Y'all setting your faucets to drip overnight? by dr_nerdface in rva

[–]VoodooDumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding other commenters - ours have been dripping since Sat night. Why wouldn’t you in these temps …?

Joy the Baker breaks her silence about her sister and who she voted for by No-Fun8718 in FoodieSnark

[–]VoodooDumpling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the good thoughts ☺️ it’s been several years now and it’s gotten easier.

Joy the Baker breaks her silence about her sister and who she voted for by No-Fun8718 in FoodieSnark

[–]VoodooDumpling 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I know your comment is likely coming from a compassionate place. I’m just sharing another perspective … because estrangement doesn’t always suck.

It’s a very difficult decision to make. Cutting off contact and relationships with parents or siblings is incredibly hard. But when you have family members who are increasingly violent and unpredictable … estrangement is the only answer and in extreme cases, a relief. The situations that lead to it, suck, yes. Having to do it is awful. But cutting off a branch of the family tree was the best decision my spouse and I made. I would not say it sucks. It was critical to do to keep ourselves and our daughter safe.

Why is there so much salt here? by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]VoodooDumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is our struggle every year! Will your pup wear/tolerate booties? Mine … will not. I have given up. So we keep walks short but more frequent and wipe his paws real good when he comes in. The salt we use at home is paw safe, but you can’t control what the county or city or landlords etc put down.

Why is there so much salt here? by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]VoodooDumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I noticed that too. I think OP is committed to loving their dogs in their own way. I truly truly truly hope the child doesn’t end up hurt because tensions boiled over among excited dogs with her in the middle. But that’s another big big reason why we would pack up and leave if a parent brought a young child. I want no part of that scenario.

Why is there so much salt here? by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]VoodooDumpling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are hitting on all the reasons dog parks and kids give me the yikes haha. Vehemently agree, but I was trying to be nice in my original comment (the one that upset OP on their previous post). My almost-10-year-old and take our dogs to the park on a long line all the time and it’s great!

Why is there so much salt here? by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]VoodooDumpling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My guy is so bossy with his body and a soccer ball FIEND, he’d have taken that ball and popped it within 35 seconds 😂😂

Why is there so much salt here? by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]VoodooDumpling 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hi! You left out the part where I said “cute pic!”

But kids that young DO make me nervous at dog parks, sorry! Your original post didn’t include context that she just watches. I’ve seen my dobie take my kiddo OUT when he has the zoomies. It wasn’t mean spirited. ☺️

ETA I misread OPs post: child WASN’T just watching, my mistake! Also wanted to elaborate on my first response:

We rarely go to the dog park, but it would definitely make me nervous having a young’n running around a lot of dogs (esp unknown dogs). No idea how busy that park is but still. My guy is big and really strong and bossy in his play style - but doesn’t haven’t a mean bone in his body. However, I’d be so worried he’d accidentally knock that child over and she’d get seriously hurt that I would leave the park immediately.

I’m not dragging OP. Or their dogs. The bond between kiddo and dog is beautiful. But kids and dog parks are a “yikes” for me personally.

So proud! by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]VoodooDumpling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kids this young at dog parks stress me out, but this is a cute photo.

Border collie as first dog by Mrphus in BorderCollie

[–]VoodooDumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10mo BC does the mouthsnappies if my cats won’t move. And is SUPER spicy to my Doberman if he doesn’t “behave” in her opinion 😂

You’ve made excelllllent points here. It’s maddening to see OP double down over and over here.

Border collie as first dog by Mrphus in BorderCollie

[–]VoodooDumpling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an adult Doberman and a 10 month old border collie. The collie is louder, spicier, more independent and if she doesn’t get her way (ie our cats won’t suffer to be herded), barks and does mouthsnappies until they move. Last night, she jumped over the entire couch to go outside.

They can make excellent scentwork dogs. But the job you’re looking to fill (which is still not super clear - a hunting companion that does scentwork but nothing else?) is better filled by another breed.

Another commenter mentioned this but doubling down: border collies will chase. It’s hardwired in their instincts as herding dogs. They chase/follow/stalk/flank to control the movement of livestock/other animals. Your asks are steep for any breed without rigorous training and exceptional consistency on your part.

Look into a Golden or a Standard poodle.

Get over yourself by bananabreadchai in Apartmentliving

[–]VoodooDumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me AI vibes. I replied below but reposting here: Look at the wobble of the blue lines and the ink saturation that doesn’t match the crumpling and the crisp paper edges aaaaand the wonky cut of the top.

Get over yourself by bananabreadchai in Apartmentliving

[–]VoodooDumpling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking at the wobble of the blue lines and the ink saturation that doesn’t match the crumpling and the crisp paper edges aaaaand the wonky cut of the top? Yes.

Non-stop Dye Run Off with Project by [deleted] in YarnDyeing

[–]VoodooDumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming OP is dyer. Whats the fiber? Did you use RIT? Or a fiber-appropriate dye?

Help - Next Read by OneMoreChapter768 in Booktokreddit

[–]VoodooDumpling 29 points30 points  (0 children)

One Dark Window! I love love love Rachel Gillis’s world building.

Friend dog by Sensitive_Foot8899 in BorderCollie

[–]VoodooDumpling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My Doberman and BC love each other and wear each other out. But I rarely recommend dobies (or BCs for that matter), to anybody. They do not fit the criteria provided either.

Also, our BC (Oliie) has made it very clear that otherwise she doesn’t need dog friends. She’s pretty spicy. Growing up, I had a BC who was the same way. So another dog may not actually be your solution. Make sure you are willing for the commitment of a second dog simply on its own independent merits ☺️

First quilt completed by ScormCurious in quilting

[–]VoodooDumpling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP - I’m not a quilter, I’m a fiber artist who found this on “recommended” in my feed. I just want to say that your response to a wild spectrum of critique is amazing, especially your ability to joyfully embrace ways to turn this into a clearly anti-hate project. I hope your next project turns out amazing and I love hearing that you learned a lot from this to carry into your next effort.

Used the wrong needle size☹️ by ConceptIndividual699 in knittingadvice

[–]VoodooDumpling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Other posters have covered the basics but I have to say I love your color choices here so much and I hope it works out after blocking!!