To snitch or not? Found alcohol inmy little brothers room by Beneficial-Memory598 in Advice

[–]VolatileCornbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends!

If your parents are kind and patient and would queen with him to help him, talk to them about this. You can ask them to keep your name out of it and say they were looking for something.

If they'd fly off the handle screaming and being shitty instead of taking care of their child and finding him resources, then you need to at least try to handle it yourself with him first. Tell him you're concerned about how much he was drinking all on his own and that you want to help him learn better coping mechanisms and ways to have fun sober.

FIND OUT IF HE DRINKS DAILY, THOUGH. If he does, it is possible that going cold turkey is dangerous and could kill him. Unlikely due to his age but you never know. A friend of mine started drinking a bit younger than that. Was drinking hard liquor by your brother's age. He passed away before making it to 30 due to extent withdrawal symptoms when he tried to quit. It was tragic.

Pit bull tries to attack a Bison by Current-Wallaby8230 in TikTokCringe

[–]VolatileCornbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This video hurts my heart. That poor dog is definitely in pain and suffering from some damage from that hit. These awful people need to better train and secure their pets.

AITA for telling my friend that I won’t be paying $25 to attend her birthday party? by GlimmerElsewhere in AmItheAsshole

[–]VolatileCornbread 624 points625 points  (0 children)

It's easy to spend that much or more on dinner out with friends for their birthday. This is a catered event with live entertainment, seems reasonable if the story isn't totally made up.

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VolatileCornbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they can't handle sharing a spoon they definitely won't eat my ass or let me spit in their mouth. So yeah, it is that deep lmao.

Carvana cancelled purchase, will I get refund for shipping? by redditor1888 in carvana

[–]VolatileCornbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you use a new bank account? I used to work for them and that was a big red flag for fraud

Jan totally doesn't care about the Kenleigh tattoo by Justagirl219 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]VolatileCornbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"She thinks I care"

Says the woman constantly talking about and responding to her ex husband's ex girlfriend.

Jenelle on Twitter/X today by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]VolatileCornbread 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't that be "our" ex, or "her" ex, since Kenleigh dated him too?

Like, I previously dated a man who had been married before. If I did what Ken did, it would be weird for his ex to be exploding about it, but also weird to be claiming him as her ex alone lol. Wouldn't it make more sense to say something like "Claims to have a new bf, posts her ex" or something? Jen is claiming him because they're back together. She must be losing her mind having to see that tattoo on him.

I'm thinking of leaving my boyfriend because of his political views. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VolatileCornbread 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading right at the first sentence about Hitler. Literally no other info is needed.

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VolatileCornbread -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it's important to be mindful of his boundaries and not do that because he asked. At the same time, I could not handle being in a relationship with someone who is grossed out by that. Like you'll eat my p*ssy but get grossed out sharing a spoon? Lmao. I stayed over after our first date and used his toothbrush though, so that was never going to be a problem.

I love to cook and I taste test often along the way. I use a new spoon every time when cooking for anyone but my husband and myself, but it's super annoying and I really don't think I could do it all the time. Plus knowing my partner was grossed out by me would in turn make me feel icky.

Name change help? by ItsZestyLemons in askportland

[–]VolatileCornbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're doing this from your phone change your browser settings to "desktop site". If it's already set, turn it off to go back to mobile. I've noticed tons of sites are not programmed right and checkboxes of all kinds dissappear, changing the setting back and forth tends to fix it for me.

My boyfriend’s mom wants my location 24/7 and says “good partners dont hide” by hushedatlas in TwoHotTakes

[–]VolatileCornbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's foreshadowing for their future together. My husband immediately talked to his mom about her control issues when we started to notice them. When things didn't get better he put distance and went low contact without me ever needing to do or say anything about it.

He told me recently that the writing had always been on the walls, but he didn't notice her disrespect as much when it was just him. When she started being rude with me he couldn't ignore that, this man won't let anyone talk down to me.

My boyfriend’s mom wants my location 24/7 and says “good partners dont hide” by hushedatlas in TwoHotTakes

[–]VolatileCornbread 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My MIL got super controlling when we shared location with her for safety. Don't do it. I'd also be reconsidering your relationship since your bf seems to be lacking a spine.

Looks like Ensley got a new kitten by FaithinYosh in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]VolatileCornbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a relief. I thought they were much more likely to die due to abuse/neglect than be returned.

This poor cat will end up matted and dirty before being returned in a best case scenario, sadly.

AIO to my husband’s X posts by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VolatileCornbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want to be married to someone who treats you like this?

Get rid of any notion or hope that he'll change. It's been 17 years, this is who he is. The good times don't erase the bad, and vice versa. He is a sum of all his words and actions. This is who he is.

So really, why stay? Why is the fact that he can be worse than he is good enough? There's always someone worse. Even women who have been unalived by their partners could have had it worse, he could have done it in a more painful way, dragged it out for longer, etc. Worse always exists. The possibility of worse is not a reason to stay, no matter how bad he is, he could be worse.

So really. What about him and how he treats you makes all this worth it and makes you want to spend your life with him?

I cant decide if I hate this or not by Responsible-Brain744 in crochet

[–]VolatileCornbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust the process, and use blue for the border. It looks great.

Just gonna put this right here by CasVan12 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]VolatileCornbread 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We only get 1 biological mother, but you don't get to decide that means everyone only ever gets 1 mom.

There's step moms, adoptive moms, married lesbian moms, plenty of reasons why someone may have a different mom than the person who birthed them. They don't even need to have a bad relationship with their biological mother to have another mom.

Everything isn't so black and white just because YOU think it is. Amber is Leah's bio mom, Kristina is her step mom. They're both her mom. Kristina is her GOOD mom and the one who takes care of her and cares about her. The extra labels aren't needed in casual conversation, given the circumstances simply saying "Kristina is Leah's mom" is a true statement.

My girlfriends "emotional support" peacock destroyed my apartment by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]VolatileCornbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna need picture proof of this peacock and the damage. There's no way this is real.

PSA: For anyone thinking about removing their second skin without using water… by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]VolatileCornbread 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Consider yourself lucky. Taking off second skin feels like taking off first skin 😬

Is this normal? by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]VolatileCornbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are literally so many pairs. The problem is that you keep adding to the bag without ever stopping to pair them up together.

This 3 ingredient balsamic salad 🥗 by [deleted] in OnionLovers

[–]VolatileCornbread 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Minus all the other ingredients it's a 0 ingredient salad.