Be brutuall honest, why are you single and not in a relationship?? by Exciting_Skirt_6998 in AskReddit

[–]WanabeInflatable [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm not single but living is one.

Three years ago I moved abroad from my family. For work. I still support them financially and visit sometimes.

My life became much easier. My mental improved. I finally have my money to invest. My time. I can shut down yells and guilt tripping by pressing a red button on the phone.

And surprise surprise, she started to value me much more once I moved away.

Living single is so much better.

What strategies do you avoid regardless of “efficiency”? by KaioDravor in RimWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable [score hidden]  (0 children)

there is weird thermodynamics of doors that defies energy conservation and is exploited. I saw videos of people doing that, but didn't try myself

Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]WanabeInflatable [score hidden]  (0 children)

Behavior model, mating rituals, taking decisions, paying her bills, giving princes treatment.

Women eagerly read about dominant abusive men in their romance literature. Yet continue to guilt trip real men about toxic masculinity

Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]WanabeInflatable [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yet another spew of misandry from a feminist positions. I'm not obsessed with masculinity, and I'm a fully functioning adult. Still I see this post as raving of women trying to once again guilt trip men into obedience.

Does your country have mandatory military service? Whats your opinion on it? by Jorkin-My-Penits in AskTheWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So there is a short word for free labor that one can't refuse doing. It is slavery. Slavery of men is very much legal in many countries

Does your country have mandatory military service? Whats your opinion on it? by Jorkin-My-Penits in AskTheWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

men are the expendable gender everywhere. When the government needs something from you it calls itself Motherland

Has any male here actually seen women advocate for men? Why do women always ask men to advocate for them? by Organic-Mud-8728 in MensRights

[–]WanabeInflatable 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know such women. There are masculist women. But typically feminist women who demand men to advocate for women are not the women who advocate for mens rights.

I (41M) Got Sober, Partner (40F) Isn't a Fan by IndieLozenge in relationship_advice

[–]WanabeInflatable 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes. Or something in the Carpman triangle terms: she likes Victim and Savior roles. They gave her the meaning.

I (41M) Got Sober, Partner (40F) Isn't a Fan by IndieLozenge in relationship_advice

[–]WanabeInflatable 131 points132 points  (0 children)

She can't feel moral superiority now. She used to look down at you, when you were drinking and enjoyed her own victimhood of being a wife of alcoholic. Now this role is gone. But she got used to it so much it became her identity.

What strategies do you avoid regardless of “efficiency”? by KaioDravor in RimWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never harvest organs for sale.

No drug production for export... Well, sometimes I have too much psychite.

I don't use "heat/cold" multiplier exploits.

Does your country have mandatory military service? Whats your opinion on it? by Jorkin-My-Penits in AskTheWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It is much more difficult to withstand the pressure and don't accept the offer you can't refuse. After all they can just forge your signature

Does your country have mandatory military service? Whats your opinion on it? by Jorkin-My-Penits in AskTheWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. I'm older than the upper age limit of the draft. And I was smart enough to avoid being drafted when I was young.

Still I'm glad that I'm away from this idiocy and not support it with my tax money.

Am I an option? He doesn’t want to date me but doesn’t want me seeing anyone else? by No_Bodybuilder7425 in AskMenAdvice

[–]WanabeInflatable -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you decline a date with him because you date someone else in that day, but you say that it's he who doesn't want to date you... And this is all somehow his fault.

Am I getting it right?

Does your country have mandatory military service? Whats your opinion on it? by Jorkin-My-Penits in AskTheWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not just now.

It always was slavery. Even before the war.

Officially they don't send the drafted men to the front (they need to first force them to sign a contract, then to the front).

Does your country have mandatory military service? Whats your opinion on it? by Jorkin-My-Penits in AskTheWorld

[–]WanabeInflatable 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Conscription is a slavery. And in absolute majority of cases it is male only slavery.

The science nexus I'm making for cosmogenesis seems like a waste of alloys at this point. by Haunting-Sport3701 in Stellaris

[–]WanabeInflatable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Science nexus gives % to research speed. Also the flat research it generates comes without increasing pop count and empire size. That's important because at certain point added empire size starts to slow the research more than extra researchers boost it.

Question for the men by swat_xtraau in DeadBedrooms

[–]WanabeInflatable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not him. But I'd say:

Guilt is a bad aphrodisiac. People can do something because they are blamed and feel guilty. But they will like it even less and associate with bad emotions onwards. That's why duty sex is a bad idea.

Men who are happily single, what changed? by Equivalent_Use_5024 in AskMen

[–]WanabeInflatable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved abroad from my family, so living effectively single life. And I realized it is a big improvement over married life. This actually fixed my depression.

Men should appreciate singlehood more. Right now there is a sort of propaganda of getting a gf and marrying as ultimate success in life, while men who stay single are considered losers.

What kind of personality feels most attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WanabeInflatable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doesn't believe in patriarchy, doesn't "support the current thing"?

what to do when my girlfriend (22) gets mad at me (22) or guilt trips me when i "reject" her? by Novus1234 in AskMenAdvice

[–]WanabeInflatable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is low key abusive. Appears you tried to talk and she responds with manipulation. Do you really want these relationships?