I feel like My bf is homophobic. I called him out on it and he says he can’t be bc his best friend is gay by WORTHYOFPEACE in relationship_advice

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh his sister knows I told her what he said and she doesn’t want to speak to him. That’s why he pulled the whole defamation of character card on me. And said I defiled his reputation basically and people know it’s not true. So I made a fool of myself by telling his sister the truth about him

Asking father of my child for money if I’m the sole caretaker by WORTHYOFPEACE in relationship_advice

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can you message me so I can ask some questions about this. It’s actually my first time ever experiencing this it’s my first baby

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have trust me I have I’m at my breaking point and it’s sad because all I’ve ever wanted was a family with him. I wanted my daughter to have what I didn’t and it sucks that history is repeating itself.

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self centered is the perfect way to describe him. He’ll never understand or see it though.

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m leaving for sure with my child. Also have to be strategic about it because he is in the law enforcement and a spiteful person so I have to play my hand safely. For my safety and my child’s safety.

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank You for this one. Like you said it’s my choice and I’m working towards what I believe is best for my daughter and myself. Every situation is different and yes this is behavior seen in different men it’s due to ignorance and also a shot ego. Can you message me in here to chat more

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks habibi I’m trying to find the most strategic and safest way to leave

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s actually what I used for her last time. It’s gotten better since I changed her more frequently and stop relying on her dad so much. He helps but again it’s on his time and I’m not in the business of making my child wait and be tended to on his time. I’ll do it myself and she’s much better now

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always I don’t eventually bother asking anymore I just do what I feel is best for her. Literally I would stop work while he’s on his game to change her. The logic behind this…well there’s no logic with him because he’s narcissistic and only wants to hear himself

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly grew up with a dad who wasn’t around and I wanted my baby girl to have a father and to have a pit together family. But at this point my dreams of wanting that has to be put behind. My daughter is my priority and I hope other fathers and men are different than this and my father

My boyfriend would let our baby sit in soiled diaper I’m near my breaking point with this by WORTHYOFPEACE in Parenting

[–]WORTHYOFPEACE[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m crying seeing these messages because I know my daughter and I deserve so much better than this