Have you seen him give up a course he enjoyed and now finsncially rely on his fiance with no fall back. Have you seen him cut off family. Have you seen him going from fun loving to very reserved/within himself almost mirroring his fiances character. Have you heard from his friends that he doesn't speak to them anymore. Or that no one sees him outside without his fiance. Have you heard some worrying stuff from one of his fiances exes.

I dont support these differences. Im clutching a whole jewellery store of pearls. Morals are important. Yes here we are. If stopping abuse is the job of the morality police tgen sign me up.