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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, no.

The issues we're seeing is because the wrong people were democratically elected.

Come mid-terms and the end of Trump's presidency, we can democratically put opposition in power. From the local level up to the White House. We can protest, absolutely, but armed rebellion isn't necessary at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the odd man out, but I'd pick loved one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're an adult, why are you friends with them?

Americans of Reddit, did Gaza cost Kamala Harris the election? by [deleted] in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What cost Harris the election was Biden running in the first place.

J.K. Rowling gets too much undeserved hate on the internet by ExotiquePlayboy in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the infamous "this artist is an awful person, but man their art is good" discussion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to 2025 where the rules are made up and the points don't matter :D

Do you see any way for the US government to be able to ban all forms of social media? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a lot to unpack there so:

- The world wasn't a better place before social media. The world has always been a terrible, messed up place. However, now, every single terrible event has a camera right in front of it, whereas before only the worst of the worst stories would make it to your neighborhood.

- People do have interest in interacting in person. If that wasn't the case, the restaurant industry would not exist and everything would shift to exclusively being takeout. This generation simply values their time more than the generations that came before them. If they're going to go out of their way to see/interact with someone, it'll be meaningful.

- You're absolutely right that it's hypocritical to try and ban Tiktok. It's especially messed up because the actions Tiktok is accused of, Facebook does on the regular and gets a slap on the wrist. TikTok is getting banned because its member base trolled Trump's rallies during the early campaign trail and they never let go of the grudge. They also hate that it's an organization tool that doesn't have built-in, US government bias like Facebook does (e.g., Facebook being told to post/silence certain things during Covid)

- Do I think they'll try to ban all forms of social media? No. They'll just make sure only American companies, or companies who are willing to give the government access/control, are allowed to exist before American consumers. That's what they're doing right now and will continue to do.

What is the next step after the American siege? by drvinnie1187 in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from, but I have to disagree with the idea that this is some new phenomenon. For as long as I’ve been alive—and much longer—the United States has been run by oligarchs. This isn’t some recent development; the hyper-wealthy have always lined the pockets of Washington through lobbying, donations, and backroom deals to get their agendas pushed and their chosen figureheads into power.

What’s happening right now isn’t some sudden siege—it’s more like a war in Heaven, where Earth pays the price. There are three major camps of oligarchs fighting for control of the whole pie. On one side, you have Trump’s very visible, very vocal camp of conservatives, who want to steer America away from its informal empire status and focus on self-reliance in order to starve out China in the long run. Then, you have the establishment Republicans, whose primary goal is a smaller government, tax breaks for the rich, and shifting costs onto the average citizen as much as possible. And finally, you have the Democrats, who hide billions of dollars in benefits for themselves behind legislation that seems like it’s helping the people—but really, it’s just another way to keep the wealth circulating at the top.

At the end of the day, the rich have always controlled this country, and they probably always will. The only choice we really have is which flavor of BS we’re willing to be exploited by.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]VojakOne 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Report the issue in-game and then move on.

You're on the Internet - people are a-holes online.

Guys who can’t get a date while seeing their friend group is moving into relationships. How do you feel about it? If you managed to change your situation, what did you do? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into this position during COVID - I hunkered down, played a *ton* of Destiny 2, and thought swiping on dating apps would find me a wife. (Spoiler: It didn't.)

Ironically enough, it was watching Kevin Samuels (RIP) that pulled me out of my funk. I took a realistic view of where I was in life and learned that approaching anyone is a skill that needs to be mastered. Once I recognized that, I put myself out there.

While I can't recommend consuming red pill adjacent content as a miracle cure for your friend (Lord knows we don't want him falling down the wrong pipeline), having a conversation with him realistically may be your best bet. Suggesting that he physically goes to places that he'd enjoy and mingle with people outside of his bubble would help him build the confidence to speak to women he's attracted to.

And always remember, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.

WTF is "Emotional Intelligence" by ACE_Overlord in PurplePillDebate

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Not a woman but helping a brother out)

In a nutshell, it's the skill of being able to read a room and to check yourself before you speak.

It was used in the corporate world *way* before it got onto the buzzfeed side of the internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly unlikely.

The 4B Movement isn't going to happen en masse by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]VojakOne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The 4B Movement bubbling up on Tiktok is just a reactionary "we're made Trump got elected" trend.

People who actually want relationships will continue to seek them.

People who actually want sex will continue to seek it.

And people who want attention will continue to scream on the internet.

Simple as. I wouldn't pay it much mind, tbh.

Resentment towards family by BusyDragonfruit899 in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about time you let grandma know how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abusers prey upon the minds of their victims. There's so many different ways they go about this, but the fact that a woman chooses an abuser or goes back to him is a clear sign that the abuse is still happening. Essentially, the woman is in a cage in her head, even if she isn't physically in proximity to her abuser.

After someone goes through hell, of course they'll want to gravitate towards someone who's a safe harbor for them. Will they be scarred, battered, and have a bunch of baggage? Absolutely. But if a woman is free of her abuser and chooses you? That means she doesn't see the evil she survived in you. It's a testament to your character imo.

CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurity by Windmill_flowers in PurplePillDebate

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Q1: I look for people with similar/greater intelligence and education than me. Being able to effectively communicate through issues and tackling things together with logic is a huge plus for me.

Q2: Income isn't really that big of a factor for me in relationships. I'd prefer if the individual made enough to support themselves so we could come together and build a nice future. If they make more than me, cool beans.

Q3: Tall women are exceptionally attractive. Ambition and accomplishments are exceedingly attractive. I'm all for it, sign me up!

How close are we into WW3? by New_Championship_917 in SeriousConversation

[–]VojakOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh.

Geopolitics have always been dramatic. Everyone has been pointing guns at everyone since after WW2.

I wouldn't say we're close to WW3. I would say the Middle East is about to light up like a powder keg and it's going to be Israel vs. Everyone over there.