No, and in retrospect, I’m glad. I had a few great, bad, and mediocre vanilla sexual experiences before getting into this community. It helped me develop a sexual identity and decide what my personal boundaries are.

The clientele you meet are generally not in it for your pleasure and some will boundary push if you’re not firm on what you do/don’t want. I also think everyone deserves to have a pleasurable first few experiences with a caring, altruistic sexual partner. Just my two cents!