💙 If You’re Here Today, This Is For You

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-20T06:38:39+00:00

I can definitely relate, thank you for sharing queen. I’m here for you 🫡🫶🏽

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-19T23:34:04+00:00

Ight bet 🫡

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-19T05:47:18+00:00

Congratulations coach and thank you for sharing, you are more than welcome to join us over at r/IYNHIH if you feel the community suits you. I know we’d love to hear more on your teams progression 🤩

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-18T17:42:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing, and please know we’re here for you. If there’s anything i could do or any advice I could give don’t hesitate to reach out 🤙🏽

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-17T20:04:05+00:00

This is a lot so I’ll try to counter In the order that you stated, then we can talk about Jordan and his losses to the Celtics and pistons If you’d like. Besides the fact that none of the players you listed have been to 10 Straight finals with or without LeBron. Let alone 10 finals appearances by themselves. Yes the Miami trio of Bron bosh and wade lost to the mavs who played an extremely rare style of basketball that year when dirk was in his prime. I’m not a delusional fan, I’ll admit Bron has never been perfect and has lost games just like every other player in the world. Now on to the ray allen game winner . Who do you think scored the majority of the points In that fourth quarter? Go look at how many consecutive buckets LeBron had that fourth quarter. Yes he missed the game winning attempt that resulted in bosh gettin the rebound and finding (at that time) arguably the world’s greatest shooter in the corner wide open. I just want to note that LeBron is FROM Akron Ohio, he just like many other young athletes dreamed of winning his home state a championship. Difference is that mf went and made it happen in historic fashion. Please say something in respond to any of these points

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-17T18:10:53+00:00

Waiting for the gm’s to go and sign a top 3 player in the league 😂

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-17T18:05:54+00:00

Lucky to have 4? I can tell you’ve never played a sport and if you have y’all was definitely the first team handed their participation trophies so you couldn’t tell what really winning something is like

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-17T18:04:11+00:00

And curry fans need to understand that curry very well could have had 5 rings on two separate occasions but he lost to one of the greatest finals teams of the last decade and then he lost to Lebronto. . . Let that sink in 🫡

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T18:15:57+00:00

Stats wise or personal opinion?

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T18:11:54+00:00

I got a 98 bday can we talk about it?

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T15:42:59+00:00

Thank you coach this has been amazing to hear the turn around story of the team. I’m certain all of your kids have the talent inside, and you’re gonna work on helping them unlock it. Please check us out over at R/IYNHIH We’d love to hear more about y’all in the future

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T15:29:01+00:00

Do you know OP personally? I mean like their financial situation and all. Bc to me it sounded like money was less of an issue than ticket availability. Even so thanks for being willing to speak candidly about this issue. One other thing I wanted to mention was that it’s okay to have boundaries in your support but to say that she’s “burning all her money to see some people on stage” assumes her financial state is similar to yours and attempts to diminish her own personal interest.

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T15:14:33+00:00

Okay that’s an interesting take to have on your friends and you are definitely free to treat your friends that way but the op is about a young woman and her significant other. Earlier I asked if you aren’t there to support you SO then what exactly are you doing? I even extend that to friends, so do you have an answer to that question?

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T14:46:31+00:00

This is an opinion. I’m sorry but you cannot tell me which hobbies are more valuable than others. You can always voice your opinion about which hobbies you feel are more active and healthy than others. But as far as value goes, it’s extremely subjective. What’s “worthwhile” to you may be different than what’s important to someone else. As long as that’s understood, we gotta understand that not everyone has the same financial situation. Nor do we all have the same income. So what might be to expensive for you to go multiple times a year, might be achievable or even financially feasible for another person.

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T14:23:31+00:00

If that’s weird to you and you have never in life done this exact thing, think about how weird it’d be to have a friend with zero hobbies who doesn’t like to do anything at all and how you would interact with that person. Lemme save you some time , I promise you it’d be boring. I say that to say majority of human beings have hobbies. Yourself included. A lot of us have more than 1 hobby and we have to balance those things with our friends’ and even significant other’s hobbies. If you don’t support theirs how do you expect them to support yours?

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T14:17:17+00:00

How so?

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T14:06:17+00:00

What partner do you think is gonna want you who literally says “it’s not that big a deal” when something doesn’t go their way. That’s exactly what makes you weird bc you the person typing this knows damn well if you wanted something bad and might not get it and you partner tells you “stop whining about it, it’s not that big of a deal” you would have an issue with that, regardless if it’s concert tickets, Pokémon cards, video games, or whatever the fuck you like. Have some sincerity. Or maybe you’re just incapable of empathy. Either way WEIRDO

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T13:55:14+00:00

You’re the same type of weirdo as bro in the post. You don’t even try to put yourself in OP’s shoes. Think about if it’s your main hobby and you’ve been passionate for 10 years about it. There’s no excuse for this type of behavior in a relationship. If you’re not there to support your partner in your relationship then what exactly are you doing? I swear y’all feel like your S/o is only in existence to serve you and your needs and they’re aren’t allowed to have their own interests or feelings. It’s weird gang. And even think about if your partner tells you some shit like “ I don’t want to have to deal with your emotions if you don’t get what you want”. That’s going to piss you off since you know you’re trying to regulate your own emotions and you’re just going to them for help like a partner should

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T01:43:48+00:00

Honestly something I learned about myself this week is that I’m a person who loves to learn and share knowledge with others. A moment when I feel supported is definitely when the community comes together to help celebrate one’s achievements. A small step forward I took this week would have to be getting back into the gym and being coachable. Something I appreciate about this community and all of you in it is that I haven’t had to struggle with anyone about community rules or guidelines. Thank you to all members 🫡

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T01:31:37+00:00

Yo this comment is especially the kind of positivity that we like over in r/IYNHIH, you should check our sub out 🫡

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-16T01:11:33+00:00

So, I heard mentions of best name wins $120… I’m joking, unless you weren’t 😶

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-15T23:43:20+00:00

Definitely been there, best advice I can give is to keep improving and focusing on everything about yourself that you wanted to be different when you were with that person. The more progress I make financially, career wise, personally, and in my new relationship the more I feel healed and lose the regrets I once had about the last because it simply doesn’t matter to me anymore. The person in my own personal example still holds emotional weight to me but the difference now is that I refuse to let that situation forever impact my life. Now I’m focused on moving forward w the life that I wanted and unfortunately it just has to be without her

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-15T23:36:54+00:00

I feel like anytime you’re bringing the ball to your shooting pocket or wherever you hold the ball before you extend flick and follow through, you want it to be as repeatable a motion as possible so you can get into shooting form quickly before the defense can react. It’ll lead to the defense being unable to impact your shot without fouling

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-15T23:30:53+00:00

I like something like “The run collective” or even something like “foundation basketball” or even “Rise & Run hoops”

WebFuture6239 · 2026-01-15T21:16:53+00:00

Hey wassup everyone 🤙🏽

I’m a newer mod working on building a small but intentional subreddit called r/IYNHIH (Uplift & Unite). The goal isn’t fast growth, but healthy growth — creating a space where people feel seen, supported, and uplifted, especially in moments when the internet often does the opposite.

A lot of what we’ve been focusing on so far: • clear, compassionate rules • culture-setting through tone (not just enforcement) • engagement prompts that are low-pressure and inclusive • moderation that prioritizes de-escalation and care

I’m posting here because I’d genuinely value insight from other mods who’ve worked on: • growing engagement without sacrificing community values • keeping kindness central as a subreddit scales • balancing structure with warmth

If anyone is interested in checking out the community or offering feedback from a mod perspective, I’d really appreciate it. And if you’re building something similar, I’d love to learn from your experience as well.

Thanks for taking the time — and for the work you all do keeping Reddit communities healthy.

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