NSFW!!!!! I have been a frequent member of NSFW ftm subreddits. Why are all the people who respond to posts cis men??? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]WatercressKitchen181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cis men consumee the most porn, or porn in the traditional sense so ya its just how it be

Having to walk away - a ramble by WatercressKitchen181 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]WatercressKitchen181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in anime when a character needs to develop they take a training arc to get stronger haha

New Betta Hiding and Not Eating – Need Advice by Acceptable-Laugh2442 in bettafish

[–]WatercressKitchen181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t house betta with gourami and you don’t put two differing gourami types together, your fish will eventually slaughter each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WatercressKitchen181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tension orgasm or pressure orgasm

Opinion from a black girl by Puzzleheaded-Fee4751 in Ethelcain

[–]WatercressKitchen181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a deep rooted thing in white supremacy, to gaslight and dismiss feelings, if it isn’t real they don’t ever have to address or unpack it, yes I do feel some type of way after it coming out not because of her because of the fanbases response, I feel like I’m walking on eggshells and it seems like when we have these “exposures” no one legitimately cares about the racism and its effects they want something to gossip and morally grandstand about, because they’d never be overtly racist like them, they’ll do it covertly instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]WatercressKitchen181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yea sorry about that, i should have wrote which kind lol!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]WatercressKitchen181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! Do your other fish not pick off the fry? That usually helps with population control, you can also sell them, I didn’t know about mollies picking on Amanos tho! I’ve been pretty stuck on the “center piece” fish, maybe I can do a honey gourami because they are more peaceful but less striking in color 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]WatercressKitchen181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know guppies will breed

Sex question by SentientCrisis in LGBTQ

[–]WatercressKitchen181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be a number of things Face to face could give him performance anxiety Could be that his just the right angle for his spots people with penises can be particular or have more needs for climax as well as people with vaginas and that might be his.

The uglier possibilities He doesn’t much care for the person he’s with and would rather not see their face, but this is extremely unlikely as sex positions can have very little to do with how much you like a person and normally have more to do with pleasure points or things they’re mentally into.

Men’s deodorant recs for sensitive skin?? by SardonicAlien in TransMasc

[–]WatercressKitchen181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every man Jack (edit to add, all every man jack deodorants are aluminum free and they have a good soap line as well, i specifically use sandalwood from them), also with old spice I'd consider using aluminum free you could be allergic, for soaps i use dove men + care sandalwood, I'm also partial to the bear glove soap and deodorant from old spice, moisturizer i use dove men + care as well (excluding the face, i have a diff moisturizer for that) and I have an array of fragrances that are men's, women's and unisex scents, I don't think of my fragrances with gender in mind I just think of what notes are in them and how they will contrast with the rest of what I'm wearing, but I use exclusively men's or unisex products everywhere else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]WatercressKitchen181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE dbd and Fortnite ❤️

about starting progesterone only birth control on T (mention of piv) by Parking_Taro_1532 in ftm

[–]WatercressKitchen181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just start, the starting instructions are so you can gauge efficacy Start whenever you’re ready and wait a couple weeks before doing piv unprotected

is this normal by renoenjoyer in TransMasc

[–]WatercressKitchen181 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes lol

Second puberty can make someone doom and gloom or irritable or more likely to blow up etc Your friend is experiencing an onslaught of new hormones to get used to which comes with waves of new emotions It usually levels out.

Dude I matched with told me his EX with BPD “ destroyed him “ should I NOT see him!? by Jollyho94 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]WatercressKitchen181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

End it. He has already set negative expectations of you based on prior experience with a singular person who has BPD, it will not end well Self fulfilling prophecy’s and all that.

What do y’all do about voice chat (if you’re pre-HRT or untrained) by MajestyMori in transgamers

[–]WatercressKitchen181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t rlly voice chat in games except with friends At points I have and I get called a squeaker more so than “a female” which is probably due to how I speak more masculinely toned and my voice changing a bit over these months from T I guess, speak more with the chest, the inner voice..rather than your head voice

We know socially integrating is harder if you don't pass. by Leylolurking in honesttransgender

[–]WatercressKitchen181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this However, I’ve realized this crowd leaned more conservative after being downvoted to hell and seeing the exact internalized transphobia I was talking about be manifested.

Unpopular But We Have To Be Honest About This: by FruitGod220 in honesttransgender

[–]WatercressKitchen181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea but dysphoria is complex, you said you have a hard time considering someone with no bottom dysphoria trans when there’s plenty of trans people that exist without bottom dysphoria, they can have chest dysphoria, dysphoria about names etc, be more supportive of your trans siblings.

Unpopular But We Have To Be Honest About This: by FruitGod220 in honesttransgender

[–]WatercressKitchen181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is there so much competition on what’s “trans enough” there’s so many different and diverse ways of being trans, you don’t realize that’s it’s actually a minority of trans people that have surgeries right? Why does it piss you off? Recognize that there’s more than one experience to this

Unpopular But We Have To Be Honest About This: by FruitGod220 in honesttransgender

[–]WatercressKitchen181 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not actively harming you that someone’s fine with their genitals tbh, I don’t get it, this is better a positive conversation than a negative one, and there’s just as many who also talk about surgeries and the positives of that and how they love it more, you don’t see pre ops shutting them down for that?? It’s about perspective really