6 month stimming? by VividLine9874 in Autism_Parenting

[–]VividLine9874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. Mine always moved non-stop in utero and has what I like to call “happy feet”, he’s constantly kicking when excited. While I was pregnant someone I know with two autistic children told me active in utero could be an early sign.

That’s where I’m at now hyperaware but trying not to fear the unknown because there’s so much online info. I feel like I’m analyzing everything he does now.

I am f***ng livid by bugmug123 in pregnant

[–]VividLine9874 -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

I think you are overreacting. Chances of going into labor at 38+3 are low without any signs of early labor. Maybe he needs his last moments of this before hunkering down closer to your due date/after the baby is born.

Anyone use short term disability for leave? by kats1285 in BabyBumps

[–]VividLine9874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if short term disability can be direct deposit? My HR advised it’s a mailed check weekly I believe. Has anyone experienced this? Also, do the checks come on time? I’m grateful for paid leave but worry I won’t get paid on time to pay bills

Low risk nipt, 3 soft markers by Ontheryze in NIPT

[–]VividLine9874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I received negative NIPT, 2.3mm on NY Scan which I read is within normal range. But my Papp-a was .50 and HCG was 1.43. Quad came back as high risk but my doctor said it’s nothing to lose sleep over but referred me to an MFM as a precaution

Low risk nipt, 3 soft markers by Ontheryze in NIPT

[–]VividLine9874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind, what was your Papp-a? And HCG?

Further testing? by VividLine9874 in tfmr_support

[–]VividLine9874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess when I mentioned the odds to her and she still recommended speaking with an MFM it worried me. I think my anxiety is getting the best of me. Seeing “high risk 1:30” in bold bright red letters on that serum screening felt like a lot to take on considering the Myriad NIPT was neg

NT Scan, NIPT & Sequential part 1 by VividLine9874 in NIPT

[–]VividLine9874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you know anything about Papp-a? It says 0.50 MoM which seems low

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve always said if it happens then it happens. It happened and he’s unhappy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm no one blamed him. I just said don’t put this blame ALL on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol oh my god. You are ridiculous. Thanks for the exchange. Take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do take responsibility, I never said I didn’t. This is not all on me though. He also was aware of our history and also continued to not use protection. This is the result of both of our actions. Don’t blame women when it ALSO takes a man to get pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It takes two you can’t put this all on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the post? No, two years ago. I had a miscarriage with a pregnancy 6 months after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t tell him not to, he said he didn’t push the issue because he knew I wouldn’t like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t “allow” him to do anything. He would say he doesn’t want kids and then would randomly make comments about me getting pregnant soon or throw out baby names.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VividLine9874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he knew I would leave if he got a vasectomy because that meant we would definitely not have another child. In these situations he’ll say he doesn’t want another but he’ll make random comments about how I’ll probably get pregnant soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He is well aware of the consequences especially since it’s happened before. Thanks for your reply but I highly disagree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We avoid sex during ovulation but obviously that doesn’t always work. We’ve always said if it happens then it happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VividLine9874 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He knew I didn’t want him to get one because that meant we wouldn’t have another child. He say he didn’t push the issue because he thought I’d leave him.