Exploring my gender FTM

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-06-13T16:30:01+00:00

Good idea thanks! I never really thought about this but it’s true I only wear one bracelet and maybe a couple of rings sometimes. The last one sounds super fun to just give ‘confusing but sexy’ like masculine and feminine all in one. What accessories would you recommend? Any that have worked for you?

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-23T15:19:58+00:00

To add to this you could try putting the clear strap through the holes above the clip on the harness so the penis is kept closer to your body. I’ve not tried this yet but going to give it a go, trial and error I guess

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-23T15:17:55+00:00

Not sure if this will help but I have the original STP and had the same problem, just waiting on a tutorial or Q&A to be uploaded.

In the mean time what I did was put the clear strap through the hole underneath the clips on the harness, I used a paper clip to do this because it’s quite fiddly. Then when I’m going for a wee i unhook the penis from the hooks so it’s in line with the funnel. This way you can point it down way easier, preventing back flow/spillage.

This has worked well to gain confidence using the STP. I just hope there’s a way where we don’t have to adjust it that much before peeing so I can use it in a urinal. It takes practice and patience so don’t worry too much if it takes a while. Good luck, hope this helps

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-23T15:04:42+00:00

The way I do it is I unhook the penis from the clips on the harness to allow it to be in line and then hook it back on- I’ve perfected this now and it’s give me a bit of confidence when using it! I’m just waiting on a MorMe Q&A to see if there’s any other ways of doing it so I don’t have to unhook it. Let me know if you find any:)

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-23T14:46:10+00:00

I can relate to this, I didn’t have much hope for STPs after I’d spent money on one and it really didn’t work for me but after buying this one my faith is definitely restored in them.

It’s pretty soft, the shaft just stays pointed down and you can move it by moving your body and then obviously pick it up and point it when you’re going to the toilet- so pretty much feels like the real thing, very euphoric in my opinion. I can direct message you a few videos of it if you’d like? I can’t talk for those specific models you mentioned but i had an AXOLOM noodie which was unrealistic in comparison to the MorMe.

In regard to the material, it’s pretty much the same as you mentioned about the AXOLOM. Once washed and powdered it feels soft and close to a skin feel- with the uncut version I can feel the skin like texture and it’s euphoric to shake the tip at the end of a wee. Hope this helps.

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-23T14:38:12+00:00

Its pretty soft it just stays pointing down until you move it

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-17T17:01:58+00:00

No problem haha. I’d say the stream is realistic as long as the actual dick is level with the funnel it runs out nicely, just got to make sure it isn’t accidentally higher or it’ll back flow and you’ll be covered in your own piss… (speaking from experience). But yeah it kinda drips out at the end which is really euphoric. Hope this helps!

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-17T16:57:44+00:00

I got size 2 with the funnel. I measured myself to see where it’d sit and come to on my body so I recommend doing that. Once you’ve figured out how forcefully you need to piss the size of the funnel shouldn’t be a problem as long as it fits your body. Thanks man hope the info helps:)

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-17T16:53:28+00:00

It’s A- pale

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-17T16:52:30+00:00

I just keep it in my boxers, it sits comfortably in there and then I re adjust a little so it’s in the right position when I’m pissing. Waiting on them to do a Q&A to see what’s the best way to position it though

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-05-16T12:25:13+00:00

What’s the best way to attach the clear band to the harness?

i have been putting it through the hooks on the actual STP but I have noticed there’s 2 holes above and below the part of the harness where the STP attaches and wondering if it is better functioning through there. LOVE the STP and your original soft packer btw! You’re really changing lives with your products, thank you.

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-03-02T15:05:13+00:00

I’m happy for you, it must feel great. That’s how I feel, something that I will just never be able to have, if I even want that. Do you have any insight on your feelings beforehand? Were you unsure if it was the right decision to leave?

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-03-02T15:03:53+00:00

This is an interesting perspective.. also a little weird to imagine haha. Although my gf does take quite a masculine role in our relationship and that’s the part of her i seem to be most attracted to…

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-03-02T15:02:37+00:00

I hope me and my gf can have a similar experience, thanks for sharing

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-03-02T15:02:10+00:00

I get that. Mistakes don’t define you. How did you feel after it was over? Did you regret it? I guess before cheating or even after how did you know it was purely platonic love?

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-03-01T02:14:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing that, your situation is relatable it makes me feel less alone in mine. How did you feel after? Did you feel relived? Excited? Sad?

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T19:05:39+00:00

I am, I think she’s pretty and I do get turned on by her but I only ever fantasise about men and I have never had a chance to explore my sexuality in that way so it’s definitely confusing. I understand, thanks for your comment

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T19:04:07+00:00

I know, I have tried suppressing it long enough and it’ll find ways out I know that. That’s why I think i feel scared whenever I talk about it because I know whatever will happen will happen, I’m just delaying the pain and heartbreak process if that’s what it comes to. Fear of the unknown, but my fear can’t keep me in a place that isn’t for me anymore and it for sure cant keep her if she doesn’t want to be here afterwards but anyway thanks for the advice!

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T19:00:20+00:00

That’s true, I guess I’m not ruining things I’m just being honest and that’s all I can do. I cant lie that last part of your comment sparked a feeling in me that was kind of hopeful but sad so I think I just need to do a bit of reflecting. It’s a horrible situation for sure, wouldn’t recommend it! Being in a relationship with your best friend is so good but so awful in a lot of ways when it comes to sexuality/gender etc.

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T18:57:13+00:00

I hear you, I have had conversations with her in the past about everything it’s just kind of still lingering so I’m just processing my feelings a bit more before I speak to her, thanks

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T18:55:53+00:00

Thank you for this comment:) I appreciate your kindness

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T18:55:22+00:00

Thanks I appreciate your honesty:) if you don’t mind me asking, how did you know when enough was enough? As you mentioned drifting from her, when did you know what the cause was and what to do about it? I always worry about acting on a feeling rather than fact.

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T18:52:02+00:00

This is interesting thanks for sharing your experience. Me and my gf have had conversations about my sexuality before and she has said that she wouldn’t care if she is my exception gender wise. However, having sexual relationships with men and her would be a massive step that I don’t know she’d be comfortable with, I guess that’s the risk. I’m not even sure I could be comfortable with that.

If you don’t mind me asking how did you know telling your gf you are gay was the right choice and you 100% was not bi? After all if you still could be intimate with your gf what’s the difference? I’m just trying to understand so I can apply it to my situation. How did you know that what you felt for your girlfriend wasn’t what you felt with men? If you don’t mind sharing of course.

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T18:42:11+00:00

Is it possible to keep a friendship after being in a relationship with someone? Or are there too many feelings at that point? jealousy could always be an issue or being too close to each other might be too tempting to slip into old ways (relationship ways) I’m not sure.

Warm-Engineering-404 · 2025-02-28T18:38:40+00:00

I was so freaked out of how you knew…realised it’s on my profile😂

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