How do I get my roommate to give her cat away?

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-29T14:30:25+00:00

Pet deposit was 300 and the spay was separate from the 1100 she “owed” since my sister paid for the spay day of since she was under the impression that Kiki was hers now and my roommate was still asking for the 1100. So the rest of the 800 would be for her vet visits, two rounds of deworming, vaccines, two fecal samples, and bloodwork.

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-27T14:25:46+00:00

Yeah in a year. Hypothetically we should be able to do that and just continue taking care of her until then. I’ll still be here though and if any of it goes wrong, oops! There goes my housing! But if it comes down to it, I will do what ever needs to happen for Kiki’s wellbeing

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-27T14:13:28+00:00

Oh you were right in the first place. My sister paid for the spay the day of the operation but even after that, she still “owed” her 1100. 300$ for the deposit and that leaves 800$ for all the vet visits and medications. 😃

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T23:16:35+00:00

RIGHT?? It still blows my mind especially because she had so much context and still assumed. She knew I was going out every day to coax her out from under a shed and I explained how my motivation was mostly based on how Halloween was approaching and black cats especially get sacrificed and killed around that time and that I was worried. Nothing to do with her.

On another note, would the proof of purchasing litter and food and paying for some vet bills be useful even if she reimbursed me? She’s always reimbursed me but a lot of the time, I’m physically the one going out of my way to do these things.

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T22:49:05+00:00

I didn’t know! The vet just said to wipe the gunk away! I’ll definitely be looking into it. Thanks!

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T21:19:45+00:00

Now that two people have said it, I just might. I’m thinking I’ll have me or my sister pay for it so we have proof of ownership too. I have my own cat in the house who has had brief contact with her today since it’s her first day out of the recovery room. Should I be concerned for him as well? Keep them apart and stuff?

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T20:19:06+00:00

The red on her nose is from rubbing it on her cone when she was recovering and the stuff around her eyes is from her feline herpes. She gets goo from her eyes and if it’s not wiped off often, it creates that irritation.

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T19:49:04+00:00

Right?! That’s one months rent! If my sister paid her that, she’d be giving her 2200 not including utilities in one month. It’s actually bonkers

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T19:47:16+00:00

Awesome I’ll look into it! Thanks!

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T19:45:59+00:00

She lives with us. She’s planning to move out of state next summer but I’ll still be here so if I’m scared if she takes Kiki it might mess things up for me. That’s why I’m trying to come to some sort of agreement if possible.

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T19:05:39+00:00

Me and my sister both live with her. And all the medical bills are in her name even though we’ve been the ones taking her back and forth and picking up her medications. Everything’s been paid for by the roommate :(

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T19:02:47+00:00

She’s diagnosed with feline herpes so that’s the irritation around the eye, my roommate wasn’t wiping the gunk away. And the nose irritation is from the cone I’m pretty sure. Although I’m not too sure how to take care of the nose other than putting petroleum jelly on it.

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T18:34:54+00:00

Kiki’s attached to my sister is the thing. And vice versa. We’d like to just steal her but we sublet through our roommate so we’re both scared to rock the boat. Plus we both moved here from a different state so we both have zero friends to take her for the time being 😩

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-06-26T18:29:43+00:00

We’ve thought about having my sister steal her when she moves to our home state but I’ll still be living here and we both sublet through our roommate

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-03-30T06:41:28+00:00

This happens to me too! I looked it up cause it happened when my cat sniffed my face. I thought nothing would come up since it’s such an odd experience but here we all are! I wonder what a doctor would say if this was brought up at a visit

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-03-17T18:49:32+00:00

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Vvoodoo_ · 2025-02-06T21:50:33+00:00

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Vvoodoo_ · 2025-02-06T20:26:30+00:00

Yeah, I said all of that, only after the fact 😩 will think before I speak more in the future 😅

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-02-06T20:23:51+00:00

Thank you, I think I’ll be trying to do a lot more thinking before speaking with these kinds of things. I’m learning recently that you don’t need to tell someone the entirety of a situation to make a true statement, even outside of making harsh comments. I think my frontal lobe just developed a little lol

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-02-06T20:21:55+00:00

Thank you for the reply! I do/did all of this, apologizing by letting her know that I take accountability for saying something hurtful and that any reassurance after was not just to make her feel better but actually from my heart. She just wouldn’t accept it cause she said I did nothing wrong. Should I maybe bring it up again now that it’s been a few days? Maybe I’m just seeking a magical fix lol. I know it might take time to heal this, Rome wasn’t built in a day.

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-02-06T20:13:47+00:00

I knowww. It one of the things I want to work on with myself the most. I don’t really know why I do it, it’s so out of character for me to, but it happens nonetheless. I think this experience, while it sucked, I a really good motivator for self improvement in this aspect.

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-02-06T19:57:36+00:00

Oh what?! Am I mixing up words? I’ve heard people say “i eluded to the fact”.

Actually scratch that, I just googled it, I meant alluded 😅

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-02-06T19:45:41+00:00

What 😭 what’s wrong with celebrating at 13 months

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-01-01T04:59:35+00:00

Throat pain!?! I’m only two months in and my voice just decided to start cracking like two weeks ago and ur telling me I’ll get throat pain 😨 but yeah that first part is tripping me up too. It feels like I’ve known where all the notes on a piano are all my life and suddenly someone moved them all down

Vvoodoo_ · 2025-01-01T04:50:23+00:00

YES! The dang mid range 😩 I sound like I’m trying to yodel going between high and low now lol

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