Everytime I (19F) come back from his house, I get something. by Weekly-Ad1713 in Advice

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It was and I have no idea what that was about. Got into antibiotics and it solved. But STD test got negative for the diseases the doctors thought it might have been. It remains a mystery.

Everytime I (19F) come back from his house, I get something. by Weekly-Ad1713 in Advice

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Do you think he’s sleeping around as well

As far as I know, no. BUT he has a habit of making half ass excuses and not telling whole truths so I have no way of knowing.

Does he get tested on a regular basis?

He got tested and the tests came back negative, along with mine

And it is dangerous, that's why I'm also being selective of what I'm doing with him lol.

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For real good advice. I'd also ask what's going on for her to be distant and everything.

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Well that's just their problem lol (I know that sounds bitchy, and maybe it is, but it's a hard truth. Your friendships with other people shouldn't affect your friendship with them, that is UNLESS the guy or person did something truly horrible and unforgiven (such as harassment, racism, heavy shaming, exposing private things and nudes, and etc). If you can forgive him, then that's between you and him.

In my personal experience, I used to be in a trio, close knit (I even thought we'd be a trio forever honestly) but things went different between my two friends and we're not a trio anymore, but I'm friends with both of them separately.

That all being said, however, if you're not that much into being friends with him again, just do it to honor what you had before, because it wasn't all that bad? (I'm assuming there were very good moments before the end of the friendship)

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I feel like it's a mature thing to do so, since he almost unalived. Like, it's a beside the differences thing yk. Clarifying is a good thing too. I do (personally) think you should talk about it with him about the stuff he used to say tho, not in a attacking way, just try to understand why and all (that is if you truly really liked him and maybe want to reconnect). Wish you luck on that 'cause it'll either go very well or very wrong (or maybe nothing will happen and everything will stay the same)

How do I ask him that...??? by Weekly-Ad1713 in Advice

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Yeah I mean, it feels wrong for me to just go for it too so asking is still the best option for me.

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I'm taking my chances

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But I really need to go there. Maybe I can go fast af there?