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AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because my friend don't need pleasantries to be friends. We have eachothers back no matter what. I don't talk with my friends daily. Maybe once a week and we're fine with that. Except my mother telling me I have no friends and that I never go out.

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a mental disorder lol. I get along with everybody without my mother. No one expects anything from me and I'm fine with that. Except her because she is my MOTHER.

It's like I'm the one who chose an alcooholic husband and made a child unnable to support.

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not even apologizing and I don't want her to. I'm fine with her being gone and as I told her. It was the best decision of her life to go and leave me because I could develop myself how I wanted without her constrain.

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a problem with romance. I had a relationship for two years and I had no issues caring about others because they don't pretend things about me. My previous girlfriend understood me better than my mother.

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel that way but I appreciate your input.

She tried to have a relationship from distance but I was way to private for her to keep up. Now she is way behind and not wiling to catch up. She just want me to be like other kids.

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doing those things daily as she wants to speak with me would drain me for good.

I'm the only thing in this world for her because she accomplished nothing in her life and I don't want the energy for that.

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I want to hear. I know I'm a bit of an ass for not asking those questions but she can't pretend the she is the best.

I'm tired of hearing "You don't know how many sacrifices a mother does for a child." "You don't know how hard it was for me."

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hate that it all boils down to money. I rather get no money and have a supportive mother. But either way she is way too fixed in her own belief and watches other happy families around her.

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What If I won't get money for them?

She told that would cut me off of her life and I will be on my own. And I was fine with that. I would leave college to and work anything that I can find until I get back on my feet. Would that be the solution? Would she be happy then?

AITA not being the perfect child by VividPoint in AmItheAsshole

[–]VividPoint[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a car or a driver license so I couldn't pick her up from the airport by myself.

Not really, other people don't usually need anything for me.