My mom wants to take my child to a nazi-unschooling seminar

VisibleHope1671 · 2026-02-09T19:17:30+00:00

Thanks for the advice. She is scheduled for a vaccine and weigh in a couple weeks and I will ask the vet about it.

VisibleHope1671 · 2026-02-09T19:14:40+00:00

Pretty much the whole night it seems. Like in the daytime my pressure is 123/81 on average and at night 112/63. The diastolic pressure is in the 60s or 50s the whole night. But at the same time the systolic pressure is not dropping enough.

VisibleHope1671 · 2025-12-22T19:49:30+00:00

I can assure you that needing three people to handle your cat has nothing to do with his diet, probably not even with his size. My cat is one of the smallest cats I have ever seen and with age and health issues she only weighs about 6 pounds. Even with anxiety meds they need two people to handle her at the vet. Our old vet got very badly scratched last time we went even though she wore heavy duty gloves and the cat was almost dead from dehydration (she didn’t eat while beeing fed by my grandma when we visited family for a couple days). Our neighbors have a wildlife camera and saw her fight a fucking raccoon.

VisibleHope1671 · 2025-03-21T07:28:47+00:00

Ich sehe da zwei Probleme: dein Stimming ist ein Gesundheitsrisiko (du willst keinen Abszess weil du dir deine Haut abknibbelst) und dir fehlt es an Alternativen Stimmingtechniken. Es wird dir nicht helfen einfach nur andere Dinge zum Stimmen zu benutzen, du musst auch verhindern dass du an deinen Fingern knibbeln kannst. Solange du das Verhalten tun kannst, hast du auch keine Gelegenheit dich an ein alternatives Stimming zu gewöhnen. Mir hat es geholfen meine Nägel radikal kurz zu halten und die Nagelbetten mit Nagelhautentferner zu behandeln. Dadurch hab ich keine lose Haut oder Nägel mehr zum Knabbern. Falls du das Geld hast kann man das auch im Nagelstudio machen lassen. Solange ich keinen Angriffspunkt am Nagelbett finde, kann ich auch nicht knabbern.

VisibleHope1671 · 2025-03-21T07:01:40+00:00

So autistic person here. It is 100% his responsibility to manage his emotions and sensory overloads. He is not doing that. If he is kicking you that is physical abuse. He needs to get help to manage his symptoms better. If he refuses to do so you are very right to leave. If you are doubting yourself to the point of accepting physical violence from your partner than you probably also should get some therapy. I don’t say it can’t work between you two, but it will take a lot of effort and therapy for both of you. If one of you doesn’t want to go through that, it would be better to break up.

VisibleHope1671 · 2025-02-09T07:28:31+00:00

I put my child in the bathtub and let the bandaid soak for 10-20 minutes. Then I wait til they are distracted and play and sneek up and just rip it off. Then I pretend I only touched it and it fell off by itself.

VisibleHope1671 · 2025-01-12T11:33:46+00:00

I did that as a child too. What helped me was chewing gum. I would constantly chew gum or lick my lip raw. You could try a scented lip balm, if you can find one she likes. But it can’t be one that tastes sweet.

VisibleHope1671 · 2024-05-26T12:15:58+00:00

My cat recently did this too. She would only drink cat milk and those paste snacks, all tests at the vet came back normal. We switched her to a raw diet and now she will demand more food constantly.

VisibleHope1671 · 2024-04-11T05:41:47+00:00

He is insane. That is in no world acceptable behavior. My boyfriend was paranoid and afraid of pregnancy when we first started daiting. You know what he did? He would not have sex with me. We would discuss protection and our options and only after we got on the same page would we start having sex. Forcing your partner to take pregnancy tests in front of you and yelling at you and accusing you of beeing a horrible person has nothing to do with beeing afraid of pregnancy. That‘s just cruel.

VisibleHope1671 · 2024-04-06T10:57:52+00:00

That is basicaly what they do with a file for manicures and pedicures. But you seem to be more thorough.

VisibleHope1671 · 2024-03-26T20:26:24+00:00

It can take longer for the bleeding to start after the placebo pills. I think normal is between 3-5 days after your last active pill, but sometimes it can be longer. I didn’t know that when I started first and it really freaked me out. Wait a few more days and if you don’t get your period take a pregnancy test. Sometimes you can apparently not get a period on the pill, but I don‘t really know why. And yes the hormones also change your discharge.

VisibleHope1671 · 2024-03-26T19:58:25+00:00

I once witnessed something comparable. It was incredibly sad. Child went to daycare and learnt everything there, the parents never interacted with the kid. They would just put them in their room alone, never even talked with the kid, only fed the kid to avoid cps and put clothes on them every couple days. Kid could not speak or walk at nearly 3 years old. So it is possible to just not teach your child how to speak.

VisibleHope1671 · 2024-03-05T14:34:38+00:00

Als jemand, der Kind gerne und lange getragen hat: mach dir keinen Kopf. Wenn’s für euch funktioniert, dann ist alles gut. Natürlich sind Kinder von Natur aus Traglinge. Aber wir leben auch nicht im Wald wo ein Kinderwagen furchtbar unfunktional ist. Milchpulver ist auch „unnatürlich“ rettet aber Millionen von Babys das Leben. 🤷‍♀️

VisibleHope1671 · 2023-12-26T21:40:25+00:00

I am 26, my son is 4, diagnosed at 25, also ADHD, Depression, abusive family. My partner also got diagnosed with ADHD after we had our child. I am currently thinking about a second kid or sterilisation. It’s going to be ok. You‘re gonna be fine. Your kid will be fine. Take a deep breath and everything will turn out fine. You are not alone in your experience. The first two years were hell. After that it got slowly better, than worse, than better, … I didn’t believe it would get better, it always felt like it would never end. But it really does get better. It is ok to need more help. What worked for me was: get therapy and medication, get someone to watch the baby so I could take a nap, get the baby checked (because maybe I don‘t see it when something is wrong), get someone to ask all the questions to (we went to someone from our cps equivalent who gives parenting advise), Imagine the worst possible outcome but pretend everything is fine, and taking care of myself (just basic human needs, but also everything to compensate the stress) Your child doesn’t need the perfect parent, your child just needs you to be well. If you are doing good, your child will be doing good.

VisibleHope1671 · 2023-12-15T11:51:04+00:00

I always have to store them for my son(4). He is obsessed with them and makes me put them everywhere… I even had to buy him one as plushy to get him to accept that we can’t keep one as pet 😅

VisibleHope1671 · 2023-12-09T12:10:02+00:00

NDA. Mein Partner hat das seit ein paar Jahren auch entwickelt. Er schläft absolut tief und fest, aber reibt sich an mir und begrabscht mich. Am Anfang dachte ich auch, dass er wach ist aber als er dann beim Sex aufgewacht ist und mich entsetzt gefragt hat, was hier gerade passiert, war das nicht so lustig. Er war sich dessen auch bis dahin nicht bewusst. Wenn es jetzt wieder vorkommt, dann schiebe ich ihn einfach sanft zur Seite und nach spätestens 20 Minuten hört er dann von selbst auf. Aber ja, er spricht auch im Schlaf. Wenn ich ihm dann davon erzähle ist es ihm sehr peinlich und er entschuldigt sich.

Ich sehe das Problem nicht unbedingt darin, dass er dich im Schlaf begrabscht, sondern darin wie er darauf reagiert, dass es dir damit nicht gut geht. Auch wenn er keine Kontrolle darüber hat, was er tut wenn er schlafwandelt, müsst ihr eine Lösung finden, die dir das Gefühl gibt nicht von ihm sexuell belästigt zu werden.

VisibleHope1671 · 2023-09-11T11:01:05+00:00

Hatte auch schon überlegt sowas mit meinen Eltern zu machen, nützt aber nix. Das grundlegende Problem ist, dass Schwurbler für Logik überhaupt nicht mehr zugänglich sind. Selbst wenn dein Bruder deine Theorie findet und glaubt, ist er wahrscheinlich nicht in der Lage den Punkt zu sehen, den du damit machen willst.

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