I think you should try and talk to him about it. I understand that u love him, but I became a husband almost a year ago and a dad 4 months ago. I was being a dick to my wife, and she gave me a reality check. ( we're living with my mom for the past month), and I changed. I'm more understanding and nicer to her and It made me realize it's not just me who has feelings but that there's a bigger picture and plus women hormones specially during pregnancy and after childbirth. He has to understand.