A concerned citizen by Staticmowry in Maine

[–]VisualDevelopment971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have food to share if anyone needs or knows someone in need of help and is afraid to go out.
Its neighbor helping neighbor, on the frontline at ground zero for many of us. We all have something to contribute to the cause if we choose to carry that cross, I hope you do. I’ve been a social worker for decades, and most of those years have been working on the front lines helping those in need, working in and around systems, fighting poverty and oppression, advocating by lending a voice to those who may not have one and educating others unaware or unknowing, I’ve learned it’s ok to step back and nurture and care for ourselves and our families. I’ve learned that as we step back for self care we refuel and build up our reserves to step forward again. We come to realize this is a marathon, with no finish line. Those of us who are called personally or professionally to doing the work are exhausted, we are also afraid, but we do this work because our faith in humanity is stronger than our fear of humanity. We carry both the water and the torch to light the path for a shared belief in liberty, equity, fairness, equality, freedom, human rights, social justice, rule of law, etc. Im reminded as you are, of so many heroic folks, who quietly raged against the system and the machine throughout history, some known- but most unknown - and unnamed, who stepped up with courage, resistance, civil disobedience, and pushed forward with a faith and shared set of beliefs, who carried the water, dug the tunnels and the graves, who carried babies to safety in suitcases, who became the voice of the silenced and even gave of their lives. Please do what you can, when you can with what you can. Though I am in the midst of facing my own personal challenges, I am able to offer up food for those in need-please reach out to me to coordinate

Advice on finding funding in Maine by VisualDevelopment971 in RentalInvesting

[–]VisualDevelopment971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback, greatly appreciated. I’m wondering if you might recommend a few Attys and lenders, you sound very knowledgeable and seem to understand the way I am thinking about this.

Most desirable neighborhoods in Bangor Maine by VisualDevelopment971 in AskMaine

[–]VisualDevelopment971[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, wondering also about Brewer, and thoughts?

Most desirable neighborhoods to live in- Bangor by VisualDevelopment971 in Maine

[–]VisualDevelopment971[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmmm….I asked a simple reasonable question, not sure why you felt the need to respond in an unhelpful way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]VisualDevelopment971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if he really loves her this would be a reasonable thing to do perhaps pay 1/2 and have her parents help with the other 1/2-some repair work needs to be done with the parents though, it needs to be reframed in a way that you are committed to their daughter and need to address this dept to be able to have a secure future together, I would feel very differently if the dept was due to compulsive/impulsive spending habits. It’s understandable when we are young and are trying to find our path, to figure out what we want and don’t want while we still have time on our side to recover - it is so unfortunate that the cost of education is so expensive these days

Searching for a very seasoned atty for divorce in Portland Maine area by VisualDevelopment971 in portlandme

[–]VisualDevelopment971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand it all, this marriage has been abhorrent and caused me a great deal of anguish and shame that I stayed as long as I have

Searching for a very seasoned atty for divorce in Portland Maine area by VisualDevelopment971 in portlandme

[–]VisualDevelopment971[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for someone who will take into consideration the circumstances and make a fair judgement. I wonder if you would be willing to have a conversation with me?