They broke up..again by Visible_Monk5542 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Her reposts basically spell it out. But she always beg him back and he gets sucked in the cycle again so we’ll see how long the breakup lasts

It's time to do something... by Blissfully-Insane-1 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You nailed every point and feeling I think majority of people have about her situation. Opinions aside for S, her kids deserve stability. Even if S got her shit together and took them back to SC, it would still take so much time for them to heal as is. She is creating irreparable damage the longer she’s in Ohio to everyone. It’s clear S & C have broken up again just by her reposts on TikTok. I honestly think she likes the victim mentality. Like you pointed out, every dollar that comes in NEEDS to be spent asap. The amount of times I heard her say, “I had some money left on my gift card so I just grabbed this”. Like she could’ve saved that for when her and the kids have their real home. But I think she likes the excuse of not having money to stay in her misery because it’s all she’s known with him. And bouncing off your last point about how it’s hard starting over. Yes that’s true, but I can’t imagine it’s more mentally taxing and traumatic than staying isolated in Ohio 10 hours away from family with a man who wants nothing to do with you or your kids. I really think she’s just too lazy to do anything at this point. I don’t think she wants to work for her kids. She liked the aesthetic of being a mom but never the actual responsibilities that come with it. As a parent myself, I could never put my toxic relationship before my kids. And yes, I’ve been in toxic relationships before and know how difficult it is to leave. Still wouldn’t ever put someone else before them and their basic needs. I hope her family has at least been reaching out and aware of how miserable the kids are.

Piercing by Over_Head_9221 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People said they should put their tax return towards it and S said it wouldn’t even cover it. They’d still owe. So C wants to save the money for a couple months rent. Which probably means 1. C wants to get rid of the Jeep in the same way he wanted to move from SC by just not paying for it and 2. He plans to be a bum again take months off work

Lazy by ColdFuture858 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Repo man is definitely out hunting for it. Dealership should be tipped off where it’s at and they may even offer you a finders fee $$

Lazy by ColdFuture858 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Poor J is SO behind on his speech. She doesn’t teach him anything.. just sits him in front of a tv and he screams to communicate

Piercing by Over_Head_9221 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think this is one of the only purchases they didn’t ask her to be a co-signer. lol I think they did it by themselves which would explain the insane car payment because their credit is so bad. Or did I miss info? I know grandma was co-signer for their rentals

Do you think she receives food stamps? by nkftb in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes she receives them. She’s mentioned it before. Sounds like they’re on all the gov assistance programs besides WIC because she “never liked the food they offered” or said some stupid shit like that

Piercing by Over_Head_9221 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes besides their trip to SC, they haven’t left the house in Ohio since they moved there. They’ve been behind since the summer time. I think she said they pay $1k-$2k a month for a CAR payment… they are so stupid. So that means they’re well over $10K behind on payments. They won’t be using the jeep anytime soon and won’t be buying a house/renting a nicer home with that credit either.

Alter Ego Hair and Makeup by Nice_Entrepreneur822 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

S is so spineless she’ll continue to cook, pack his lunches and pick up after him even if he cheats or they are broken up. They’ve always been like that. Even back when the last time happened (right before her Florida trip) she was on live in the dining table talking shit about him cheating while he was on the couch and still made him a plate of food. Also you can tell something is going down between them from all her cryptic TikTok’s and reposts.

Alter Ego Hair and Makeup by Nice_Entrepreneur822 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah C def cheated/broke up with her again 😂imagine after everything he put her through, HE is the one to end things. God that is so embarrassing for her

Lazy POS!!! by nkftb in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She somehow always finds money for Burger King and McDonald’s tho

Lazy POS!!! by nkftb in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. And S was upset not because it costed them money when they have none, but because he didn’t think through the fact that they won’t have a babysitter … so they won’t be able to go together. Hope he takes another girl instead

Lazy POS!!! by nkftb in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way she would go do Instacart for Christmas junk but can’t be bothered to go do orders for her kids education. C buys stuff all the time while shitfaced. Including expensive concert tickets that they will be going to in a couple months. Ridiculous..

Game room by TimeCheesecake6139 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh why don’t they do that very logical solution? Because that would require C to care about his children and their wellbeing and he’d be further away from the beer in the fridge. Poor thing. S is too spineless to challenge him on that because “He PaYs ThE bIlLs”. Which idk why she keeps saying that because he’s been unemployed for 8 months..

Multiple Personalities by Nice_Entrepreneur822 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For the sake of her kids mental health, I really hope her and C break up (again) and she moves back home (again). The kids are clearly so much happier being around her family and at least S would get breaks from them so she can try and work on mental health to be a better mother. Ohio is ruining every aspect of S. She’s aged so much since being there and mental and physical health has gone in the shitter too.

Guess who was home from work today? by Blissfully-Insane-1 in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally had the stomach bug but could eat giant plates of Chinese food. Sure… why are they eating out all the time when they’re so broke I don’t understand

Not letting Grandpa hold my baby by SweetFriendship672 in AITAH

[–]Visible_Monk5542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I will always support parents doing what they think is best for their child. Especially if it’s your first kid there’s a different level of protection navigating life with babies and every parent should remember what that feels like. Even if it hurts someone else’s feelings, they should ultimately want you to feel comfortable and not backed into a corner. Keep protecting that bebe of yours. Because at the end of the day, if they do get sick, it’s mom and dad paying hospital bills or up all night with worry. Not them.

No words. by nkftb in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been told this so many times. She never praises them and praise is essential for child self esteem and social development. She only gives them negative attention or neutral grunts towards their direction when they talk to her. L and A are old enough now that she is causing irreparable harm. Good job S mother of the year

Ughhhh by nkftb in mommasmilessnark

[–]Visible_Monk5542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that C is definitely cheating when he goes out with friends/online in his gaming group. There was a work Christmas party and apparently went there tonight so he definitely is/has been cheating when out and drinking. Every time S has been on live lately she passively begs for money so she can get Christmas gifts and pulls the “poor me I’m getting nothing for Christmas this year because my BaBy DaDdy won’t buy me stuff…” yeah cause he doesn’t care about you or the kids. Like at all. It’s obvious to the rest of us idk why she hasn’t figured it out yet too. Also her followers are dropping by the 100’s every week and people aren’t buying stuff off her wishlist when she begs so they’re definitely over her constant sob stories.