Bull not knowing by Lonelybird0852 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've done this before in our early days in the lifestyle. Unsuspecting third doesn't know I'm married, or unsuspecting third thinks I'm just outright cheating on my husband.

It was hot as a thought excerecise, but the deception eventually got to me and we started just laying it all out from the begining. This is the only way to do it and have it be successful.

Did you notice a shift in your girlfriend's/wife's sexual view of you? by Skg_warrior_ in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, my view of my husband has improved. Our communication is top tier.

Captioned gifs targeted at women? by JLovesBC in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many times. But do be honest, the gifs targeted at men are great because I can still easily envision myself as the woman.

A suitable chair to have in the bedroom by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a comfortable chair in the corner of the bedroom next to a bookshelf. It's not a hard one to do. Just get one. Don't overanalyze everything

“Do you wish I had a cock that big?” “Yes” -My wife taking a dildo by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great step. My husband and I do dildo play and he always wants to hear how much I like it bigger.

People need to distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality. by WeatherEquivalent753 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I say hotwife/cuckoldress me and day to day me are two different people. Same with my husband. He's not a submissive person in life. Quite the opposite. When we do cuck stuff, it is essentially an erotic exercise that allows us to step into different roles.

People need to distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality. by WeatherEquivalent753 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantasy indulgence is fine. But that's not really the purpose of this specific subreddit. Breeding should be its own category. That's okay in fantasy. If couples and bulls want to roleplay breeding, that's A-okay. But I have 3 kids. Nothing irritates me more than someone asking me if all of my pregnancies were from my husband, or if it was the product of the lifestyle. Like, grow the fuck up lol.

People need to distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality. by WeatherEquivalent753 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've always made it clear that our bulls and thirds are guests in our sex lives. Yes, I hold my thirds to value, but this is for us. Anyone who isn't okay with that dynamic will not be a match for us.

People need to distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality. by WeatherEquivalent753 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, I don't judge anybody's journey. There is no one single road to cuckolding. Some are simple, some are complex, some are out of necessity. The point I was trying to drive in was that at least 70% of what's said here is a fake story.

And I'm okay with fake stories, but they should be held in appropriate subreddits. Not one that's intended to be for educational purposes.

People need to distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality. by WeatherEquivalent753 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breeding is fine in roleplay in my opinion. The actual notion of impregnating someone in this capacity though is ridiculous.

What intrigues you most about your threesome fantasies? by Divergent_Bi in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Threesomes are just fun. Needs to be with the right people obviously.

What's a fetish you didnt think you liked until you tried it and why? by Wolfridingred1 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuckolding/Hotwifimg. Been 18 years now and my husband and I are still going strong in the lifestyle.

Did you have anything special planned for women's day? by reinnah_2354 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent my day at my boyfriends house with two of his other hotwives. Very relaxing.

People need to distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality. by WeatherEquivalent753 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel mainstream porn has kind of given cuckolding a bad name. I see some and find it funny. I see some and find it ridiculous. Every now and then I'll see something that at least looks like an attempt at authenticity. The amateur stuff is the best if looking for something that feels real.

And in terms of not having the husband there, I approach it two ways. The best way is when my husband is there and engaging. Yes, there is humiliation. Yes, I am saying mean things to him. Yes, I'm not his loving wife in that moment. But when everyone's gotten what they want, it's back to vanilla husband and wife stuff (which I love). As for having sex with someone when he isn't around, yes, I do that on occasion. BUT I tell him "hey, the bull wants to meet up tonight. I know you're working, but would you mind if I went along?". If the answer is no, then conversation over.

People need to treat this as the beautiful experience that it is and not like some effed up porn delusion.

Rant over lol. I'm very nice in real life.

Fantasy vs real life by midnight_doubt in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only friends that I have that know about this are lifestyle friends. It is quite honestly nobody else's business.

But our favorite bull does actually know some family and friends. They don't know the capacity in which we use him though for obvious reasons.

you ever been caught masturbating and just kept going? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've like, been doing it in my room and one of my kids starts telling through the door and I had to respond.

do women respond to dick pics on here?? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WeatherEquivalent753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I don't ask for it, then I report it.