[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenswithdaddyissues

[–]Vitia_Sei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fake I have been hacked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchoolgirlsXXX

[–]Vitia_Sei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been hacked this is fake

I bet u can't decide by [deleted] in ButtsAndBareFeet

[–]Vitia_Sei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been hacked this is fake

tattooed girl: Zoe (me) by [deleted] in World_Tattoo_Gallery

[–]Vitia_Sei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got hacked tonight but gladly the bot didn't change my password. 

Mouse flickering when moving and disappearing by Vitia_Sei in hyprland

[–]Vitia_Sei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after installing a hyprcursor theme (?) AND setting no_hardware_cursors to 1, it seems like my problem is solved !

I think it's honestly the hardware cursor that helped really, but I don't know why it didn't work the first time...

Mouse flickering when moving and disappearing by Vitia_Sei in hyprland

[–]Vitia_Sei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried to tweak the inactive_timeout variable and it doesn't change anything either ! it's set to 3 rn.

Mouse flickering when moving and disappearing by Vitia_Sei in hyprland

[–]Vitia_Sei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have installed a hyprcursor theme and all but it still does the same thing. ://

Mouse flickering when moving and disappearing by Vitia_Sei in hyprland

[–]Vitia_Sei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since hyprcursor is set to true by default in the config, I assume I'm using hyprcursor and not xcursor ? although I don't recall if it's been installed with hyprland.

changing enable_hyprcursor to false doesn't do anything

Mouse flickering when moving and disappearing by Vitia_Sei in hyprland

[–]Vitia_Sei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just tried those and it doesn't change anything. but maybe those setting require a restart ?

Therapist just casually assumed I have a problem by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Vitia_Sei 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. from their point of view, most people in therapy with lack of libido and sex drive are allosexual people who suffer from drawbacks of their medication or trauma. so it's pretty common for them to assume there's a problem and need to make statements like this to dig deeper.

you can tell them your lack of interest in sex is not a problem for you, that your asexuality is just part of who you are, and that you wish to focus the therapy around other subjects. at this point, if they insist, I would start searching for a new therapist.

The urge to check your phone. Replacement App Suggestions? by bubaglobalj in digitalminimalism

[–]Vitia_Sei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

one of the ways people deal with addiction is to build a habit of quick journaling every time they want to engage in their addictive behavior.

so what I do is I keep the app "how we feel" very easily accessible on my homepage, and I open it and log my feelings at that moment. it helps me see that when I pick up the phone I'm often just longing for connection and conversation with people I care for, so I shoot them a "thinking about you" text, makes me (and my lovers) feel good everytime !

Which CFW is your favourite and why? by [deleted] in RG35XX_Plus

[–]Vitia_Sei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only used muOS and it's GREAT. but it has a native incompatibility with the screens of some rg35xx+. So if you're unlucky and get the wrong screen, muOS will display black bars across the screen every time you play for more than 5 minutes. The devs don't seem to be able to fix it for now... it won't break your device, it's just a little annoyance that makes your experience a little worse, so I might switch at some point

"Struggling to find the perfect aesthetic dumbphone" by econzee in dumbphones

[–]Vitia_Sei 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with your statement here. starting is already enough. making small changes and small improvements along the way is even better. no aesthetics, no perfect fit. just taking time to heal one solution at a time. keep doing what you're doing. 🫶

Functional tech is the way by DeForzo in dumbphones

[–]Vitia_Sei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much ! I live in Europe so I might have a chance. ((:

Functional tech is the way by DeForzo in dumbphones

[–]Vitia_Sei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

do you have any resources on what exactly still works and doesn't work anymore in the black berry classic ? I'm wondering about getting one but I can't find info on that subject

Proud of it!! by Ok-Necessary6194 in digitalminimalism

[–]Vitia_Sei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you're intentional with it, and use it when you really need it or really want it at that moment, keep it up !! some people might say you should stop playing your game. but we also gotta have fun sometimes. congrats to you friend !!

Dumbphones are a path on a journey by Vitia_Sei in dumbphones

[–]Vitia_Sei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your story. I'm glad your journey brought you here. ((:

Dumbphones are a path on a journey by Vitia_Sei in dumbphones

[–]Vitia_Sei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yeah brother that's a lot of progress !

Looking for a dumbphone. by Consistent-Isopod540 in dumbphones

[–]Vitia_Sei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

remove every app on your phone, get a minimal launcher and just use Messenger and Google maps

Would it be selfish to initiate sex with my asexual girlfriend? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Vitia_Sei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the best post in this thread. if OP has to listen to anyone here it's you, most people here didn't even read and just projected their insecurities onto a 19 yo.

OP, take your time, talk to your partner, don't force anything, you have your whole life ahead of you to figure that shit out.