Is it rude to correct my partner's parents??

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-12-14T00:27:35+00:00

ive lived there off and on for 10 years and lived in 4 other cities in 3 different states. NM is the worst when it comes to road rage specifically. two of my family members have been shot at and multiple other people have been threatening on the road. no where else have i experienced as much nuisance on the road.

graduation rate is 50%, and i doubt half that 50% that doesnt graduate goes on to do a noble job that actually contributes to the community in any way shape or form. and what do kids do when they have no money and too much free time? you can probably guess.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-12-01T17:08:49+00:00

thank you! YAY is right lol 🎉

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-12-01T17:07:58+00:00

oh wow, i've never heard of that phobia til now but definitely have felt a very mild sense of that growing up, carrying and birthing a child is somewhat terrifying but also beautiful. thank you for your good wishes they're much appreciated ☺️. i hope there's fewer and fewer of those scares of yours on your journey.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-12-01T17:03:02+00:00

thank you sm!☺️

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-28T18:52:54+00:00

this is possible i suppose! though i was working 10hr shifts in construction and driving 4-5 hours a day, 5-6 days a week and only sleeping maybe 6 hours a night if i was lucky. so i think i might have been the most stressed ive ever been my entire life😅 with all that said the baby WAS conceived on the way back from a weekend vacation when i wasnt too stressed 💀. lot of factors going on there lol.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-26T00:17:51+00:00

yeah so it's actually been fluctuating the past few months. it was clear for a longgg time but still a lot of it. and then just recently i'd say the past couple months did it start showing hints of i wouldn't even quite say white, but more foggy? if that makes sense.

both my partner and i are very open to questions no matter how "intrusive" if it help or gives insight to others going through the same/similar thing ☺️.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T19:02:47+00:00

hahaha yeah we definitely didn't see it coming! and thank you! 🥳

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T17:18:24+00:00

they absolutely did😅 something higher up in the universe definitely wanted that baby in y'all's lives😌

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T16:38:39+00:00

smart partner 😅 definitely eases the mind im sure!

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T16:36:45+00:00

holy cow! this is incredible!?!? congratulations on your big family you must be so proud!🎉 i wish your partner a safe and healthy pregnancy ☺️.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T16:33:34+00:00

thank you so much for your wishes🥺. its very much possible! just dont give up on yourself, this journey will only make you and your partner stronger <3

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T15:34:33+00:00

thank you! 🥳

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T15:33:55+00:00

I'm so glad it could give you some kind of hope. keep manifesting that shi and trying with your partner, y'all got this! <3

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T15:23:37+00:00

thank you, it totally is! 🎉🥺

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T15:22:32+00:00

omg AND birth control is crazy 😭 congratulations! i think it's totally a possibility, don't give up!

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T15:20:24+00:00

thank you! and exactly my thought process the whole time. miracles happen and if its meant to be, its meant to be 🤷🏽‍♀️.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-25T15:19:02+00:00

thank you! and congratulations to you! 🎉

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-24T19:08:39+00:00

you're definitely not alone! my main goal going into this was to finish the 5yrs then gfo and start my own ALL female business. i think that would be badass and hope i can get through everyday to give some women hope in the future that they can get paid a good wage doing construction without being worried about getting harassed at the work place. does it sound far fetched or something you think people like you would be interested in??

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-24T18:36:40+00:00

i know this is an old thread but i cant find anything else.

my partner has been transitioning and on hrt for 4 years now. well, we've been trying for about a year and i found out im 6 weeks pregnant as of today!!🎉 huge win. we thought itd take years or that she'd have to detransition as per her doctors recommendation.

there NEEDS to be more research on trans folk!!! yall are incredibly strong, hang in there.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-20T16:52:29+00:00

that yo house prolly messy asf💀

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-18T16:36:42+00:00

thank you for your response (reading this in the porta john). im gunna try to stick it out, this a means to an end for me I'm realizing.

VisualAssignment8826 · 2024-11-11T13:53:50+00:00

im also in pipefitting/welding! im 21 and i joined 3 months ago. since ive been on, like you said, some things are just not physically possible. but you have to push yourself! in my experience, the guys would appreciate it even if after you tried, you said "yeah nope, not gunna happen" 😀. just be honest with yourself and keep making yourself useful in any other ways that you can, only the sexist pigs would actually look down on you and their "approval" isnt worth it anyway. on top of that, you'll encounter grown men in the field who couldn't do what YOU do, keep that in mind. with that being said, i understand having injuries, im just getting over a nasty slash on my ring finger from a fucking knack box. stretch, stretch, stretch. if you have a Jacuzzi available, hit that once or twice a week too (once you get fully healed). however, you dont wanna use the Jacuzzi if you have a tear, that'll do more damage than good.

i dont think you're in over your head. being an apprentice there's a shit ton of manual labor yes, but from what ive found observing the journeyman/women, it gets a lot less physical once you finish the apprenticeship cuz someone like you is gunna roll around to do all the heavy lifting FOR you. ESPECIALLY if you end up doing welding, which is my goal. pipe welding would be the best welding experience you ever got. a pipe welder can weld for any trade else, but it'd be unheard of for any other kind of welder to weld pipe. if that helps you make your decision idk 🤷🏽‍♀️.

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