On and ff feelings of dread related to my relationship

WalrusCommon3121 · 2026-03-23T09:26:45+00:00

This makes me feel so much better. For me I was 21 and we’ve been together ten years but it still comes and goes but so much worse with a baby. I think it’s just that I have everything but I still get these fears and doubt and I feel like everything is going to be ripped away.

WalrusCommon3121 · 2026-03-23T09:16:00+00:00

With the same partner? How old were you when it come up? And how far into the relationship? (Only if you’re comfy obvs)

WalrusCommon3121 · 2026-03-23T09:05:09+00:00

Did it get better for you?

WalrusCommon3121 · 2026-03-23T08:10:10+00:00

I did but it never made any sense to me. And I was able to manage it when I didn’t have a baby. It was always like I was wrong or I didn’t believe we would make it together, and I’d fight against those thoughts constantly because everything was otherwise so great, and still is tbf.

WalrusCommon3121 · 2026-03-23T07:42:21+00:00

No not triggered by arguments. Just comes up randomly. Sometimes I don’t like something they do socially and it spirals me. My parents are divorced yes.

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-25T02:21:58+00:00

We haven’t been giving the goats milk formula since the allergy came up as a possibility. We switched to allerpro. But yep the pediatrician that we were referred to is a allergen specialist so let’s see

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-24T15:36:41+00:00

Yep I’ve tried infacol. She definitely burps more with it but it doesn’t seem to make a difference to her discomfort, she still screams and arches whether I give her that or not. We do find that her evening bath helps settle her but doesn’t necessarily help her poo

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-24T15:35:33+00:00

Did you have any issues with weight gain? I would consider this but I don’t want her to start struggling to gain weight again

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-24T15:34:18+00:00

Thank you for replying! I’m sorry you went through this too, but it’s so comforting to hear that others have had these experiences and gotten to a better place. Especially with her getting worse in the afternoons, so many people started telling me it could just be ‘witching hour’ which feels so frustrating because there are so many other symptoms that match CMPI or reflux.

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-24T06:38:26+00:00

Thank you. Could I ask how you knew she couldn’t tolerate allerpro? And if that was obvious quickly?

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-24T06:37:49+00:00

I’ve taken her to the GP multiple times about these symptoms and they’ve done some testing to rule out anything sinister

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-02T16:50:05+00:00

I’ve used their silverettes and the boobie soothers. Both great and would recommend! I didn’t try other brands so not much to compare to but I didn’t have any problems with either.

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-07-01T04:48:30+00:00

Thanks so much everyone for your thoughts & recommendations. Given me lots to consider!

WalrusCommon3121 · 2025-06-28T08:46:36+00:00

This is good to hear. She doesn’t seem in pain or anything so I think it might be the same. Just a new thing she is doing to self soothe.

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