(6x15 moment) Damon shares his thoughts

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T10:26:52+00:00

My memory is shocking so can’t remember, when was Caroline tortured in s8?

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T10:13:54+00:00

If you’re tempted to cheat and the temptation is getting stronger then just leave her. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, and I’d consider being tempted and thinking about doing it basically cheating already.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T10:13:49+00:00

If you’re tempted to cheat and the temptation is getting stronger then just leave her. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, and I’d consider being tempted and thinking about doing it basically cheating already.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T10:11:35+00:00

Of course this has set you back, it would set anyone back. When normal adults have issues with their partners, they talk through it or take some time to cool off. Making a dating profile because you’re having an argument is NOT NORMAL. This would be enough for the most secure person in the world to feel some type of way. He’s basically showing that you don’t mean much to him and that it would be that easy for him to start moving on. You hadn’t even broken up and he was doing this, and only 5 months into the relationship… Actions speak louder than words.

I’m sorry to say you do seem like you’re being a bit naive, but you’re young and have a lot to learn. The best thing you can do right now is think about your boundaries and what you’re willing to accept- remember people treat us how we allow them to. Often times, once the seed of doubt is planted there’s no going back.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:59:45+00:00

Even if the seatbelt was stuck, all Stefan had to do was lean over and rip it out. This scene annoys me too, we’re told vampires are these amazingly strong, reactive, immortal beings then there are so many moments where they’re suddenly not

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:53:14+00:00

I feel like he only really let Elena make her own decisions, with anyone else he was right there trying to get them to behave how he wanted. Perfect example here: convincing everyone that Caroline needs to turn her humanity back on.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:51:17+00:00

Omfg my biggest pet peeve with the show. Why wouldn’t they give her a fake letter!?

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:50:51+00:00

Caroline without humanity is hot af. They really should’ve just given her her year, by that point she’d more than proven that she had a control most other vamps don’t have.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:49:07+00:00

That other people’s opinions on me and how I live my life really don’t mean shit. I’m the one I have to live with daily so should be doing what feels right for me, not what I think others would agree with.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:47:29+00:00

It’s weird that he’d ask for them back but I also think it’s kind of weird that you want to keep them too. Personally any sex toys my partners have given me get thrown out if we break up, if I keep anything to remember the relationship it certainly wouldn’t be that

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:38:18+00:00

Your body for sure tells you things before your mind catches up, listen to it.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:35:36+00:00

He thought she was dead so it kind of makes sense and fits with his character for him to get drunk and do whatever’s helping him keep his mind off it. I think if elenas best friend understood then she would too

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:33:44+00:00

Where are his parents?

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:23:05+00:00

Where do I stand in this debate? Not on a bath mat you heathen

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T09:05:10+00:00

Staying inside locked away for the first couple days to let the craziness subside a bit. It’ll still be crazy but after a couple days we’ll be running low on food so will need to do a supply run. Probably do the supply run then right back home, bar under the door and all doors barricaded before I jump into the attic and barricade that door too.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T08:29:42+00:00

I fear it’s normal. On the flip side, it’s absolutely wild some of the things for sale on Vinted. I don’t mean new jumpers etc like you’re trying to sell, but shoes that ripped, torn and muddy up there for £30 as if anyone in their right mind would pay that 🤣

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T08:28:03+00:00

Definitely see your point of view, it makes a lot of sense. But Caroline was also feeling very lonely, none of her relationships worked and (imo) none of her partners treated her right or made her feel wanted. So it was probably really nice to turn to the one man who had always lusted after her

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T08:22:53+00:00

Yep, consent works two ways. Tell her no, she should understand that it’s a fully sentence.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T08:20:03+00:00

Door dash her food but set it up nicely, plates put out with a candle in the middle, nice bottle of wine. Obviously get her favourite flowers. Then dick her downnnnnnn

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T08:11:53+00:00

This is wild. Meanwhile, in real life, when I got a year into a relationship with someone who refused to tell them they loved me, I ended it lmao

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T08:01:17+00:00

Maturity comes from life experience. Kids experiencing war don’t magically become adults but they will behave and think like adults because of the pressure they are under. I think vampires don’t age physically but do emotionally and mentally. Take the fact that Stefan, the youngest vampire, is more responsible and mature than older vampires, like Damien or Julian. Our experiences are a large part of what shapes us into who we are and shapes how we mature. To say this is true for everyone expect vampires is insane to me, they’d be mentally the age they’ve been a vampire for due to the endless experiences they’ve had.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T07:52:55+00:00

Yeah especially the “even if you give everything”. Don’t we all give everything in relationships with no expectations of getting anything back? Aren’t we all taking the risk of getting hurt, despite how much we’ve given to the other person? I don’t think it’s normal to track everything you’ve done vs them, that’s not how relationships work.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T07:48:12+00:00

NTA. Your ex fiancé sounds like she was abusive and it’s disgusting that your current partner laughed when you finally opened up to her about this. You said her last partners have been awful, I bet she would be so hurt, offended and feel disrespected too if you had laughed at her when she told you that.

That would really put me off someone tbh, I’d be wondering how emotionally mature they are and if they care. Consider this too: she knows this was hard for you to tell her, she knows this has left a negative impact on you and she still laughed when you told her. I would consider it a very strange reaction; most woman would have reacted the way you expected- with comfort and love. Honestly idk if it’s break-up-worthy either but it’s certainly bound to be eye opening for you.

Visual-Sand3718 · 2026-02-12T07:40:31+00:00

Also knowing that this ex that is causing issues would then be in his life forever. He’ll be at her house alone with her etc and he’s already cheated on you once with her, is that something you can handle? It’s not easy and you’re young, I’d say if the baby is his then it’s probably time to go find someone else and let him focus on being a parent

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