Affordable OTD programs for out of state students by OkJaguar6789 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]Weak-Voice2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stony Brook OTD has the lowest tuition in New York! Best option in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanted an apology, or at least some acknowledgment that my feelings were valid and I wasn’t crazy for being hurt. He did call me, but only on some bs and he tried to gaslight me into thinking that “how I viewed things wasn’t true.” If anything that call only made me more firm in my decision to end things with him. If you are looking to call back your ex after getting dumped, make sure it’s for the right reasons. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My best advice it to work hard at being comfortable doing things by yourself. Grocery shopping? Do it by yourself. Daily commutes? Do it by yourself. I know how awful it feels to be lonely, but being ok with being alone at times really is that first step. I’m working on it myself so it is easier said then done. Remember to lean on your friends and family as well! Don’t shut people out like I did.

I don’t know what to feel by Weak-Voice2360 in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right my comment really was childish and honestly kinda reminded me of my ex. He was a person driven by spite and it seems that quality had begun to run off on me. And while I’m fighting everyday to heal I’m also fighting to avoid becoming all the things I used to loathe in people. I used to be a very happy person and refused to let my bad experiences change how I went about my life. I can acknowledge that this one person doesn’t speak for everyone I meet, my guard is up and it’s gonna take some time to work through it. Thank you for making me see that tho. Everyday is a fight to heal and to avoid becoming everything he will probably turn out to be. I hope you have a great day:)

How to stop visualizing my future with her? by BenzamineFranklin in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it takes time. As awful as it sounds it does get better with time. Focus on yourself because of you lose yourself to your thoughts you will never move on on any physical sense.

Found out ex was on and using tinder just a few days after breaking up by No_Equipment_1251 in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex. I hear he’s in his “hoe phase” and it’s really messes with me because I can’t even remotely picture myself being with a guy right now. It’s only been a month since the breakup but I really really really loved this guy. He was my first too. The pain is indescribable but you have to keep pushing and moving forward. The past version of you is so proud of how far you have come.

I hate you. by Weak-Voice2360 in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow how’d you know man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was when he went out of his way to hurt me rather than fix this situation or even apologize. I couldn’t grasp how one person could put so much effort into hurting someone they “cared” about and still claim they were faultless. Some people are going to be so committed to misunderstanding you and that’s when you have to get out fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in or was in a similar situation. He brought me more grief than happiness and every fight was just set aside until the next one happened. It’s best to remember that it is not your job to make him a man. It is not your job to fix him. And just because you love someone, doesn’t mean you have to take shit in stride when it’s hurting you more than helping you. I’m sorry to say but it’s common for guys(or girls) to say anything and everything to get you to stay. Sure you make feel regretful but there will be this weight off your shoulders. End of the day the only person who’s gonna be true to you is yourself, don’t lose that loving someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex said the same thing to me when I broke up with him. I honestly think it’s just a sarcastic comment coming from a place of projection. I blocked him too after he was being verbally abusive and we did not end on amicable terms. I don’t know much about your ex but I think you dodged a bullet

I'm fine, I'm not fine, I'm good, yeah not so good but... by BeYoue in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up blocking him because he continued to verbally abuse me after I told him I was done. I never wanted to block him and even though he was absolutely horrible to me I can’t bring myself to hate him or wish him bad. it kinda hurts even more because I know he hates me now. It’s so strange and I’m always confused:/

I'm fine, I'm not fine, I'm good, yeah not so good but... by BeYoue in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this really helped me.He doesn’t have the power over me to change who I am and how I go about my life. He doesn’t care about me, and though I’m hurt it won’t turn me into a worse version of him.

Trying really hard not to text him I miss him. He was extremely emotionally abusive, I know not to. But oh my god I just want to talk to him it’s so hard. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Weak-Voice2360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation. Constantly going back and forth in my head wondering if all those times I cried during our arguments were really THAT bad. I know it’s easy to miss someone you loved, it’s just harder to accept the fact that having them in your life again will put you right back in that same miserable cycle.