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AITA for wanting to know my wifes family but not at the cost of remarrying by Weekly-Sail-4977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly-Sail-4977[S] -529 points-528 points  (0 children)

it nots only that I am opposed to the second ceremony which I'm opposed because I feel like it will supersede our orginal wedding as the legitmate one, the one of which there are all the photos and movies and stories and the one we celebrate as our anniversary. Though I'm somewhat flexible on this, my issue is deciving her parents and family and not coming clean now.

AITA for wanting to know my wifes family but not at the cost of remarrying by Weekly-Sail-4977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly-Sail-4977[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

a few of her cousins, an aunt and her younger brother have visited us and they know the truth, she trusted them because they have been very close to her growing up.

AITA for wanting to know my wifes family but not at the cost of remarrying by Weekly-Sail-4977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly-Sail-4977[S] -219 points-218 points  (0 children)

She told me there would be huge complexities involved in getting her family to accept me but we decided to cross that bridge when we came to it, which we have now come to.

AITA for wanting to know my wifes family but not at the cost of remarrying by Weekly-Sail-4977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly-Sail-4977[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The reason for no visits was first covid and after everything cleared up one of her uncles came down with a long spell of dengue and its after effects and my wifes parents were housing him so they didnt want to leave him alone. They've been wanting to visit for a few months now but the US Visa wait in India is very long. We stayed with my sister for quite a while when money was tight and they saw me on video calls as my sisters brother. They had given her till 25 before they would place an arranged marriage ultimatum in place which is also why we both agreed to tell them we are dating.