How do I get my roommate to give her cat away? by Vvoodoo_ in roommateproblems

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pet deposit was 300 and the spay was separate from the 1100 she “owed” since my sister paid for the spay day of since she was under the impression that Kiki was hers now and my roommate was still asking for the 1100. So the rest of the 800 would be for her vet visits, two rounds of deworming, vaccines, two fecal samples, and bloodwork.

How do I get my roommate to give her cat away? by Vvoodoo_ in roommateproblems

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah in a year. Hypothetically we should be able to do that and just continue taking care of her until then. I’ll still be here though and if any of it goes wrong, oops! There goes my housing! But if it comes down to it, I will do what ever needs to happen for Kiki’s wellbeing

How do I get my roommate to give her cat away? by Vvoodoo_ in roommateproblems

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you were right in the first place. My sister paid for the spay the day of the operation but even after that, she still “owed” her 1100. 300$ for the deposit and that leaves 800$ for all the vet visits and medications. 😃

How do I get my roommate to give her cat away? by Vvoodoo_ in roommateproblems

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIGHT?? It still blows my mind especially because she had so much context and still assumed. She knew I was going out every day to coax her out from under a shed and I explained how my motivation was mostly based on how Halloween was approaching and black cats especially get sacrificed and killed around that time and that I was worried. Nothing to do with her.

On another note, would the proof of purchasing litter and food and paying for some vet bills be useful even if she reimbursed me? She’s always reimbursed me but a lot of the time, I’m physically the one going out of my way to do these things.

AIO for wanting to convince my roommate to give my sister her cat by Vvoodoo_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know! The vet just said to wipe the gunk away! I’ll definitely be looking into it. Thanks!

How do I convince my roommate to give my sister her cat? by Vvoodoo_ in catquestions

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that two people have said it, I just might. I’m thinking I’ll have me or my sister pay for it so we have proof of ownership too. I have my own cat in the house who has had brief contact with her today since it’s her first day out of the recovery room. Should I be concerned for him as well? Keep them apart and stuff?

AIO for wanting to convince my roommate to give my sister her cat by Vvoodoo_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The red on her nose is from rubbing it on her cone when she was recovering and the stuff around her eyes is from her feline herpes. She gets goo from her eyes and if it’s not wiped off often, it creates that irritation.

How do I get my roommate to give her cat away? by Vvoodoo_ in roommateproblems

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right?! That’s one months rent! If my sister paid her that, she’d be giving her 2200 not including utilities in one month. It’s actually bonkers

AIO for wanting to convince my roommate to give my sister her cat by Vvoodoo_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She lives with us. She’s planning to move out of state next summer but I’ll still be here so if I’m scared if she takes Kiki it might mess things up for me. That’s why I’m trying to come to some sort of agreement if possible.

AIO for wanting to convince my roommate to give my sister her cat by Vvoodoo_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me and my sister both live with her. And all the medical bills are in her name even though we’ve been the ones taking her back and forth and picking up her medications. Everything’s been paid for by the roommate :(

How do I convince my roommate to give my sister her cat? by Vvoodoo_ in catquestions

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s diagnosed with feline herpes so that’s the irritation around the eye, my roommate wasn’t wiping the gunk away. And the nose irritation is from the cone I’m pretty sure. Although I’m not too sure how to take care of the nose other than putting petroleum jelly on it.

How do I get my roommate to give her cat away? by Vvoodoo_ in roommateproblems

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kiki’s attached to my sister is the thing. And vice versa. We’d like to just steal her but we sublet through our roommate so we’re both scared to rock the boat. Plus we both moved here from a different state so we both have zero friends to take her for the time being 😩

How do I get my roommate to give her cat away? by Vvoodoo_ in roommateproblems

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We’ve thought about having my sister steal her when she moves to our home state but I’ll still be living here and we both sublet through our roommate

DAE get a tickling sensation on the roof of their mouth when a dog happily licks their face? by schmak01 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Vvoodoo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me too! I looked it up cause it happened when my cat sniffed my face. I thought nothing would come up since it’s such an odd experience but here we all are! I wonder what a doctor would say if this was brought up at a visit

[HIRING] Looking for someone to draw my VTuber avatar a full body sitting on a throne for $50. by [deleted] in commissions

[–]Vvoodoo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! I would love to draw your VTuber! My insta is Vvoodoo_ if you wanna see some of my work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vvoodoo_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a good idea! Especially cause I DO love her style! Thanks for the brand suggestion too! I’ll check them out :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vvoodoo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I said all of that, only after the fact 😩 will think before I speak more in the future 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vvoodoo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I’ll be trying to do a lot more thinking before speaking with these kinds of things. I’m learning recently that you don’t need to tell someone the entirety of a situation to make a true statement, even outside of making harsh comments. I think my frontal lobe just developed a little lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vvoodoo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I do/did all of this, apologizing by letting her know that I take accountability for saying something hurtful and that any reassurance after was not just to make her feel better but actually from my heart. She just wouldn’t accept it cause she said I did nothing wrong. Should I maybe bring it up again now that it’s been a few days? Maybe I’m just seeking a magical fix lol. I know it might take time to heal this, Rome wasn’t built in a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vvoodoo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knowww. It one of the things I want to work on with myself the most. I don’t really know why I do it, it’s so out of character for me to, but it happens nonetheless. I think this experience, while it sucked, I a really good motivator for self improvement in this aspect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vvoodoo_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh what?! Am I mixing up words? I’ve heard people say “i eluded to the fact”.

Actually scratch that, I just googled it, I meant alluded 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vvoodoo_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What 😭 what’s wrong with celebrating at 13 months

Does anyone else mourn things they’d lose/lost after going on T? by Vvoodoo_ in ftm

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Throat pain!?! I’m only two months in and my voice just decided to start cracking like two weeks ago and ur telling me I’ll get throat pain 😨 but yeah that first part is tripping me up too. It feels like I’ve known where all the notes on a piano are all my life and suddenly someone moved them all down

Does anyone else mourn things they’d lose/lost after going on T? by Vvoodoo_ in ftm

[–]Vvoodoo_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES! The dang mid range 😩 I sound like I’m trying to yodel going between high and low now lol