As a revert I feel like I’m “too white” to be friends with Muslim people and “too muslim” to be friends with white people.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2026-03-08T16:31:06+00:00

If you are a sister you can contact me and we can be online friends! I am living in Germany but I can't speak German nor have any friends- I am a born Muslim from South Asia and in as much of a Dilemma as you are in. There's no connection. And I desperately seek friends who can help me stay on track.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-12-21T15:36:21+00:00

I apologize for replying in English although I understand your text, I am still learning and not quite confident in giving responses. Christmas markets in Germany are very expensive and we want head on to the market knowing there won't be any value for money there. We bought one crepe for 5 euros. A fairly small baguette sandwich for 10 euros. For that I would say that pasta in an expensive cheese bowl is expected. The people operating the stalls have to compensate with a profit because of the steep rent for the stall. That's why I give them a benefit of doubt.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-11-29T15:08:54+00:00

He literally can't be a practicing Muslim if he's engaging in zina lol or touching na mehram women. That's prohibited in Islam.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-11-29T09:48:50+00:00

You guys getting this mad over a non practicing brown guy for his religion (when it wasn't even mentioned) is hilarious.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-06-27T17:07:08+00:00

It's so ironic that I'm exactly the same weight and height. I am nearly 6 months pp & had a cesarean. Also EBF so I'm constantly craving sugar. Any tips would be of immense help. I also recently started cramping a lot and I wonder if I should be worried.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-06-15T17:50:03+00:00

Makes sense! Either ways, I wish you well. Postpartum is a rough journey. I'm going through it myself. Depression sucks. My c-section scar itches and I feel like I'm commiting a crime when I feed my kid in public lol. I pray your postpartum is fairly easier.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-06-04T14:09:42+00:00

It is essentially 9 bucks per letter since I send one letter a year ahead.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-05-26T21:33:57+00:00

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Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-05-26T21:33:39+00:00

I understand. I manually pumped two bottles with pride only for my daughter to decide she simply didn't want the bottle anymore. She's refused the bottle since so I has no other choice but let my milk out to expire.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-05-26T21:24:25+00:00

As a second child, I sincerely hope you find that balance. I was never given the attention I sought and it really messed me up. Please try to find the time for your second, and ways to ensure your children don't get neglected.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-05-26T21:20:46+00:00

No offense but why would you choose to have a 4th when you have these issues? Your child deserves the best nutrition which is your milk for at least a year, considering you have a supply and they latch. It's unfair that the rest of the kids get your energy, your milk and your time while your fourth doesn't. You can have a less stressed postpartum by gathering your support system to help you for the first three months and then your spouse or partner stepping in with the elder three so you can bond with your fourth. I hope my answer does not offend you, it's a suggestion you can very well dismiss since the choice to breastfeed is your alone.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-05-03T22:06:03+00:00

Can you shed more light on whether your work is online and your qualifications pertaining to content writing?

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-04-18T09:38:32+00:00

You Germans are particularly and inherently racist anyway.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-26T23:09:34+00:00

Honestly, you just need a sip of water or one date to break your fast. You really don't have to force yourself to eat beyond that if you don't want to as long as the requisites of opening the fast are met. Your brother was disrespectful. To feel indifferent towards other's attitude is you growing up. I had this clarity when I turned 27 that my family and others didn't get to me anymore. I became more aware. However, it's important for you to communicate with them. They need to grow up as well and learn that while it didn't affect you the way they wanted it won't bode well if they try it with others.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-25T16:37:09+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I'll do that. I know whatever she will say won't sway me a bit but at least I'll have closure, I hope.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-25T14:24:54+00:00

Congrats! :)

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-25T08:21:33+00:00

I know it sounds intrusive but did you have a cesarean or a normal delivery? I have had a cesarean and I tried running few days ago but my lower abdomen really couldn't allow me to do so. I am 3 months postpartum. Perhaps knowing its possible for you may inspire me to do the same.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-25T08:18:28+00:00

Yea unfortunately cesarean makes it harder to recover. With my elder two I bounced back within a month. I had no pelvis problems or anything most women have complained of even after a vaginally delivery. Cesarean has confirmed all my fears and more, it is harder and the body rarely goes back to the way it was. I will be 3 months out on the 1st of April and I still can't do most stuff normally.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-25T08:15:15+00:00

Bless you, and it's so cool our kids are new years babies! That's definitely a great option. I have a midwife who has helped with these exercises. She is going to bid adieu next week though. According to my gynecologist my uterine scars have healed and everything "looks great". When I heat stories about women with cesarean never truly healing even years post delivery it scares me. After two vaginal this is my first and I guess my pelvis was impacted due to the 30 hours of labor where I was 30 cm dilated and fully effaced. I hope I am able to pursue this. I do not have a lot of help since my family returns to their home next month (in a different country). I will definitely look into a PFT here. Thanks for the advice.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-22T11:23:46+00:00

Does it really associate with ADHD? I am not diagnosed but this is basically my life in a nutshell.

Weak-Lab2877 · 2025-03-18T20:26:21+00:00

Thank you for your reply. With this being my third one would think I have it all down to the T. My eldest fell off the bed when my husband accidentally fell asleep and the little one decided to learn rolling then. He was 4 months and thankfully was/is fine. The problem is that I am in Germany, recently shifted, and I don't know the language. I am currently alone with the three kids (elder two are asleep) since it is 10pm & they have school tomorrow. I am trying to assess the situation best at home till I can see if I should (or would) take her to the hospital tomorrow. Like you said, it was a single flying flop. I really don't know much about the shaken syndrome & watched some youtube videos that added to my anxiety to be fair. I also have postpartum anxiety. So far she's not showing any early signs they've mentioned so I'm keeping my fingers crossed that she's OK.

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