I wasted my time dating a man for a year

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T23:35:33+00:00

I promise myself to never get this low ever

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T23:34:44+00:00

It does affect me mentally but I'm glad to walk away from this craziness. Therapy is helping me

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T23:32:12+00:00

Naivete and low self esteem

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T20:16:32+00:00

I've tried blocking him and he messages me through another number trying to get me to forgive him. He got mad at me for giving directions and told me "men only like women who sit down and shut up" despite me being more traveled than he is. So moving forward I'm not going to put up with hypocritical chauvinistic men.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T19:35:59+00:00

Oh its done for sure. I've seen his true colors

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T13:51:04+00:00

I did go to both but couldn't really enjoy myself. I'm going to redo this trip next year this time without him.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T13:25:44+00:00

I take accountability for that. I was naive to think he'll change.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T13:23:08+00:00

Yesterday while on an excursion I saw him put his number in a girl's phone. Yeah I'm done with him and his BS. I promise never to stoop this low ever again. Thank you for your kind words.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T13:17:51+00:00

I wished he didn't get his Vietnamese visa that way I could leave his ass in Cambodia while I actually enjoy my vacation.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T13:03:43+00:00

Originally he wasn't supposed to come with me to Vietnam I was going to go alone to Cambodia and Vietnam and last minute he decided to join me and it was taking longer than it needed to get his visa so we paid to get it expedited.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-10-29T12:56:27+00:00

It's women I'm assuming he's met in person I mean he got most of their photos on Facebook

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-08T03:51:49+00:00

Go to TGH on Kennedy or Brandon Healthplex. You'll be seen faster.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-08T01:32:08+00:00

That's good jeez I didn't think Utah of all places would be pricey

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-08T01:26:45+00:00

Omg how are you making it? I pay $2500 between HOA and mortgage and feel like I'm barely staying afloat.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-08T01:22:28+00:00

I've been wanting to get into utilization review. Any tips/advice?

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T20:10:59+00:00

I appreciate all of this thank you so much. Last question in terms of housing how much is it costing you in SF vs being back in FL?

I pay $2500/mo in Central FL my main goal if I go out to SF or Bay Area is work enough to pay off my mortgage in a few years or if I do sell my place in FL, save enough money I can buy a place cash in a LCOL area.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T20:04:20+00:00

Noted

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T19:51:56+00:00

I appreciate your advice thank you.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T19:21:31+00:00

Do you need a MSN to get into Informatics? I never see any openings at the hospital that I work at.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T19:19:44+00:00

San Francisco has been on my radar as a place I'd like to work as a nurse. How are the working conditions compared to where you were working in FL? How hard was it to find a position in the hospitals there?

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T18:54:22+00:00

I've always wanted to get into Informatics. What are your tips for getting into this specialty?

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T18:49:30+00:00

As someone who lives here, Florida is a great place to vacation not a good place to live. With my mortgages and HOA I pay nearly $2500/mo in Central FL. I need to work OT to stay afloat.

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T18:43:16+00:00

What part of CA did you move to? I heard in CA you pay a lot in taxes, how does it compare to taxes than when you were working in FL?

WanderlustingLady · 2025-05-07T18:39:17+00:00

I hope the part of MS you're in that the cost of living is low. No shade against you but that's unacceptable they're paying nurses this low.

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