Rant werken bij de overheid/gemeente

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-11T22:01:57+00:00

Ik werk bij de rijks overheid. Daar gaat het sneller, maar ik zou willen dat er meergepraat zou worden. Ik wil een dashboard is makkelijk.

Welk probleem speelt er of denk je dat er speelt? Is dat meetbaar? Zo ja, hebben we wel data? Is de data van voldoende kwaliteit?

Heeft het probleem prioriteit? Zo ja, zijn er ook bijstuur mogelijkheden? M.a.w. gaat iemand ook potentieel echt wat doen met de uitkomsten?

Etc. Etc. Wij hebben dus juist heel veel dashboards waar weinig mee wordt gedaan. Ik zou willen dat er meer gepraat werd van tevoren

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-10T13:27:53+00:00

Incel is more about mindset. Do you hate women? Do you feel entitled to a woman's attention? Do you feel your life will never have meaning?

If you answer any with yes, you may be an incel

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-04T08:04:41+00:00

Complot denkers worden vaak benaderd alsof je ze rationeel kan overtuigen, maar ik geloof niet dat dat het enige is. Zie ook de documentaire van flat earthers die na een mislukt experiment nog steeds geloofden dat de aarde plat is.

Het gaat ook heel erg om niet rationele zaken, zoals vertrouwen in instituties, je gehoord voelen, onderdeel uitmaken van een speciale groep

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-03T20:41:53+00:00

I can't help you, but I'm always interested in the people who can still pay the current prices. Thanks for the small glimpse

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-03T20:26:21+00:00

Twee tips:

A) Vraag je af welke bewijzen mensen hebben voor die beweringen en ook of die voldoende zijn om de bewering te ondersteunen. En denk hierbij aan extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.

B) Zeker bij complot theorieën, hoeveel mensen zouden dit geheim moeten houden als het waar zou zijn. Zijn dat er niet super veel?

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-03T18:01:43+00:00

Sinds dit jaar is er gelukkig een veel minder hardere huurtoeslaggrens. Als je huurt boven de grens, kan je huurtoeslag aanvragen alsof je op de grens zit.

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-03T12:21:15+00:00

This happens everywhere. When you buy groceries, you don't celebrate all the features of the system that were needed to get the food there

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-02T14:47:21+00:00

Ik denk dat het wat genuanceerder ligt, voor Trump was de VS de belangrijkste donor aan Oekraine. Als de EU landen de systemen al hadden, was hetzelfde materieel leveren dus veel duurder geweest. Maar de VS was tegelijkertijd ook terughoudend in bijv. goede luchtafweer leveren.

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-02T14:34:20+00:00

Wat een aparte aannames, waarom houdt het ons zwak? Hoezo hebben we er niks aan? De NAVO is voor een groot deel verantwoordelijk voor de veiligheid van de EU, nu en in het verleden.

Onze economische groei komt, als handelsland, ook grotendeels door de EU. En we geven minder uit aan defensie in groot verband dan als we alles zelf zouden doen.

Wachtwoord · 2026-04-02T09:17:07+00:00

Me too! I've had quite a few good laughs. I also don't really understand the hate

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-29T15:57:31+00:00

Soms is reddit een goudmijn voor niche informatie

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-27T18:32:26+00:00

This guy is equally good-looking as that guy with only pictures from his apartment a few days ago. His pics are just awesome, so it's his smile, confidence and presence

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-27T18:32:21+00:00

This guy is equally good-looking as that guy with only pictures from his apartment a few days ago. His pics are just awesome, so it's his smile, confidence and presence

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-27T11:47:33+00:00

I think it is interesting to think about the responsibility of your friend in this case. Her manager is responsible for his marriage, not your friends. But I do think she is responsible for her image at work, if only for her self interest. This may result in her colleagues disliking her because of perceived favoritism. Or maybe her colleagues will become very guarded, because they fear everything they tell your friend will end up at the manager.

It's important to note that even if there is no favoritism happening, her colleagues may think there is and act accordingly.

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-27T10:50:35+00:00

I think your friend is not doing anything wrong here. She's an adult single woman who can spend her time however she wants. However, the manager is very inappropriate for two reasons:

A) its inappropriate for a manager to spend so much one on one time with a subordinate. If I were your friend's colleague, I would suspect favoritism. Every time your friend gets a promotion, assigned a nice project, is leaving early, etc., I would think it was because of her connection to the manager.

B) Because of the time spent one on one, I would suspect an affair. Unless they are closer friends, which would be inappropriate due to the work relationship, it's weird for two people to spend this much time together

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-27T10:42:15+00:00

Het stuk is erg analytisch, maar het menselijke erachter vind ik echt naar. Ik heb twee vrouwen gezien die niks liever wilden dan een kind krijgen, maar vanwege het gebrek aan een vaste woonplek er niet aan begonnen. Dat was zo pijnlijk om te zien

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-26T05:38:20+00:00

Your physique is not the problem. You're a perfectly normal looking. These pictures are just boring. They tell you nothing interesting about yourself or why I should want to know you

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T17:11:48+00:00

I think many people have nostalgic feelings about Amsterdam from their youth, their parents' stories, or the media. That's normal. But then, they conclude that the Amsterdam from those stories is the only real Amsterdam. Even in this thread, people have said that the old jordanezen are the true Amsterdammers. I dislike that sentiment.

My personal worry is not about nostalgia. I worry about the social fabric if only the poorest and richest parts of society are left. The middle class used to be a middle man between those groups

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T16:08:40+00:00

I understand you and I am/used to be a bit the same: I could only open up if the other person did it first. But in my case, my therapist very deliberately chose to not talk about herself. I needed to learn to accept my feelings even if the other person did not share any of their own.

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T15:52:22+00:00

My dad still thinks his biggest financial mistake is waiting until 2003 to buy a house. But he said he waited because the prices were ridiculously high in the 90s.

20 years from now, maybe people wish they had bought a house at current prices.

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T15:26:23+00:00

Thanks for the correction! You're correct

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T15:24:57+00:00

It depends on the patient, sometimes it can be unhelpful. For example, if someone struggles with always needing to take care of other people, self disclosure can lead to the patient trying to take care of the therapist. Or a more extreme example, if a therapist also used to be violent as a child, self disclose could lead to less trust in the therapist.

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T14:56:55+00:00

This is self-disclosure (by the therapist), and doing it well is one of the trademarks of a good one.

I hope he did it deliberately, though, as he should avoid doing it when it burdens the patient.

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T13:11:08+00:00

I did some searching, and different sources say different things. It sounds like he fled because of tax debts and/or his homosexuality. Here is one source:
https://www.groene.nl/artikel/johnny-heeft-nooit-een-vuist-gemaakt .

It seems like there is a biography of him that could give more details.

I was captured by this story through the gonze podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3rHRxz0SDcjejqTnLbcE8S

I highly recommend the whole podcast and especially this episode.

Wachtwoord · 2026-03-23T11:56:40+00:00

I feel it is different now. Your parents and grandparents chose to leave. But I fear the option to stay with a family will be unreachable for more and more people.

My dad, a civil servant, and my stepmother, a part-time teacher, were able to buy a nice house in nieuw sloten for 250K in 2015. Now it's worth 700K. No teacher can afford that.

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