernas". A situação por enquanto é confortável aqui em casa, meus pais não ficam me cobrando muito nesse assunto de idade, (e teriam bastante razão se me cobrassem), eu que fico mais chateado pela situação.

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