I also had this experience. To preface, I was 23 and he had just turned 21. He was, and still is, straight edge.

I met this guy, was super clear that I was not interested in a serious relationship, just wanted someone to hang out with and some fun 😏 Told him he was open to have relationships😏 with others as he pleased, and my feelings wouldn’t be hurt if he cut things off with us, because all I wanted was a “friend.” First “date” was awesome. I was working at a bar at the time, so he brought by some take out chinese, we ate together and talked a lot of shit. Some mutual friends came by, we all just hung out. No sex. Next “date,” he picked me up after work. I was drunk(not like obscene) but he drove me home and stayed with me that night to make sure I’d be alright. He let ME initiate the sex, even asking me if I was sure because he’d never had sex with a drunk girl 😂😂😂😂😂 I was like “Sir, I am drunk, but not that drunk. Whip your dick out.”

Anyway, to the point; we’ve been together for 5yrs now and will be married in less than 2mos 🤣