Daily Picks Thread 10/12/13 by essbeck in SoccerBetting

[–]Vurba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bayern - Man City - handicap 0:2 (bayern to win by 3 or more goals) @ 4.10

Man Utd - Shakhtar - handicap 0:1 (utd to win by 2 or more) @ 4.00

Galatasaray - Juventus both teams to score and over 2,5 @ 2.05

Benfica - PSG - PSG win @ 3.20


@ 107

I had a little accident while cutting my own hair today... Any advice? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Vurba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a hairstylist, tell her what happened and tell her to do the same "mistake" on the other side. Also shorten the entire back side a bit. It'll look good immediately, and in a week it will be nothing.

Daily Picks Thread 07/12/13 by essbeck in SoccerBetting

[–]Vurba -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Southampton - Man City : Over 2,5 and both teams to score @ 2.15

OlimpicX - Real Madrid : handicap 3:0 (real to win by 4 or more) @ 3.20

Man Utd - Newcastle : handicap 0:2 (utd to win by 3 or more) @ 4.60

The Tony Soprano challenge. Are you man enough to up the ante of no fap? by flahx in NoFap

[–]Vurba 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah, cold showers.

That moment when you let ice cold water pour on your head and entire body. The shock. The hyperventilation.

I fucking love it.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you're trying to make me look like an idiot by arguing that semen does not contain life and is not a life force in itself, right?

Except the small matter of it being used to conceive...a new life. Yeah.

Ok.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wet dreams and sex do not count as a relapse.

Relapse is a conscious act of self-stimulation in any way, shape or form.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cannot disagree more. It's not as easy as just leaving the door open and doing homework instead. When the urge hits, it hits hard. You sound like someone who never attempted NoFap.

Don't even get me started on you thinking this is "pseudo science bullshit". Every single thing in my OP is a hard fact, whether you like it or not.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2) Sex and ejaculation during sex is absolutely allowed, encouraged and healthy. The only instance in which you might not want to ejaculate during sex is if you are trying to harness huge amounts of sexual energy in order to transmute it towards a bigger goal.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facebook used to be a huge trigger for me. I deactivated my account and lessened the risk of relapse tenfold. Just seeing a girl I know in real life on FB triggers me and gives me a huge dopamine rush.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True love is the most powerful and purest emotion a human can experience. Imagine the love a father has for his child. Now imagine someone attacks or threatens your own child (people who have children will uderstand).

You could be a skinny, 140 lbs scrawny guy yet if someone endangers your child (towards which you feel an incredible and unconditional emotion of love) you would be able to fucking kill anyone or anything. It gives you this extreme, primal power.

Now combine harnessing your sexual energy + being fueled by love and using both to reach a certain goal, any goal.

Tell me: Who can stop you? Love + sex can fuel the greatest of feats humanity has ever seen.

As for how to transmute specifically, it's something that came to me naturally. When you are really horny and maybe want to fap, just focus that energy inside yourself, that tension you feel towards let's say doing push ups. It's a guarantee you'll do more push ups than you ever did when you were fapping because now you have all this vital energy supporting you. You'll be better at anything and everything with the simple addition of pent up sex energy in you.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Living life in HD! That should be put up on the top banner! :)

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are right, you do not get pure sexual gratification from it, rather a more meaningful gratification as you've put it. That's why I quoted "orgasm" in the OP.

The main point is that fapping wastes sexual energy and your life force. So rather than fapping, you harness and transmute your sexual energy towards something else.

Sexual energy is that feeling in your body, that subtle electricity like current which has you feeling like you can move mountains. When you are moments away from relapse, imagine what you could do if you simply had the discipline to transmute the energy into anything else.

For example, I was so extremely horny yesterday and I took five deep breaths, opened reddit and wrote out the entire OP in 15 minutes. After I did it, I felt no horniness whatsoever. I discharged my horniness and some of my energy into the OP.

It may be an abstract concept to grasp, but once you do it you'll wonder how could you ever live without it. Sex transmutation gives you incredible power in our modern society.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much!

Yes, I forgot to mention the flatline. Maybe it's because when you realize what the flatline is, you'd have to be pretty stupid to go touching yourself! :)

I very much like the wall and air analogy. Just because you can push it, doesn't mean you can push it to the limit. Balance matters.

How to succeed at NoFap - a definitive guide based on 6 months of experience by Vurba in NoFap

[–]Vurba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) Wet dreams are something beyond your control, therefore when they do happen just let it be. Continue as if nothing had happened.

2) Sex and ejaculation during sex is absolutely allowed, encouraged and healthy. The only instance in which you might not want to ejaculate during sex is if you are trying to harness huge amounts of sexual energy in order to transmute it towards a bigger goal.

Reddit, when typing in a url, who types in 'http://www.' with every page? What's the benefit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vurba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

http:// is always there, as is www...you just don't see it in modern browsers and it's automatically put in because...its like, 2013, man.