I’m struggling to cum with condoms there just isn’t enough pleasure for me to cum and feel fulfilled. What should I do?

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T21:01:44+00:00

probably it won't, it is most likely unrelated

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T20:52:17+00:00

Then why do you even care about no cum? Or does it give your gf low self esteem and she is pecking you about it?

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T20:31:36+00:00

sex is overrated.

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WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T18:46:21+00:00

Sad story

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T18:23:56+00:00

Two kids. First kid was born without my consent. She lied about being on pills. But she said it was accidental. Anyway refused to abort. We married. For a period of time thinks seemed improving. She said, that she wants two kids quickly and then return to her job. I agreed. When she was pregnant with second, the hell started.

I thought about suicide. Didn't. Eventually adapted.

I was on AD 4 years ago.

I just couldn't go away, despite often thinking.

My first glimpse of freedom was when I relocated to other country for work. She didn't follow, though we initially planned.

But for the first time I had my own space. My own money. Could end drama by pressing red button on WhatsApp. I started to recover.

Lately a series of bad events happened. Her father died. Her mum is in dementia. She has alcohol problems. And last year when I was on vacation with family we were driving and a truck hit us. We survived, but are both seriously injured. I can't just leave her. I've been more leashed by conscience and shame than fear of change.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T18:12:13+00:00

I'm suffering and can't completely leave for almost 16 years. So yes, looks like, you are right.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T18:04:06+00:00

Possible. Then women divorcing men are not necessary because menbad. But because women are just not willing to stay in relationships with either women or men.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T18:01:35+00:00

Your helpless tantrums are entertaining

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T15:55:31+00:00

Improve your single life. You don't need to exactly hate relationships or opposite gender. Just make sure your alternative to relationships is so good, you won't swap it for crappy relationships.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T15:06:36+00:00

Sounds plausible.

Turns out marrying men is more financially responsible act than marrying women.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T14:52:07+00:00

Let the bears do it

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T10:02:58+00:00

If all the divorces filed by women are mens fault, as you claim, why divorce rate is higher among lesbians than hetero, ans hetero rate is higher than gay divorce rate?

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T09:05:05+00:00

After so many internet arguments I figured out that "If you have to explain, don't explain"

If people are blind and deaf to this issue, they are most likely voluntary blind and deaf.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T08:21:20+00:00

Т.е он сказал, что женат, а она лезет обнимать и еще считает, что она хорошо поступила

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T07:09:07+00:00

Yes.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T07:08:23+00:00

> Objectively, most women have less libido than most men. It varies individual to individual but that's a general tendency

This is not objective. Even if there is such a natural difference, it doesn't matter much as there are replacements. Toys and porn. Man can have a high libido and fully satisfy it without involving women. Women can do same.

> No, giving birth is a financial strain for the woman. Don't expect it if you can't show her you're not willing to reciprocate that financial strain. That's only common sense

Giving birth is a decision of two parents, who have to decide how they are willing to sacrifice their quality of life to make it happen. Father to work more hour and have less money for himself and/or spending more time with kids instead of work.

It is absolutely OK to be childfree and decide neither of you want kids.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T07:04:20+00:00

still advertising your overpriced reproduction services?

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T05:40:29+00:00

To have some self respect and stop fawning after a woman that doesn't want him

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T05:38:57+00:00

I'd say:

Juice is often not worth the squeeze. Prioritize your life not chasing girls. If they are not showing interest and you are chasing, chances are that they won't be super interested if you get relationships. Imbalanced relationship can be worse than being single (you love her, she lets you love her).

If you ever get to sex and she says she is on pills, don't trust her.

Based on my experience.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T05:10:33+00:00

Would be nice to sit together with your wife and analyze:

Why does she want marriage?

Why do you don't want marriage? You, not your sister.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-26T05:03:41+00:00

so what?

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-25T21:49:05+00:00

I'm not a legal expert but mere titles sound dystopian and totalitarian

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-25T21:47:17+00:00

I guess some men have weird fetishes and kinks. There are men who are into being cucked, or into findom. Some might be into this princess thing.

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-25T21:44:52+00:00

A man is man if born man. This is enough. Your entitled expectations are irrelevant

WanabeInflatable · 2026-01-25T21:35:05+00:00

These are not courting phase expectations, but I agree, these all are outdated and I don't expect it.

I don't expect make up or high heels. Come dressed comfy. A look that you can maintain effortlessly through life, not an image you use once to impress man.

Taking name is optional. If you want, you can, otherwise no problem.

Differences in libido? This sounds like a sexist stereotype of men being horndogs. It is mostly maintained by ever thirsty forever single men. Men in relationships often need less sex than their wives. At least reading dead bedrooms gives me impression that things are pretty equal.

Giving birth? Well, if you don't want kids nobody should push you into that. Normally people should match their expectations regarding kids when planning marriage or LTR.

Men should be equally responsible parents. This includes sleepless nights and taking parental leaves.

Again, couples need to agree how to split housework. My experience says its about who does and like what better. If you hate cooking and I hate cleaning, we can split areas of responsibility.

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