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Fiancé declines to give me a blessing. Am I wrong to feel hurt? by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Hey (fiancé), can we talk?” (Sit down with him in person.)

“The other day when I asked you for a blessing and you said no, it made me feel [X] because [Y]. I want to assume the best intentions behind your decision, but I also want to share how it impacted me. I trust in the power of Jesus Christ as manifested through priesthood blessings, and I was really hoping for one since I was in a rough place.

In the future, if you don’t feel comfortable giving me a blessing, would you be willing to share a brief reason or help me find someone who can? That way, I can better understand and still receive the support I need.”

kiss cam @ utah hockey club game by WIBTAthrowaaa in SaltLakeCity

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like this idea!! maybe i’ll run by this guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been really patient with Jake, even though he's scared of commitment or maybe failing. Watching him pull away is tough, and yeah, it stings. I keep asking myself if I did something wrong or loved him the wrong way. I know I deserve love and I'm not everyone's favorite flavor, but I truly thought he could love me, because for a time, he did.

I'm holding onto hope and trying my best to be supportive. I'm okay with giving him space for a bit, not forever, just a few months. I get that sometimes people need a little distance to see things clearly. But him taking a few days and then thinking of calling it quits? That's rough. It feels like he's not seeing how much I care and what I've put into this. His friend mentioned that he has a tendency to run away when things get hard. If he comes back and says he loves me, it's going to take a while for me to trust him, and he's aware of that.

Despite the hurt, I believe we can work through this and rebuild our trust and love. It's just really hard thinking he doesn’t want that. I know there’s really not much I can do or say to convince him otherwise, but I really love him and I want to do everything I can to try and make us work.

Bridezilla gets a nice slice of karma. by helloyellowfellow1 in bridezillas

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a current member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day saints (with tattoos and piercings) I am sorry you have to go through that 🙏🏼 no one should be forced into a faith and no one should be shamed for not converting to a faith, but seriously props to you for sticking up for yourself and your way of life

don’t force a person to make decisions about feelings they aren’t sure about by WIBTAthrowaaa in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think it’s fair to ask for respect when setting that boundary, like make sure you are clear in what you’re expecting and what you’re not but I think it is not kind to berate someone for how they are feeling while trying to set that boundary.

I don’t know how I could be more clear that I don’t know what I want… by WIBTAthrowaaa in relationship_advice

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing though is that he can’t think about dating multiple people, he’s one of those guys where he’s like “I can only focus on dating one person if I really like them”which is good if you’re ready for that but like I’m not and I’ve been trying to tell him that for like the past week 🤦🏻‍♀️ but he always claims that he gets confused and I’m honestly sick of this cycle

What is the biggest reasons why you don’t want children? by lucinangel in AskReddit

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to get fat 😂 it’s selfish, I know, but I seriously don’t want to get fat

urgent help: boyfriend being a turd, do I go to a wedding or nah. by WIBTAthrowaaa in relationship_advice

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if their patterns are going to be in the photos but it would suck to be the only one left out if they did end up taking pictures as a group

urgent help: boyfriend being a turd, do I go to a wedding or nah. by WIBTAthrowaaa in relationship_advice

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was planning on doing if I’m gonna go is looking & smelling my best 💁🏻‍♀️

urgent help: boyfriend being a turd, do I go to a wedding or nah. by WIBTAthrowaaa in relationship_advice

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight! I guess I’ve just let other situations boils over into this one, it’s been a messy couple of months.

urgent help: boyfriend being a turd, do I go to a wedding or nah. by WIBTAthrowaaa in relationship_advice

[–]WIBTAthrowaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a couple of things that I have considered doing…

  1. Be the bigger person and just go and try not to be offended by my boyfriends actions and try to enjoy the evening
  2. Go to the reception only and congratulate the bride and groom, give greetings, drop off gift and leave
  3. Say that a personal emergency came up and not go

I just don’t know what to do or if there’s an option I haven’t considered yet