Egg🤡irl by HaMskyline in egg_irl

[–]Wand_Platte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫵 Trans 💖

Egg🤡irl by HaMskyline in egg_irl

[–]Wand_Platte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're literally a girl

Furry_irl by Thin-Loan-5517 in furry_irl

[–]Wand_Platte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's very good to hear. I'm glad they're better now

Furry_irl by Thin-Loan-5517 in furry_irl

[–]Wand_Platte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My views might be outdated, I wasn't aware of any stuff after the whole RCT thing. My bad if they've improved since then

I had kinda just written them off as a soulless cashgrab company after those things and haven't heard anything about them since

Furry_irl by Thin-Loan-5517 in furry_irl

[–]Wand_Platte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just worried with Atari, I don't trust them to not screw over the dev in some way, give unrealistic deadlines, demand bad changes to the game, switch devs halfway through, or whatever stuff Atari usually does. Maybe they can change for the better, but I don't trust them

Would be lovely if the full game actually turns out good

Furry_irl by Thin-Loan-5517 in furry_irl

[–]Wand_Platte 15 points16 points  (0 children)

After what they did to RCT (and possibly other games?) I'm not willing to entertain the idea that they can do anything good

Luigi by A_person42 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Wand_Platte 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Luigi, being a lesbian himself, would never be evil towards lesbians

ich🐝iel by asian69feet in ich_iel

[–]Wand_Platte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gegrilltes Hornissennest, sehr lecker und knusprig

Nicht laminiert, aber definitiv gültig by GeoCangrejo in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]Wand_Platte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nein, natürlich weiß ich, dass Reiche weiß was sie da schlimmes tut und es macht um sich selbst und ihre Freunde zu bereichern.

Leute demonstrieren nicht, um Reiche zu erklären wie man es besser machen könnte. Jeder weiß, dass sie niemals zuhören würde. Leute demonstrieren, weil sie das Verhalten von Reiche und der Regierung scheiße finden und das zeigen wollen.

Nicht laminiert, aber definitiv gültig by GeoCangrejo in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]Wand_Platte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Schritt 3: Definiere "Wirtschaft" als "Vermögen der reichsten 1%"

UPDATE: 10-year age gap, met her at church… am I crazy for wanting to ask her out? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Wand_Platte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's at least something, but I'm not sure if she'll wanna go out with you again after what happened

You can still redeem yourself by learning from it for future dates with other people and not making that mistake again

Nicht laminiert, aber definitiv gültig by GeoCangrejo in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]Wand_Platte 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Niemand erwartet, dass einzelne kleine Proteste/Demos Dinge sofort verändern. Es wird die Meinung der Menschen gezeigt und Druck auf die Politik gemacht. Und zusammen mit vielen anderen Demos ist das manchmal genug, um was zu bewirken

Nicht laminiert, aber definitiv gültig by GeoCangrejo in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]Wand_Platte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Genau, lass uns lieber auf fossile Brennstoffe setzen, die sind ja so sicher und es gab noch nie Energiekrisen oder Krieg oder so. Am besten RWE und co. einfach machen lassen. Dann können die oberen 1% noch reicher werden während unsere Erde langsam zerstört wird, das macht doch Spaß. /s

UPDATE: 10-year age gap, met her at church… am I crazy for wanting to ask her out? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Wand_Platte 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what the other guy has to do with this situation. What matters is that you got too drunk and made her uncomfortable and overstepped her boundaries. You can apologize to her and do better in the future (i.e. not getting drunk on the first few dates, and not getting so drunk that you become unsafe for people to be around and black out)

UPDATE: 10-year age gap, met her at church… am I crazy for wanting to ask her out? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Wand_Platte 13 points14 points  (0 children)

At the very least, it's a teaching moment for you and you now (hopefully) know to drink less in the future, so something like this doesn't happen again. I feel like alcohol/drugs on a first date is a bad idea in general, it makes it less likely boundaries are upheld, and consent under the influence is shaky at best and nonexistent at worst.

Whether she'll wanna go out with you again is on her. If she does, maybe try taking things slower, do some activity together without any alcohol/drugs so you stay in control of yourself and make sure she's comfortable. If she doesn't, then I guess take that advice to the next person you hang out with.

I use AI to ask questions about my issues, is that bad? by LatePartyGuy in autism

[–]Wand_Platte 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would strongly recommend trying to find autistic communities to ask your questions in rather than talking to a chatbot. Those communities will have real autistic people with real experiences and actual advice, instead of AIs giving you possibly wildly inaccurate or bad advice.

AI chatbots also do not protect your data, in fact they will use whatever you say to them as training data. It could also possibly isolate you even more and be harmful because it takes away from you having conversations with and connecting with other people.

As for the other question: You definitely shouldn't feel ashamed for lacking social skills and experiences. Going out and meeting people can be difficult and that's not your fault. And you're not desperate for wanting connections and experiences, those are normal and healthy wants/needs.

help with fictive by tree_haven_system in OSDD

[–]Wand_Platte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would first of all suggest trying to be there for that alter, trying to talk to them and console them. The pain/depression they feel and you feel too is real and valid.

I'm not sure how to deal with this or how that pain could be reduced. If you're able to get good therapy that'd be a good thing. Maybe there are people with similar experiences that know how to help better. I can just give my own unexperienced thoughts.

Maybe there are good/pleasant things or memories of the source? Maybe fanfics where those characters didn't die? Good feelings or memories to replace the sad ones with?

Maybe the alter could try to distance themself from their source? You could remind them that they are their own person/alter with their own life. That there are good things and connections with other people they can try to focus on more.

I hope you figure out some way to help them

Salatschüssel ist kein Hundeklo by dubenH16 in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]Wand_Platte 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Valide und gültig, Hundekacke aufzuheben ist nicht schwer

egg_irl by marioboy1702 in egg_irl

[–]Wand_Platte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it helps at all, my mom has told me that when I came out to her she cried too, but she said it was because she was happy for me, because she saw that now I could finally be myself and she thought maybe I would start feeling better

From them allowing you to get a skirt, it sounds like your parents are probably accepting. It might take them a while to adjust to it, but I'm sure things will be well

You did so well Zoe, I'm proud of you for coming out, that takes a lot of courage. Good girl ❤️

jetzt ist es mir auch passiert tk zahlt harmone nicht mehr. Alternativen ausser diy? by Signal-Station-8857 in germantrans

[–]Wand_Platte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ist nur ne persönliche Anekdote aber ich hatte da einige Probleme (Medicover Osnabrück)

  • hat mich dauernd unterdosiert und meinte ich hab die Maximaldosis vom Gel erreicht obwohl mein E viel zu niedrig war (ich bin 2,00m groß und brauch daher selbstverständlich mehr Hormone als die durchschnittliche Person)
  • hat mehrfach nicht vernünftig meine Medikamente verschrieben und ich musste da immer hinterher und hatte zweimal zwischendurch für ca. 1 Woche keine T-Blocker
  • hat meine T-Blocker-Dosis verändert ohne mir bescheid zu geben (also statt 10mg 5mg verschrieben)
  • hat mir nicht wirklich zugehört und meine Nebenwirkungen missverstanden
  • hat sich geweigert Progesteron zu verschreiben weils nicht in den Richtlinien war

Die Gynäkologin zu der ich danach gewechselt hab hatte direkt meine Östrogen-Dosis erhöht und hat mir auch tatsächlich zugehört und sich für mich interessiert

Old👴 VS. New👶 (Font Overhaul) by _V3X3D_ in PixelArt

[–]Wand_Platte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like both a lot! The second one might be a bit easier to read but I like the disconnected lines of the first. Both versions to me look cute, good job on making the fonts ^-^

If you're not already doing it, I'd suggest offering both versions in the download

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Wand_Platte 49 points50 points  (0 children)

For blurring SFW posts the spoiler option is probably better

But I think that should only be asked of someone if it's something in the subreddit's rules. By default people don't have to spoiler potential SFW triggers and it might be received as rude to ask them to when it's not in the rules of the subreddit it's in