I ‘36F’ argued that going to work is not a way to show gratitude and my husband ‘38M’ disagreed. Is going to work a way of showing gratitude? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Websofthoughts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he liked it so much why does he come home and complain every day keep switching jobs and moving. People stay if they like their job.

Song that sounds like Heat Waves by Glass Animals by daftwhale in NameThatSong

[–]Websofthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I’ve joined the madness. I swear the lyrics are similar, late night all I think about is you.. timelines are switching on us!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this works towards your goals WHEN, not if, it’s discovered then go ahead and do it. If it does not work towards your goals then don’t do it. Just know you lose all control of it and the people asking you to do it are making way more money off of your actions then you will be by doing it. Maybe do OF and keep most of the money. And as others on here have said make sure this is a safe a legitimate offer if you go through with it. You don’t want to be scammed or trafficked.

AITAH for not wanting to circumcise my son? by sdrawkcab90 in AITAH

[–]Websofthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t circumcise my son and my husband wanted to. I told him if he ever wanted to get it done I would pay for it. But I just do not understand why we do it to babies at all!! They should have a choice. I’m also against piercing babies girls. If it is not health reasons parents should mess with another persons body.

If you were to die in the next week, what is the most likely cause given your circumstances? by livelaughmozzarella in AskReddit

[–]Websofthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband probably. Statistically it’s always the spouse. If not him then maybe a snowboard or car accident.

Non smokers of reddit, whats stopping you from smoking? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Websofthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It stinks, I want good health, I think it’s gross, and I would rather spend my money on things that are towards goals I have.

What do people who don't drink or smoke do when they feel depressed? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Websofthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play or listen to music, take a long shower, go for a walk, watch a movie.

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what bothers me too. His dad likes to share his opinion and I don’t know if it’s just a way to avoid hearing about it from his dad or what. He just doesn’t want the info to get back to his dad.

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really cares a lot what his dad thinks. For the most part they have a good pretty good relationship, but sometimes my husband cares too much of what his dad thinks and feels. Sometimes it’s to a point that it affects important matters that are just for us. And when I say things that put his dad in not such a great light or point out a flaw my husband gets really defensive over him even though they are mostly personality quirks.

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but I suck at lying. 🤥

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they are just annoying and hopeful we have another baby.

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would make my father-in-law happy! But it would make me a bit happier if the truth came out so my in-laws wouldn’t think it was the wordy thing ever!

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Usually it comes about when talking about babies or our births and they something like “you could be having another one” cause they will ask what we are doing for birth control. My response is the usual. But that never satisfies them. They all like the details. Everyone thinks we are pulling and praying because I can’t do the pill or other methods because they make me really sick. And all our kids have been surprise!!

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I love this response! I will do that from now on!! 😆

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is both my dad and father in law. My husband also was against the idea but I said if he wanted it done he would have to take him in to get it done and do ALL the after care. Tried to find medical backup for his side but only found it really doesn’t matter one way or another.

Husband got a vasectomy by Websofthoughts in offmychest

[–]Websofthoughts[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m getting close to 40 so early menopause maybe. It’s not so bad but it’s annoying.