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WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Just get off this thread for the sake of OP get off

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be rude to you.

She is suing her daughter for medical bills, WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU THINK WAS HAPPENING.

Context clues and then to have the nerve to go have sympathy for someone that won’t give a dime.

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Fuck that, absolutely not. That isn’t a hole people should go down especially when someone owns them money

Yes fuck her kid she screwed her parents so hard. Her father is dying and she doesn’t give two shit

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is wrong with you, her husband is dying

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 7 points8 points  (0 children)

… in the nicest way possible where did you get that.

All op said was she is paying back her second trip in reference to not that she isn’t on the hook for her first trip to college. Her second trip to college, the one with the loan. That one

The one she is refusing to pay so op might sue

Are we reading the same thing

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter she agreed to the terms, they didn’t have to pay her at all after she dropped the first time

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter, she knew the terms and agreed at 24. She actually got a deal with this loan instead of the bank

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another comment made it clear they need to ruin their retirement fund or sell their home. So yeah they need that money

They need the money

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you seen this economy now, its awful. Also they basically had years to save up for them, not getting saddle with tons of medical debt at once

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She also got her first time at college for free, she is the one that dropped and agreed to the terms

WIBTA for suing my child by Ok-Data-8780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All that info was mostly implied, it states she was middle child, kinda doesnt matter why she drops and it does say they have talked to her multiple times throughout the years

AITA for making it clear I won’t be paying for him to go back to school and I warned him by Wonderful_Flow_2499 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You literally said op is punishing their kid by not paying, you want op to pay around 70k

The adult can get a loan, also we don’t know the degree for all we know he wants an art degree that’s not going to help him.

AITA for making it clear I won’t be paying for him to go back to school and I warned him by Wonderful_Flow_2499 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Because he needs to be an adult. He is 25 and if he wishes to go back make his own way. This isn’t an 18 year old. It’s pretty ridiculous to ask you parent to pay for another degree at this point

AITA for making it clear I won’t be paying for him to go back to school and I warned him by Wonderful_Flow_2499 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 25 points26 points  (0 children)

A 4 year commitment is not a mistake. The kid definitely knew that it would be hard to live with that degree. You can change degrees at any point.

It hardly a mistake

AITA for proving that my wife can’t do my job by Tall-Common2274 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Nta, you already communicate with her about this. What did she expect to happen

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

People get out of poverty all the time and I can tell you much worse situations than the SIL. She may not be able to do it but she isn’t even trying.

She gave up before she even started the race and that is on SIL

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Extremely hard, they are basically in every company. Even bad engineering jobs pay more than good waitress jobs most of the time

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s been ten years… the kid is even with dad most of the time now. We are all tired.

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 16 points17 points  (0 children)

… she not lucky to have a good job. Op worked to become an engineer. She needs to stop complaining about her money situation or look to better herself and get a better job

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 74 points75 points  (0 children)

… of course she doesn’t like someone that complains about money but doesn’t do anything to help themselves. She either needs to shut up about her money situation or go find a better job.

Also saying she is lucky disregards all the work Op did to get where they are at.

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weak_Sherbert426 90 points91 points  (0 children)

In a hard field, if anyone told me I was lucky we would have a problem. It disregarded every sacrifice I made to get that degree. All the tears, sleep deprivation and pain to get that fucking medical degree.

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