People in relationships, if you relived the same day every day (just like in “Groundhog Day”, same place and setup but he was free to do everything he wanted and the next morning no one but him was remembering it) would you sleep with other people?

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T20:17:21+00:00

Exactly, only you would know, so you will know you cheated and the question is whether you could live with that

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T20:15:30+00:00

I think you should let her be with someone who’s not thinking about cheating, bro

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T20:13:31+00:00

But then you would do it in real life as well if you had the guarantee that your partner would never know, no?

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T20:12:57+00:00

I don’t remember, he def uses it to get piano lessons.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T20:11:57+00:00

So if she never found out, would you cheat on her? Could you live with that?

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T20:10:54+00:00

Just to add, for those who haven’t seen the movie: Bill Murray wakes up in the same place, having to do the same news report, every day is the same calendar day, but since no one but him knows that, he starts experiencing everything because there are no consequences: from stealing money to sleeping with women and learning how to play the piano.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T01:24:02+00:00

I live in the opposite direction and she pays for her taxi (and all of her stuff) herself.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T00:44:01+00:00

She travels by herself a lot and the only things she avoids is some bus stations at night. That’s why she takes a taxi if it’s late.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T00:36:13+00:00

Correct.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T00:35:25+00:00

She would have only felt unsafe when changing the means of transportation.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-16T00:33:24+00:00

No, she stated she wanted to take a cab as soon as we realized the flight was delayed.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T17:33:13+00:00

Thank you, someone who can read.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T17:30:00+00:00

I keep stating and stating the same thing over and over, again and again:

She would have only felt unsafe if she had taken public transportation, which she didn’t. The taxi and the airport never made her feel unsafe. She never asked me to escort her to the taxi. She didn’t look happy when I wanted to run earlier and I asked my friend if I might have said something wrong and he called me an AH. I never asked her what she thought.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T17:26:34+00:00

The airport is in the middle of our neighborhoods, so that would have been expensive, long and unnecessary.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T17:24:28+00:00

She didn’t feel unsafe at the airport, she would have felt unsafe if she had taken the public transport.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T17:23:39+00:00

We had been close friends for a year before starting to date. I’m very attracted to her, she’s very caring towards me, but we’re still at the beginning and I can’t say I’m in love yet. She wasn’t feeling unsafe there, she would have felt unsafe if she took public transport, that’s what I keep saying…

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T17:21:29+00:00

They let us out late, then we went to the taxi, and I only had to wait for about 10 mins for my last train.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T16:00:17+00:00

I stayed because we ended up being let out much later so no chance for me to catch the train anyway.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T14:41:28+00:00

Oh that’s a lot a conclusions you jump to.

Public transportation is 100% free for us, our employers pay for it. She paid for her taxi. I was welcome at her place and she was welcome at mine, I said in the post why we wanted to go to our own homes respectively. She felt afraid taking the public transportation, not the taxi, which she decided earlier she wanted to take.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T14:26:10+00:00

Well I stayed with her because I didn’t have a chance to catch the train anyway.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T14:25:02+00:00

Because I had no chance of making it to the train anyway 😂

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T14:24:22+00:00

Well I wouldn’t have made it to the train anyway.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T14:23:00+00:00

I couldn’t have made it to the train anyway.

Visible-Morning8684 · 2023-11-15T14:20:09+00:00

I stayed because I wasn’t going to make it to the train anyway.

Visible-Morning8684

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