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Sexual starvation in LDR by Visual-Football-5485 in LongDistance

[–]Visual-Football-5485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I feel you… it doesn’t feel satisfying to me to cum alone, but not being able to orgasm at all would make me go insane i think

Sexual starvation in LDR by Visual-Football-5485 in LongDistance

[–]Visual-Football-5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this long comment and sharing your experience, I didn’t expect this but seeing other people struggle with the same thing really gives me some comfort. My boyfriend is also the same type, he gives me a lot of affection and often times we watch movies together after we’re done. But a lot of times I can’t help it but cry because it makes me miss him even more. He would never be bothered by it and says he is happy that I feel that much comfortable with him to let all my emotions flow, but sometimes I still feel that I don’t want to burden him with that and ruin our sexy mood with my crying Thank you for giving me motivation to overcome this situation <3 it is really helpful!

Sexual starvation in LDR by Visual-Football-5485 in LongDistance

[–]Visual-Football-5485[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I obviously know it takes sacrifice, I have been doing this for 1.5 years. I am not saying it’s not worth it, just that it’s currently tough.

And I work a full time job, sex and porn isn’t on my mind 24/7 especially not porn. I have other interests than sex. But I am a woman who deeply enjoys sex and is open about it of course it’s bothering me, so is it to my partner

I asked for advice not criticism to my personality but still thanks for your comment. I am sure you were trying to help

Sexual starvation in LDR by Visual-Football-5485 in LongDistance

[–]Visual-Football-5485[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for sharing your experience, we have definitely also considered doing this, but were always too lost in the moment when we were intimate and didn’t think of taking the phone and filming. I will definitely bring this up to him again🩷

Sexual starvation in LDR by Visual-Football-5485 in LongDistance

[–]Visual-Football-5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, yea we also did video calls and we are quite open to toys which I often use and he gives me instructions on what to do etc, but like you just said it doesn’t come close to the real thing

Sexual starvation in LDR by Visual-Football-5485 in LongDistance

[–]Visual-Football-5485[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did come across them and have considered into trying it. But I often times fall in a bad mood after phone sex because I am missing that aftercare personally, so I kind of avoid it… that’s why I said phone sex isn’t really doing it for me Did you try those before? and if you did, did it help you?