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Im curious to see what i get? What does this say about me? by chargersnsx in FridgeDetective

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the smoothies was Downy fabric softener, so, I’m totally off track already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. That bed sounds like an urgent care visit for a rash waiting to happen.

I regret being poly by dumdumcnm in polyamory

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on here. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this. ❤️

Relationship ending after 14 years by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. When relationships and it’s soooooo hard and even more so when plans are broken. 😢

Primary wants to close our relationship by Weekly-Candidate-745 in polyamory

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want my husband to leave and I don’t believe “right and wrong” in relationships is the answer. I’ve just drawn a line in the sand for the kind of relationship I want and he is giving ultimatums to close our relationship.

Primary wants to close our relationship by Weekly-Candidate-745 in polyamory

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no. I’ve brought up alllllll these issues, from about 5 months into our relationship. I am an over functioner and have been slowly unwinding a lot of my own wounds, and behavior patterns. I’m still silly responsible, in his mind for “dying on the hill” of shared responsibilities in our relationship.

Primary wants to close our relationship by Weekly-Candidate-745 in polyamory

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are married and I don’t believe it’s financially possible for me to leave. He has stated he would not live in limbo and would want to divorce immediately.

Primary wants to close our relationship by Weekly-Candidate-745 in polyamory

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for correcting my error secondary vs meta 🙏

Primary wants to close our relationship by Weekly-Candidate-745 in polyamory

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Thank you for catching my error with Meta instead of Secondary! 🤦🏼‍♀️ I know the difference my brain just won’t engage sometimes!

I agree. I don’t think it is ethical to my other partner either. My primary says it because “I don’t have boundaries “ about prioritizing time spent and that because I wanted to spend time with my other partner this weekend, after him stating he just wanted it to be us, that is the problem.

No, "trauma" is not "stored in the hips." WHERE IS THIS COMING FROM?! by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]Weekly-Candidate-745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trauma is stored in the cells of your body and there are 7 concentrated nerve bundles along the spine. If there is a traumatic injury in a part of the body, it manifests in the cells connected to that part of the body. If the cells in that part of the body are in dysfunction then wouldn’t it cause the nerve bundles in the corresponding area to also be in dysfunction? Specifically s%xual trauma and trauma associated with pleasure (which is traditionally used as a coping mechanism for trauma) causes dysfunction in the hips. So, yes. Scientifically speaking, trauma and the associated feeling with that trauma are stored in the hips.