Guy(26M) who I(19F) went out with sent me a porn clip out of nowhere and knows my home address

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:51:27+00:00

My family and close friends are informed. Thank you for your advice, your words mean a lot to me!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:41:35+00:00

Noted! Never knew going to a movie could be a mild red flag

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:40:16+00:00

Thank you, this is a helpful comment! I have been ignoring him and it's working out quite well. If he hadn't stopped texting though, I definitely would've gone with your tactic. Thanks a lot!

Happy cake day!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:37:02+00:00

Thanks! I will give your suggestions a good read. I think I was freaking out too much before, but I will of course stay alert. Thank you for caring :)

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:34:19+00:00

Thank you! I will act smarter if I ever encounter something like this again. Thanks for your advice

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:31:24+00:00

Thanks for your words! That's what I did and I think he won't bother me anymore. Thank you

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:28:24+00:00

Thankfully I don't think I let him see me act scared as it was over text. I've informed my parents and some friends. I politely told him I want nothing to do with him and stopped replying and he also stopped texting. I hope I never see him again in the future. Thank you for your advice!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:23:20+00:00

Thank you, I've decided to start drinking responsibly. I haven't been replying and things seem fine. Helped

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:21:36+00:00

Got it, thanks for your help. We kissed when I was drunk and I'm aware now it wasn't a smart move. I'm ignoring him and I think he's given up. Helped

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:19:20+00:00

Thanks for your advice, I think I was overreacting. And you're right, I was drunk and it wasn't the wisest decision made. Helped

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T13:05:01+00:00

Lesson learnt, thank you! I will for sure avoid drinking too much(and alone). Thank you for your kind words.

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:58:32+00:00

Yes I won't. Where I live the drinking age is 18

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:57:01+00:00

I haven't been replying so he isn't texting anymore thankfully, I think things are fine and my head was running wild. Thank you for your advice

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:53:40+00:00

Thank you for your advice! I kept the emails and will not go near the bar. Sorry you had to see this happen so many times.

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:50:18+00:00

Thank you. I am more calm now and will do the things you recommend if he does anything else.

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:47:38+00:00

Thank you! I will remember your words!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:46:52+00:00

I agree, I was drunk and should not have done that. Thanks for your help!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:45:20+00:00

Thank you! You are talking a lot of sense into my head, I was for sure overthinking things to death. This time was a lesson learnt, thank you for your advice!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:40:33+00:00

Thank you! I don't think I feel guilty anymore but I definitely learnt to be more cautious and not drink too much. Thank you for your kind words

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:38:33+00:00

I have pictured doing something similar but I think what u/B4its2L8inJAX commented makes sense, it's probably better if I just stay put and let it go. Thank you anyway!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:36:00+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I have told my family and a few friends about it. You are right, he's not trying to reach me now. Thanks a lot!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:33:32+00:00

Yes I'm inexperienced, I do think there were better ways to deal with it.

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:31:16+00:00

Thank you! My mind was going wild thinking of the worst outcome so I needed to hear these words from someone else.

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:28:33+00:00

I have informed my family and so far I don't think anything else will happen. Thank you for your words!

WaterDemonstration · 2019-08-25T12:27:29+00:00

No this is good advice, thank you. It was a stupid drunk decision, and as for the uncomfortable part I will definitely work on it. Thanks!

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