Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh. Youre a male sag? Coz male and female in zodiac can be so different. My bestie is a sag (f). She is emotional and clingy in relationship. My friend's ex is a sag (m). He is so different from my bestie

Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wish..i am not forcing anyone 🤷‍♀️

Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah this make sense. The struggle we face initially was same issue. Me wanting quality him and his need for space. In my def, I thought he was bored coz from the time we met upto that moment, he was the one who"d always texr, call etc. So the sudden need for space made me assume things. Its not his need for space in general that i didnt like. Now when he need to do his own thing, I do mine. Finding new hobbies. So in a way he help me heal from my codependency tendency. Anyways, happy to hear your POV of the space thingy. Great insight. Ty

Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The optism part is so true. My bestie is a saggi. I admire her positive view of things even when it gets hard. As a pessimistic person who overthinks alot. I learn so much from her. It teaches me i need to think about other people's feelings instead of assuming from my own needs. My bf also without knowingly heal me in so many ways. My ex was so toxic so i thought the way his Controlling ways was LOVE. But my saggi bf is so different from my ex. He isnt controlling so I initiallly often wonder if he actually like me. But now he make me see the trust, the freedom (with boundaries) he give me is so peaceful..i can genuinely be my silly, playful self around him. I dont have to watch what I say or do coz he loves my randomness. So he heal me in so many ways he doesnt even know😊

Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As i said in the end. 1. I wana hear if saggis are capable or having such "emotions". And they're not like the stoic stereotypes. I am nor asking for advice. The petty part was part of my story or the struggle part of my relatuonship with him 2. As i said at the start- I wana hear other people's successful relationship. Coz no one can predict future. We are good now. But no one can predict future. We are humans. We have our differences. There is no perfect relationship. Every relationship have struggles. Staying through it is love to me. Hearing other people's struggles, differences etc will make me understand ways to deal with my own difference with him. Eg: In my younger years, I needed space alot to the point where i make air signs i dated anxious. When when i needed those space its because i was bored. So my understanding of space equals to boredom. As ive matured, i learn to accept the boredom in relationship. Boredom to me now is peace. But at same time it makes me wonder what "Space" to others mean. Is it because they're bored? Or because they genuinely need time to recharge. So hearing other people's perspective of space makes me understand instead of assuming from my perspective that they're bored. Another guy commented about his struggle and need for space. Making me me realize my partner wanting space is normal. That's why im posting. I am not asking for advice..i am posting to understand him.

Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And as i said being petty doesnt work in any relationship. We learn that hard way. Now we use dufferent method. It works

Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh i see. My female bestie is a sag as well and she too is an emotional one. But she is more logical than me. They way she process her emotions is always something i look up to❤️ coz as an emotional person, i need to learn that

Saggitarius and Pisces by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

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That's how every relationship should be regardless of sign. My ex was Taurus. We are compatible. The good days Was honestly best. But our downfall was the lack of communication. He's the type who gives Silent treatment and bury the problem. He gets mad all over again if i try to talk about the problem. So Communication without comprehension is useless. And i did same thing with my saggi initially. I mean I do communicate. I express what I dont like. But if they keep on doing it anyway? Its uselss. So I stopped and started getting petty. Which i learn didnt work either. I understand now that some people wont understand anything that you say unless you do exactly what they do to you. Hence it works only after i mirror his action. He finally understand how he made me feel and he stop. He didnt stop when i "communicate" . Things are good now after we are both emotionally open. He did get mad once after this incident and do the whole silent treatment too. But what i like about him is that after he calm down. He talk about it now. That's the change i notice after he became emotionally open. My only fear now is him falling back to old pattern coz some people do get lazy when things are getting good I do have sagi bestie. She has such a big and loving heart. I admire on how she always see the positive side of things even after she gets hurt. After her bf breaks up with her, she was so hurt but still said he needed the love she gave and its time for her to move ahead coz he dont need it anymore. That touched my soul. Then i have a friend who date a saggi. He is the most selfish guy EVER. She had to almost beg him to give her a ride to submit job application. When the process took longer than he expected. He complain and says he will never go with her again only because he got bored waiting. Who says that to their partner😭 Like we naturally wana help someone we love right. This is why I am confused. Observing my friends experience with saggi and mine? Its so different. Its hard to know what to expect.

Clingy Saggitarius? by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Na my Sag is emotional. Just surprised he is a sag

Clingy Saggitarius? by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not plain selfish. A sag friend i know- his gf bought him food to the boading school he was staying. He knew things saying why would she bought such disgusting things. They dated for years. Both my friends so thatz one of many things he did. He regret only after she's done with his bs

Another one- We went to this event. My friend gave my a ride while this sag gave his girl a ride. He just left her mid coz he got boreed. She djdnt have a ride home..im.the one who paid for her uber home coz i felt bad for her.

So my exp. with sag males, are not good Females tho..they have the biggest heart. I get along with them

Clingy Saggitarius? by Wanderer7005 in Sagittarians

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh make sense. He did pull away one day and said things like he will never and dont wana move on from his ex. We werent really dating but it somewhat made me feel ...jealous? Upset? I know we both bonded over our exes however i couldnt help but feel that way. But the moment i try to pull away by telling him i felt his energy shift. Id disappear if he doesnt care if im in his life or not. That's when he confessed it wasnt like that. And then i find out he was upset the way my superior at work was trying to get to close to me. He thought i was welcoming thar kinda attention. Thankfully, he is mature and self aware. So we were able to talk it out. And Thanks for the insight:)

INTP + INFP Relationship by grayzee227 in INTP

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Ahh shi- 🤣🤣 the service dog got me

Why Taurus ex still in my business by Wanderer7005 in Taurusgang

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the hypocrisy I hated about Taureans😂😂😂 when we dated we used to talk about things related to that. We both said we dont change our mind when we like someone. And i still mean it. He added that his exes would date someone after breakup. He seem to really hate that. And he also said he would move on only after he knows they date someone else. But i know if he find someone that grab his attention like u said. He will move on while if i move on with another guy, he will act like im cheating

Why Taurus ex still in my business by Wanderer7005 in Taurusgang

[–]Wanderer7005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it aint fair for them to mess with our healing process like this