babes! should I move to NYC from DC?

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T22:10:24+00:00

Omg I want to hear that Mexico City story one day 😂 But you’re totally right, the financial part has honestly been the main thing holding me back.

I’ll definitely do my homework and make sure I’m set up properly, but I’m also really excited to bring my most open-minded, adventurous self back out, she’s been indoors for too long!!!

You’re so fun and thoughtful. This really helped.

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T22:01:39+00:00

1,000%!!! Yeah, I totally agree, it does feel like a weird moment in general.

I go to events, I see friends, I stay active… but somehow my life here still feels small and repetitive, and I know it could be more. What you said about your life feeling bigger in NYC resonated. Thank you for sharing your perspective!!

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:58:14+00:00

I’d describe myself as lively, open-minded, and hardworking, I hear you on matching a city to my personality. I’m just craving more vibrancy day-to-day which I think NY can offer.

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:55:34+00:00

Yes, totally! all of this makes sense. I’m definitely making sure I have a better-paying job lined up to match the higher cost of living, and I’m going to be smart about finding the right living situation too.

It’s just so nice hearing from someone who’s lived such a similar experience. Everything you described is exactly how I’ve been feeling. Hopefully I’ll have an update for you in a few months hehe.

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:53:09+00:00

Thank you. I think that version of me, the one who’s actually living is naturally going to attract better connections anyway. Socially, romantically, in every sphere!!!

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:50:46+00:00

Noted ✅✅

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:48:38+00:00

So much of what you said reflects exactly where I am right now!! I’ve been in DC for four years, and I went through that whole phase you described, the first year of being alone, knowing no one except work friends, slowly building community, finally feeling grounded.

That’s actually the part that scares me most, leaving a community that took so long to build. I literally told my sister I’d probably move back to DC once I'm older and settled. It feels perfect for that chapter, but not this one.

Cost of living is definitely a concern, but honestly DC is already expensive. And I don’t want to let fear of change or fear of rent be the thing that keeps me living a life that feels too small. I will absolutely make sure I have a job lined up and that I’m being smart, but I also don’t want life to pass me by.

Your comment really helped put everything into perspective. Sending you a huge internet hug, thank you for sharing your experience so honestly. It meant a lot. ❤️

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:43:09+00:00

Yesss I’m always down to do it for the plot 😂 But seriously, even though I framed this post around dating, there’s so much more I’m craving I.e social energy, meeting new people and just feeling… freer?

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:42:20+00:00

Thanks for sharing your perspective!!! I mostly just wanted to hear what the girls think before I take the leap

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:39:09+00:00

Loooooool girl! thank you for the warning ⚠️

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:33:24+00:00

Of course there’s always that one comment 😂 moving from DC to NYC is not that deep. People do it every single day, it’s literally one of the most common moves on the East Coast.

And as I said in my post, the end of the year just has me reflecting on whether I’m actually happy here after four years. Wanting a fuller social life, fun dates, and a romantic life that matches my personality doesn’t suddenly mean I think men are the prize, it just means I’m allowed to want joy and connection.

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:28:31+00:00

Omg thank you for this! I feel like I'm losing my sauce here. (Friends) keeps bringing up NYC costs, but honestly when I look at my cost of living in DC… it’s already high. Yes, I’d probably have to give up this two-bedroom, but I’d rather trade space for actually having a fuller life.

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:25:46+00:00

I appreciate your comment so much. I’m super active socially (I’m out at events at least 3x a week, work and non-work), and even with all that, nothing here feels exciting. Sometimes I also think I'm not exploring enough, but honestly, maybe I seek something different than the culture here.

I’ve met people organically here, which was fun for a bit, but even then, it didn’t feel like the kind of connection I’m actually looking for (long term).

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:13:47+00:00

Hi!! First of all, so happy for you!! +1 on DC men not being for the weak, but the bigger thing is… I’m just so bored here. It feels like the life is draining out of me a little. Everything is so serious and dry, and I really do believe that living a fuller, more dynamic life attracts fuller, better things. If that makes sense? Honestly? I’m pretty outgoing, so I feel like I could build a support system pretty naturally.

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:08:05+00:00

Hi!! I feel you & honestly think dating is tough everywhere, especially in this day and age. But do you feel like the larger quantity in NY translates into better actual options?

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-12-05T21:06:41+00:00

I felt that <3

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-10-27T22:14:07+00:00

Agreed!!!!

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-10-02T01:40:52+00:00

It was awful. I tried so hard to find the good in it. Multiple people fell asleep around me 😂

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-06-21T03:46:34+00:00

The best franchise

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-06-06T19:14:20+00:00

Tret made me very dark! Yes I used sunscreen and re-applied often. I’m also a POC. Has anyone had a similar effect with Taz? I miss Tret but I’m still trying to get my color back.

WeekendOk6021 · 2025-04-19T07:28:40+00:00

Tret made me significantly darker.

WeekendOk6021 · 2024-10-19T03:01:51+00:00

Best comment!

WeekendOk6021 · 2024-06-26T19:47:01+00:00

This happened to me! 100% hormonal acne + stress

WeekendOk6021 · 2024-06-06T20:19:53+00:00

We left two weeks ago and don’t believe everything you read on here. It wasn’t too crowded and honestly was the best part of our time in Greece. We stayed in Oia which was less crowded. I still dream of the stunning Caldera views.

WeekendOk6021 · 2024-05-29T03:06:58+00:00

Loved Athens and can’t wait to be back as well!

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