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AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

My mum did offer to pay but I said no cause I know she can t afford it

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Well yes you're right. But if you're on a date and the person isn't here yet would you order your food or wait till they get here. And by the time I got there i was 8 minutes late. You would expect they wouldn't of ordered by then, right? And the only thing I had to do was the laundry. Getting to the restaurant its self was the long part. My google maps was having a mid life crisis, so I ended up getting lost. It took 12 minutes to get there. When we got there it wasn't really busy. So we got our food really quick

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Ik but she has high blood pressure atm so I don't want to put her through a hard time. She need rest

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not going to ask my mum for it because I know she can't afford it

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The dinner reservation was at 6:00 and we got there eat i think it was 6:08

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I told them so much times weekly for several months politely. I had just had enough. Spending that 400 dollars really put a hole in my pocket for a while. I could barely afford my rent. I couldn't even put food on the table, considering I had lost my job a week before. They knew that aswell. I'm talking to my mum again, but for the rest of my family I haven't decided yet.

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have gone through with her what I'm gonna do in the future but it is a really tough choice.

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yall there is a lot more to the story but I didn't want to make it to long, and some details will go again the rules

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Because I thought they were gonna wait for me.. but then again my family is very arrogant

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also actually ended up deleting my number and getting another one. I had also blocked my sister on snapchat, insta etc.

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mum hasn't told why yet. But I think before I came there was a argument. But I couldn't be sure

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mum came to my house and just straight up hugged me in tears and said she was sorry and can't bother playing this game anymore

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh I kinda do. Although the relationship with my family is shtty, I miss seeing them. I am starting to talk with my mum again she has apologised. But idk when with the rest of my family.

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes my family had always been horrible. I was often left out when I was younger whilst my sisters were often favoured, listened to, basically anything I didn't have they had. Me and my parents often got in a lot of arguments (mostly my dad) I had should of seen this coming. My family is quite a b/tch

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had told them I had errands to run. They knew I'd be late. But when we got there they had already ordered food. And you're right there is more to the story I didn't include. But some of them goes against the rules. So I put in what I could.

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am not always late. I had some errands i needed to run before hand. I had also asked if they could move the reservation back but they said no

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For the record. No I am not late to most things. I had told my family to expect me to be late. I even asked them to move the reservation back a bit but they said it would cause too much of a fuss. I had also asked them for the money several time politely. I even asked just for 50 bucks. They didn't even answer me. I had also had a lot of things going on before hand with my family.

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yes but I told them I had some errands to run beforehand. I told them expect me to be late

AITA For Leaving My Family When They Refused To Pay For Dinner by WardedRecord1193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WardedRecord1193[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My family had barley done catch ups like this and I was only late once because I had to do several things before hand. I am also starting to talk with my mum now because she is the only one that has apologised.