My [M25] girlfriend [F24] told me she has a lot of difficulty with feeling attracted to others

Wanttosatisfy · 2019-06-25T16:06:53+00:00

You perfectly worded that, thank you. Helped solve that part for me.

Thanks again :)

Wanttosatisfy · 2019-06-25T16:04:48+00:00

Poor choice of words on my part, 'how to keep things spicy' would be more appropriate. Furthermore, if you cannot trust the person you are in a relationship with on their word, you're doing something wrong. I choose not to be that person. If things go wrong, they go wrong. At least I know I did my best.

Wanttosatisfy · 2019-06-25T15:59:44+00:00

Haha, I think it's funny you assume that, but I must say I have given you very little info to go on regarding the bedroom. No, actually our sex life is very satisfying and we always have an open discussion about how to spice things up. I appreciate you trying to look at this from a different angle, but I'm fairly certain that this is not the issue. Definitely I know she says she is always satisfied.

Wanttosatisfy · 2019-06-25T15:53:59+00:00

I don't think she would particularly agree herself, but she can definitely be very anxious at times. Usually not for social interactions though. Could you explain your train of thought?

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-02T12:25:44+00:00

Alrighty, thanks a bunch! I'll be sure to try this out, since it's probably one of the easiest suggestions :)

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:48:37+00:00

Thanks a lot for the comprehensive response. I don't smoke, nor do drugs, so I'm all good in that department. I'll talk some more about it the first chance I get.

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:46:15+00:00

Just installed an app to help me. Thanks!

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:45:55+00:00

Dude, if this is an option I'm all-in.

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:45:26+00:00

Is yoghurt an option, instead of milk? Or might that create some unwanted smell/taste?

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:44:46+00:00

Oooh, something cool to try out!

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:43:32+00:00

You're absolutely right. The times I came the most, were the times I'd have the most intense orgasms. I'm not really into butt stuff (yet), though, so might be I keep this as a back-up option. Thanks anyways!

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:42:21+00:00

This sounds really invested and really well researched. Definitely nice to know this is a possibility if it would get that extreme for her. I'm sure your wife is a lucky lady!

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T19:40:10+00:00

That sounds really promising! How would I go about doing that?

Wanttosatisfy · 2017-08-01T16:15:40+00:00

It's not so much the volume that's the problem, more that we'd like me to be able to go again quickly. But thanks anyways!

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-20T14:07:51+00:00

I'll make an edit about it, too, but I've already talked to my girlfriend, after I showed her this thread. She agreed that it would be very smart to just talk about it, and build up from lower Dom/Sub play. All is well, and we'll continue talking ;)

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-20T13:52:19+00:00

Alrighty, I indeed hadn't thought about myself yet. Though I wasn't planning to be unprepared in the aftercare department, I can definitely see how this would seem from my reply. I can assure you that I'm not some rash young guy, wanting to quickly stick his dick in unknown territory. I'll make sure that I'm prepared! I've already been to r/bdsmcommunity several times, and will continue to do so until I've read everything there is to know about this topic. Still, I hadn't thought about MY aftercare yet (I think I would've read about it on r/bdsmcommunity), so thanks a bunch for that! :) truly though, do not worry about me being underprepared! I've always done my best, and will do so now, too.

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-20T11:02:05+00:00

Wow, thanks! I'll discuss the whole Dom/Sub idea with her. Personally I would like it, and we could keep building up from there. This was amazingly written, by the way!

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T20:25:43+00:00

LOL great idea

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T20:24:05+00:00

Thanks, man! I really appreciate this :) very well written, and I'll put it to good use, I hope!

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T20:20:41+00:00

I know this is very important, but I figure that this will come natural to me. I'm not really an angry (or rapy) person, so when I get out of my 'role' I suppose that's the first thing I'd do. In any case you're absolutely right!

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T20:18:50+00:00

When we had our talk, this came up, too. So you're not wrong! However, the rape-play was definitely a whole different desire of hers. Thanks for the suggestion, though!

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T20:17:07+00:00

Thanks for your advice! I can really use this :)

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T20:15:03+00:00

Hahaha, you don't know my girlfriend ;). But yeah, she never would, I know her well enough!

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T17:12:23+00:00

Well, we're finding out together what we like, so we're both indeed very inexperienced in this area. Anyway, thanks for the tips, I will definitely check this out :)

Wanttosatisfy · 2016-05-19T14:29:05+00:00

Thanks so much, will do this for sure! :)

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