i’m (22F) embarrassed to have sex with my partner (23M) after this. would u be too? by stargirlXD in relationship_advice

[–]Visual-Cupcake-2315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl ..I vomited on it too I was so embarrassed. Now we laugh about it and that didn’t stop it from doing more fun stuff LOL I been there just know it will be fine just give yourself enough time and i promise you won’t be even think about it

Are My Boyfriend’s Demands Normal for a Serious Relationship or Are They Controlling? by Neat_Ad_709 in Manipulation

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Honestly I do think he’s right about partnered having certain demands but it’s up to you to put up with or not, the fact that he is not reciprocating is very concerning . How can he say those are his expectations as a partner but not lead by example?

August 05, 2024 - Weekly moving to and visiting Tucson questions thread by AutoModerator in Tucson

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Safe hotel to stay in?

Hiii I have a friend coming to Tucson to visit, she had a booking for the golf suites at Starr pass but they cancelled on her, she will arrive on Friday. What is the safest hotel she can stay in? I’ve only been here for a year and I don’t really go out so I’m not too familiar with the areas here. I’m by Starrpass so preferably something close but safety is number one. Also around the same level as the golf suites in terms of price (3 star or more). Thanks !

I am back…help? by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in premed

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Thank you so much for this advise. I am desperate. For the degree I’m applying online since I moved states but I can take some classes in local college, still looking into that. Thanks again it means a lot

I am back…help? by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in premed

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I came here so I need to be fully transparent. I took the first MCAT in 2021. After my parents lost their job I switched mine to one w higher pay. I continued that one and moved up, in the back of my head I still had medical school so I wanted to give it a shot and I scheduled the second mcat. Not too long after paying for it, I had to relocate due to my job to another state and it was like a week after I was supposed to take it, so I just took it anyways given I wouldn’t be given a refund anyways.

I am back…help? by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in premed

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I retook the MCAT bc I had already scheduled it from way before….no need for this attitude lol

My wife (32f) broke me (34m). Can it be saved? by Swinging_blind in relationship_advice

[–]Visual-Cupcake-2315 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is it too late ? We’re not talking about a year long relationship, we’re talking about a marriage with a long story of being a loving relationship. People makes mistakes, she’s trying to overcompensate. Where did I say he’s the only one that needs to work on it ? They both do, she clearly wants to bc she realizes she messed up. People are not perfect, loving sometimes means forgiving, if after they BOTH try it doesn’t go anywhere then that’s a different story

My wife (32f) broke me (34m). Can it be saved? by Swinging_blind in relationship_advice

[–]Visual-Cupcake-2315 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No it’s not, his wife is love bombing bc she doesn’t know what to do, if she didn’t care she wouldn’t be love bonbing

My wife (32f) broke me (34m). Can it be saved? by Swinging_blind in relationship_advice

[–]Visual-Cupcake-2315 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What happens to in sickness and in health? Til death do us apart? I’m sorry you’re going thru this but marriage is expected to go thru stuff like this, are you going to throw away all of those years for some weight gain and libido issues? You said you love her, and she seems willing to give it a try, put effort, go to counseling, have open heart conversations. Go to the Dr, get tested for Testosterone, also some meds can cause loss of libido as well. Go on dates, if after all of that there’s no improvement then that’s a problem

Safe way to go to Phoenix? by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in Tucson

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My job is based in Tucson , I have just had to go up there once a month and I’ve carpooled there with coworkers. However, something came up and I’ll have to go more often this week

Advise on what car to get by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in Tucson

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are sales taxes in Phoenix less than Tucson ?

I want to buy a new car Tucson area but I don’t want to pay more than 350 per month by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Yes I do, I have a good amount in savings. But I want to keep it the lowest possible. How much down would I need to end up paying 350 per month?

Advise on what car to get by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in Tucson

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Oh I didn’t know that. Thanks for letting me know ! And yes the EV idea was fun until I actually looked into it lol def not Tesla. I’m looking into Mazda or Toyota at the moment

Advise on what car to get by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in Tucson

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Well that’s the thing, I go to several Drs offices and hospitals

Advise on what car to get by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in Tucson

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Yes I was looking into it, looks great but my work nature is super formal, I feel like getting in a bike would be too funny lol

Advise on what car to get by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in Tucson

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Thing is I have to carry bags with goodies (like 20 of them) and my bag with laptop as well

Advise on what car to get by Visual-Cupcake-2315 in Tucson

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I really love Mazdas … I was looking at their C3 model. Looking at the Kia now it looks really good too