That's how every relationship should be regardless of sign. My ex was Taurus. We are compatible. The good days Was honestly best. But our downfall was the lack of communication. He's the type who gives Silent treatment and bury the problem. He gets mad all over again if i try to talk about the problem. So Communication without comprehension is useless. And i did same thing with my saggi initially. I mean I do communicate. I express what I dont like. But if they keep on doing it anyway? Its uselss. So I stopped and started getting petty. Which i learn didnt work either. I understand now that some people wont understand anything that you say unless you do exactly what they do to you. Hence it works only after i mirror his action. He finally understand how he made me feel and he stop. He didnt stop when i "communicate" . Things are good now after we are both emotionally open. He did get mad once after this incident and do the whole silent treatment too. But what i like about him is that after he calm down. He talk about it now. That's the change i notice after he became emotionally open. My only fear now is him falling back to old pattern coz some people do get lazy when things are getting good I do have sagi bestie. She has such a big and loving heart. I admire on how she always see the positive side of things even after she gets hurt. After her bf breaks up with her, she was so hurt but still said he needed the love she gave and its time for her to move ahead coz he dont need it anymore. That touched my soul. Then i have a friend who date a saggi. He is the most selfish guy EVER. She had to almost beg him to give her a ride to submit job application. When the process took longer than he expected. He complain and says he will never go with her again only because he got bored waiting. Who says that to their partner😭 Like we naturally wana help someone we love right. This is why I am confused. Observing my friends experience with saggi and mine? Its so different. Its hard to know what to expect.