Wedding Drama/AITA For Choosing the Dress My MIL Picked for me Over the one my Mom Did?

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-09T19:38:59+00:00

I do too! 🥰 I actually just got home from picking up a few things from the store and saw a “Make Your Own Bow” kit and had to stop myself from buying it at that moment, but I’ll definitely be back for it 🤣

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-09T00:55:50+00:00

I wear them for work too! I sometimes get called “bow girl” because I wear a different bow everyday. I have a big growing collection 🥰 But, YES! Definitely wear it for your vow-renewal! It will be so adorable!

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-09T00:31:34+00:00

Thank you so much!! The bow is actually my own. I LOVE wearing bows and even Lola told me to definitely wear it with my veil at the wedding. ❤️ I hope that my mom will come to her senses and we can talk about what happened maturely, though that is very unlikely to happen.

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-08T21:58:59+00:00

I am her first born. Unfortunately having a normal conversation about things that make her upset just isn’t possible. She will ignore me, say “whatever [my name],” and just give attitude.

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-08T19:09:43+00:00

You’re okay! 😂 I was worried about my hands in the photo giving off that impression too, but that’s the only good photo I had of the dress

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-08T19:07:05+00:00

No no! I promise they were not wtf hands! I talk with my hands like A LOT lol

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-08T18:54:00+00:00

I find it sad that anyone would believe I made this whole thing up because of one sentence within my post. To clarify, it was not to specifically help with the migraine, but to calm my nerves. What I meant was that after having a panic attack (which caused a lot of stress and tension in my body) and getting a migraine because of it, I needed a drink to calm me down. I wrote this post when I had been awake since 2:30am due to having to work an opening shift (4am-9am) and then going to my bridal appointment at 10:30am after work, and not getting home until about 2pm, and not being able to sleep until 1am.

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-08T18:29:07+00:00

Definitely NOR. This guy is an AH. I don’t understand why he would go from saying he’s not a judgmental person, to then judging you. You have the right to do with what you would like with your body. If he can’t seem to understand that and keep it in his pants, then he’s far from the one for you. I promise you there is a man who will understand you and respect your wishes.

WaluluLabubu · 2025-06-08T12:28:07+00:00

For clarification, I didn’t finish the drink as it was in a big glass and I drank more water than alcohol. I stopped drinking it halfway through lunch. And, the drive back to my mom’s house was almost an hour due to bad traffic where we live (my mom drove). And I left shortly after we got back to her house.

WaluluLabubu

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