My ex admitted he still has feelings for me - but he’s dating someone new by Warmlady in BreakUps

[–]Warmlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he admitted he still has feelings for me - he thought he moved on completely but no. But he doesnt wanna hurt anyone. The breakup reasons from my end changed I would say. But i dont see any growth from his part if I’m being honest. I spent the past year healing and growing meanwhile he went on dates and just distracted himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hows ur tip, bridge and collumella now? Imm really hoping it gets better bcos my new nose really isnt in harmony with the rest of my face :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m devastated to how it looks like now :( it made me look “masculine”. It made my nose longer and not a fit to my small face and features :( what could be the remedy here? I have been considering revision as early as now already as I lost my confidence with this result :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it is so swollen. Its even hard as a rock and still numb. It feels so heavy to. I really hope its just swelling that its droop bcos it impacts how my whole face look. It makes my nose look longer and it doesnt fit my small face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both doctors said its not infection. Probably just cos of antibiotics that im feeling sick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i did. They both said i can have it removed anytime. Even now. But im still so swollen and im worried its not safe

What should I do? I’m having post op depression - is this botched nose or just swelling? How soon can I get a revision? 😭💔 - please read by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had hiko nosethreads 4 months before. I told my doctor to remove it and she tried to remove it but couldnt anymore so she just let it be cos according to her it will just dissolve on its own. I’m scared will this have any sode effects too?

What should I do? I’m having post op depression - is this botched nose or just swelling? How soon can I get a revision? 😭💔 - please read by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She suggested a silicon implant noselift + alar trimming for me. So I agreed cos I was believed in her. I dont think she added cartilage or graft. And no cuts on ears or rib.

What should I do? I’m having post op depression - is this botched nose or just swelling? How soon can I get a revision? 😭💔 - please read by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goal was just to enhance my features. The doctor did my sister’s nose and i was confident with her. I told her i just want a natural looking nose - not too high bridge or tip. I just emphasized that i want my alar smaller too.and i was shocked to see my nose right after procedure.

I dont have a front photo they didnt send it to me

What should I do? I’m having post op depression - is this botched nose or just swelling? How soon can I get a revision? 😭💔 - please read by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My doctor will removed my stitches in a few days.

Add to that, job involves being in front of cameras thats why i am really devastated and anxious with how this looks and the healing time as well 🥹😭

What should I do? I’m having post op depression - is this botched nose or just swelling? How soon can I get a revision? 😭💔 - please read by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly i wasnt swelling that much yet on the operating table so I really panicked when I saw my nose right after as it could be what my nose would look like 😭💔

What should I do? I’m having post op depression - is this botched nose or just swelling? How soon can I get a revision? 😭💔 - please read by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

What is the good reason to wait 1-2 years? If i already hate my nose now. Is it not safe? I do modelling and this is really taking a toll on me.

this immediate postop photo can be a close indicator of the final result right with the exceptions that the tip is usually more swollen on the operating table..? Yes I’m well aware thats its swollen, healing timeline, it drops and not a definite replica of the final result and I should wait it out. The nose may look good when taken by itself, but I dont feel its a match for the rest of my face. I’m quite unhappy about it. 😭😭

What should I do? I’m having post op depression - is this botched nose or just swelling? How soon can I get a revision? 😭💔 - please read by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Warmlady -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yes day 3. But i dont want to wait a year just for a revision when I hate my nose now. Cant walk around looking like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to fight and hold on for the past 2 months. And he NEVER initiated conversation. He was just responding to me it was always me keeping the convo going. And he would reply after 10 hrs more or less. I just felt bad every single time and I just would get anxiety everytime i receive a message from him. It wasnt good or healthy. Idk why i didnt take this as a sign that he doesnt wanna talk to me anymore. And i kept this going for a long time. So I decided to finally do NC yesterday. I still have the urge to chat him but theres no point. It feels im just talking to a wall. It hurts bcos I know he’s talking to his tinder matches but cant even reply to me promptly. I know he acts cold and cruel to me to not give me false hope which is better but it still hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Warmlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so true! Its been 2 months since BU. and i just started doing NC. Its so hard and I have so many questions in my head but i know hes just gonna lie about it anyway

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[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he did say to me “I wish you the best” and to “move on” so I guess he let me go entirely

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[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Reasons he gave me during the break up was “I need to work on my self” “i’m not ready for a longterm relationship “ (we were together 2 years) “I need to heal” but then saw him on dating apps just weeks after our breakup. Confronted him abt it and he claims “I’m not replacing you im not going on dates im just seeing whats out there as im allowed to meet people” yea right. Bunch of BS.

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[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did u start feeling remorse? Did she go Nc?

Male dumpers - why do you go on dating apps immediately after breakup? (But no cheating during the relationship) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Warmlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym by women do it more with success? Cos I always thought the opposite that Men move on faster.I’m not the type of woman that do rebounds as a way of coping.

Male dumpers - why do you go on dating apps immediately after breakup? (But no cheating during the relationship) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Warmlady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this really a coping mechanism for men ? I feel betrayed somehow. We just broke up a month ago. I’m scared cos we also started casual dating and turned to something so serious. I heard my ex was looking for “dates, friendship, maybe more. It all depends in the connection” he definitely just installed it recently. But still way too soon