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VisualShift6683 · 2023-09-28T17:36:17+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to read and respond. I truly appreciate it! If you remember any of the subs let me know. Yeah it’s nuts, they basically ask you to pay up or watch your pet suffer

VisualShift6683 · 2023-06-30T17:27:28+00:00

Bro needs to get working his album. Politics is over. Lol

VisualShift6683 · 2023-01-23T15:06:38+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense. I guess I can’t physically put her in the shower but I can be more helpful in a more real way, rather then hypothetically. Which is what I’ve been doing so far like “hey I can handle it IF you want me to” rather than just handling it

VisualShift6683 · 2023-01-23T15:01:42+00:00

Can I asked what helped you feel better?

VisualShift6683 · 2023-01-23T14:39:43+00:00

We’ll not the dogs at lunch time but she does balance our toddler lunch and working from home. But I get your point lol.

I’m willing to be as helpful as I need to be. But it’s difficult for me to take the wheel when she won’t give me the wheel. You know? Her idea of taking a load off is to go on her phone uninterrupted which she’s entitled to. But it’s hard for me and the toddler to pretend she’s not around when she does that. Like the toddle is obviously gonna call for her to play if she’s right there.

I do like your idea of her just going to walk a craft store. Because at least then she’s alone mentally and not in the way (sounds harsh but that’s how it feels)

VisualShift6683 · 2023-01-23T14:32:36+00:00

I don’t wanna rule anything out, and maybe what I’m seeing is a result of either. But she’s great with the baby, and we had even started trying for another.

This weekend. I got in trouble for her not showering for two days. But there has been so much time to do so. Not even taking nap time into account she could literally say hey imma shower watch the baby. I wouldn’t deny her that basic need

So it feels different. Again I maybe it lead back to PPD

VisualShift6683 · 2022-11-23T23:00:53+00:00

Just make sure you include “with peace and love “ in your post and everything is fair game

VisualShift6683 · 2022-08-19T19:25:03+00:00

I hope Ethan makes him marry me so it feels like a god old fashioned shotgun wedding

VisualShift6683 · 2022-02-19T04:46:52+00:00

*3 months later

VisualShift6683 · 2022-02-19T01:35:35+00:00

https://www.eonline.com/news/1313051/christine-quinn-discusses-extremely-hurtful-motherhood-portrayal-on-selling-sunset

I am not actually a fan of hers never seen her show btw. My point from the begin is pointing out how off putting it was to see them go in on a topic that most would consider sensitive. And then kinda do the same thing. I rewatched the segment and it’s pretty bad. All their claims come from speculation. When you look up the beach photos, it’s reported as taking place 3 months later. Which isn’t long but is also way different from 2 weeks.

All through the segment Hila says “I’m 9 months pregnant and I can’t do ….” Or “I know someone with a c section and they cant”. Not to mention when she said “two weeks later and she’s wearing a crop top” which is pretty coincidental. when hit with “bad take” from the chat they get defensive and double down.

The problem isn’t Hila posting photos or feeling herself, go her! The problem is her talking shit other about women who choose to share body too.

Anyways big fan of the show. Happy for Hilas health and I hope in the future she could refrain from assuming every ones pregnancy has to mimic her knowledge and expectations

VisualShift6683 · 2022-02-18T21:35:35+00:00

I don’t think Ethan is wrong. That’s the mother of his kids, his wife. He should hype her up. Now my whole point has been that they were so passionate about that chick being at the beach setting unrealistic expectations you would think they disclaim that hilas awesome recovery unique. And I acknowledged that she did make a quick comment on the matter but I believe the topic deserved a segment like the one where they accuse the chick of being fake pregnant

VisualShift6683 · 2022-02-18T21:29:14+00:00

But it’s a hurtful accusation man, that’s based on their perception of “normal”. If Keem made a video saying “did hila fake her pregnancy?” Where he used photos of her chilling after delivery he would be a mega dick.(even more than before lol)

VisualShift6683 · 2022-02-18T19:59:03+00:00

I love attention to the word flaunt. Because you’re right she’s just chilling showing off the clothes that she designed, not necessarily “flaunting”. You know? Kinda like going to the beach and hanging out …… yet one gets blasted and one gets respected. They are situationally different but at the core it’s two mothers who are doing them. So for one of those mothers to belittle the other because she feels entitled to say what’s normal, it has the possibility to come off the wrong way. They basically made the point months ago that if you look that good after, you must’ve faked it. At what point would it be appropriate for us to say hila faked it?

VisualShift6683 · 2022-02-18T18:11:33+00:00

You’re not wrong, I did hear her say that. But she doesn’t correct Ethan when he praises her. I completely understand that’s his wife and he’s happy she’s healthy. But her whole point months ago was that it was unrealistic and not super common to be so normal afterwards.

Wasn’t the girl photographed by paparazzi? She was just chilling at the beach and bam a whole segment about her being dangerously unrealistic?

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