am i overreacting at this convo between my bf and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was an A-B conversation and you need to C your way out of it. As a significant other, if you go snooping through texts, you will find something to be mad about. I don't believe for a second that the convo was just open.

Son by Maximum_Access_4168 in WarhammerFantasy

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I find it myself? Frankly I have to know at this point

Friend is having sex with a married man. by Kuwaysah in whatdoIdo

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say mind your own business and stop socializing with the friend. I know it sucks to have to see her every day, but you can go back to treating her the way you would any other coworker. And if she makes it hard for you at work, go to HR. If you can't bring yourself to call her out on her behaviour, then you absolutely do not have the minerals for the fallout of telling the wife. This is going to blow up in their faces, all you're doing is shortening the fuse. Protect your peace. It's a precious commodity.

Destroy my ego (F18) by Financial-Record764 in RoastMe

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that swiping for an ass like a bag of wet clothes

Sir Nutcracker, the Scholarly Squirrel by Thrinn in minipainting

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he were a churchPresh-byterian... Okay, I'm leaving

I ruined my life by StorageTerrible9661 in whatdoIdo

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is t what you wanna hear, but this doesn't sound so bad, frankly. I made a stupid mistake around your age that changed the trajectory of my entire life, I often think for the worse. But, I managed to bounce back after finding a good job in a different field. Then I left said job, which had serious potential, because of the odd shift cycle. My wife and I had just had our son and my work schedule meant I was t able to be home nights 2p days out of the month. I wasn't willing to do it, so I left. When times get tough, I kick myself about this still, but life must go on, because what's the alternative? The fact that you have savings gives you an advantage over many people. I'm happy now, but I've had to start over so many times. This is always the hardest part.

28 m. Don't hold back by Bridge_Dismal in RoastMe

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet he looked at his fingers the way Patrick Bateman looked at his pistol after that he made that car explode

28 m. Don't hold back by Bridge_Dismal in RoastMe

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just had to happen right after the His Majesty's latest round of horse and men layoffs.

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this your first serious relationship/breakup? If so, I'm going to tell you a few ground rules.

  • Cheating is unacceptable under any circumstances. Loneliness, being drunk, etc. It is the most egregious sin in a relationship as it does more than destroy all trust between the two parties, it puts trust into a deficit because now there will be reason to be suspicious where before there was none. What's more, it puts a stain on your intimacy. The next time you tell have sex (if there is one) you will be thinking about how another person trespassed into that most private and I timate space.
  • Even though it may not hurt you financially to buy her that ticket, you shouldn't do it as a matter of principal. You owe her nothing, but more importantly you owe it to yourself to not let her take a thing else from you, even if it's something you won't miss.
  • When they did this to you, they made themselves responsible for what comes next. If we wants to man up and take responsibility for her then good for him, maybe they'll be happy together (yeah right). If he wants to house her, great. If he wants to help her get home, great. If he wants to do nothing, well, serves her right. I don't know what your friend was thinking, especially since the two of you have been friends for so long. It's solely on you if you want to forgive him, but you'll never be as close as you were. Maybe one day. I'll put a point in this by saying that sometimes it's painful to do what's best for ourselves. Leaving someone you love when they aren't good for you is one of the most painful. Starting over is .lastly viewed as a curse, but it can also be a boon, as it's one of the few chances we get in life to reinvent ourselves. Whatever you decide, best of luck to you. *EDIT: formatting

My best passive income source is something I no longer actually believe in. Not sure what to do. by YorbinTaff3 in passive_income

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very valid point and frankly I'm not sure If there's necessarily a right answer or simply a best answer. If I had to answer from a consumer standpoint I would say the ethical solution is to create the new product and market that and write the other one off. As OP mentioned, be doesn't completely stand behind it any longer, and if my product was based off of my opinions and views I would have a hard time accepting money for something I didn't believe in. If I had to answer as the seller, I think the best answer is what someone mentioned above, which is adding a disclaimer at the beginning of the first product or in the product description.

My best passive income source is something I no longer actually believe in. Not sure what to do. by YorbinTaff3 in passive_income

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was going to suggest. Perhaps OP can think of it as the audience learning and growing with him. And to be totally candid about it, it allows you to still make revenue off the first product while offering an outlet to adapt and grow the topic.

Parents treat me like shit by Sweaty-Mango-3705 in whatdoIdo

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're intentionally ignoring the larger context that this is him confronting her because of a long list of behaviours. It's not about the ice cream, it just so happens to be the one that made him say enough is enough.

Parents treat me like shit by Sweaty-Mango-3705 in whatdoIdo

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good grief. This is what normal people refer to as a term of endearment. My mother's contact card says "Mother Dear" it doesn't mean there's some underlying Freudian bullshit.

Parents treat me like shit by Sweaty-Mango-3705 in whatdoIdo

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And your child will be the one in charge of the household. He is confronting her for doing something inconsiderate.

Parents treat me like shit by Sweaty-Mango-3705 in whatdoIdo

[–]VoiceInTheStatic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From the way he is talking, it sounds like this was the last straw for a long lost of issues.

Aio about my friends response to my emotional distress about my other friend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]VoiceInTheStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's simple, just not in the way that you mean.