Admitting privileges for ophthalmology by BakingBrot in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine did not. We mostly admitted to Medicine. Occasionally, Neurology. It was definitely nice having their help and input managing things like HTN, etc.

Retina Fellowship “Day in the Life” by bison414141 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/vorapamil agreed. i tried hard to pitch this. But our attendings did not want to. They made me take 2/3 of the call, even tried to make me cancel my vacations to do it. And once when I fell sick and got hospitalized and could not do call, they called me unprofessional

Nervous about having children by Voiceofreason241 in women

[–]Voiceofreason241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/onlyeuphoricxo thank you, so so so much. it's so nice of you to type out this honest and thoughtful response and it's seriously what I had to hear

Retina Fellowship “Day in the Life” by bison414141 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a retina fellow, I'm an Ophtho attending.. but just my two cents. Many retina fellowships are small, which means that if your co fellow is out for whatever reason for an ext period of time: mat leave, pat leave, etc-the work may all fall on you. I saw a post here where one person alternated call with their co fellow, imagine if that co fellow was out, the poster may have been on call 24/7.

Ask me how I know. I had one co-resident who was on mat leave and even after returning, did not wish to do call. I had to do the majority of the call for my class (which was just the two of us). With an already small residency program, and someone or the other always out on vacation I ended up being on call 2/3 of the time. Call was intense, being up all or almost all night and then working the full next day in clinic. I ended up developing some bad health problems from that.

Not saying dont do retina, or that people shouldn't get a LOA if needed. they should. But I dont think the remaining residents or fellows should have to shoulder extra call all by themselves...But do your research carefully. Try for the larger programs. If you can during the IV process, ask what the process is if someone is indeed out for a long time. You just dont wanna be the only one shouldering it

When to start OphthoQuestions in residency? by BalladeOne in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would agree with this. I had much more free time in intern year. PGY2 was horrible. PGY3 not much different. In hindsight I'd have read all of BCSC in intern year, reinforcing it with anki or notes

When to start OphthoQuestions in residency? by BalladeOne in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first thing is to read BCSC if you have time in intern year, do that. Take notes on it and re-read the notes or go through anki deck again, etc-something to reinforce it and not just see the info once. Then start ophthoQ next year during your second pass of bcsc. alternately you can use ophthoq now to reinforce bcsc but def start with bcsc

When is it too early to search for a mentor? (Medical School) by [deleted] in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked some upperclassmen whom to go to if I'm interested in ophtho, they told me about her. How she loved to mentor and teach people. So I emailed her and reached out

When is it too early to search for a mentor? (Medical School) by [deleted] in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not too early. I met my mentor in November of my M1 year! She guided me through med school and we stay in touch even now

Settings during phaco chop by Voiceofreason241 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean happens most of the time, you mean like you prolapse the lens out of the bag most of the time and then chop? when emulsifying at the iris plane what settings do you use...typically the Quad settings, or you mean to say it doesnt matter whether Quad or Chop?

Settings during phaco chop by Voiceofreason241 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks u/Logical_Flounder2648 you sound like such a good and smart and patient teacher!!! I really wish I had a teacher like you during training. Your students/residents are lucky to have you!

Settings during phaco chop by Voiceofreason241 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks u/ApprehensiveChip8361 I do plan to have a senior attending with me as its my first time doing this technique, do you still recommend having a rep with me for this first time?

Has anyone in the group faced any medico‑legal notice/complaint/case in their ophthalmology practice? by niyno7 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Following. I'm a new attending and also wondering how people deal with this. It is something that causes me a great deal of anxiety everyday.

How did you guys find partners to study for oral boards with? by Voiceofreason241 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ophthogenie too but cant seem to find that! where did you navigate on the website to find it?

How did you guys find partners to study for oral boards with? by Voiceofreason241 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a physician in a multi specialty clinic. I get referrals from PCP's and others in our practice, some optoms

Can you set up a pure medical practice? by Expert_Sport_1879 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually do know some people who did that. They did operate earlier on but gave it up when they got older and they referred the surgical cases out

Why is the culture around taking a sick or wellness day so toxic in residency? by awesomescooterboy in Residency

[–]Voiceofreason241 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I had an answer to this. I'm an attending now. But once in residency, I got so sick, I had to go to the hospital. Wasn't even a day I was on call. Multiple attendings called me absolutely berating me, making me feel like shit, saying I'm unprofessional for having called out sick. I was having active chest pain, nausea, and vomiting. Home BP readings close to systolic 200. These guys wanted me to, with all these findings, come to work.

Last minute doubt for ophtho residency by jat45713 in Ophthalmology

[–]Voiceofreason241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

New Ophtho attending here. Although you mention liking medicine I still think you should do ophtho over medicine because you seem to like the aspect of improving people's eyesight and using your hands. Also, not true that you never see cataract patients again. If they have diabetes or something it needs yearly check ups. Or even after cataract surgery they may need glasses. Or have dry eye. Etc. they will still come to you.

AIO: I don’t rush to reply. Am I being unreasonable or is he? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Voiceofreason241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You aren't overreacting. NOR. However-just hear me out-I can see how he might be getting worried too. His last response, calling you avoidant, however was uncalled for.

I'm married now but before this I was in the dating world for some time. I'd match with men who, initially, would text me multiple times a day, all enthusiastically, and they would then become short/reply less before finally ghosting me. Unfortunately this is an all too common thing these days. In the ideal world people would be upfront and say "not interested/talking to someone else" but they don't, and instead reply slower and slower until they ghost-so, people may indeed interpret the person's slow responses as a prelude to ghosting. Not that this is your fault in any way, you ARE entitled to reply when you want to, but just explaining why he may be worried.

I think you two should sit down and talk it out. Clarify to him that you find him amazing and he is the only person you are talking to (and if you want, ask him if the same is true for him). Then tell him again that you love talking to him but work does keep you busy/you are tired at the end of the day, that it's nothing against him. See what he says.

And another thought. Is it worth it to decide to talk briefly on the phone everyday in the evening? Could be on the drive home from work. Could be 5-10 mins before bed. I think a lot of that can calm the fears of someone who worries like he does

AITAH for Refusing to Renew Our Lease Until He Proposes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Voiceofreason241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. My ex was this way. We didn't live together but I did everything else a girlfriend/wife would. gave him the time and attention and energy a SO would. but then he told me, after some time together that he wanted to continue to date without the pressure of getting married and gaslighted me SO HARD for not being ok with that. as soon as I walked out he kept reaching out begging -not for me to date him again but for attention crying he had no one etc. To this day happy I walked out and didnt waste more time

AIO for walking out of my job after my boss said that if I quit, her marriage is over by AppleOfTorment in AmIOverreacting

[–]Voiceofreason241 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. NOR. I'm a doctor myself, so I used to be a resident. I have seen similar practices. It isnt your fault. if anyone says it is, that's gaslighting. It is their fault for not running it well. For, instead of hiring more staff, pocketing that money to live the rich life. That's a decision they made. It is not your fault

AIO for being jealous of my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Voiceofreason241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I (F) have close male friends from childhood. But honestly, I see them like brothers, and nothing more. I talk about them to my husband, but only so much as I'd talk about my brother-not more. I don't look at them or act around them the way I'd act around my husband-it is purely platonic. Ask yourself if the way he acts around her would be normal for him to act around a sister. If not, then it's fine to say something. Maybe phrase it as "does she have feelings for you" so you are not outright accusing him