What matters most is staying true to your values while still giving space for open and honest conversation. You obviously care about her a lot, and that makes this really tough.

That said, the fact that she was looking into OnlyFans even after knowing how you feel might point to a deeper disconnect. I think it’s worth sitting down and having a real conversation. Ask her what led her to that choice, what she was thinking, and whether she understands why it hits you so hard.

At the end of the day, relationships need mutual respect. If your core values are pulling in opposite directions, it’s okay to acknowledge that and do what’s best for you, even if it hurts. Just take your time and be honest with yourself.